Frozen Gem

Im getting my tooth extracted in jist over a week amd getting a crown, I got a temporary filling a few weeks ago to tide me over but started getting bad toothache. It comes in waves and ive been trying to tough it out till my appointment but today I noticed a lump above my tooth that I think has been there a little while and think its an abcess. Should I just wait or will it need to be taken care of before my extraction?

I've been quite curious for a while because I was never really attracted to either gender until i was eighteen and now I am attracted to both. I do gravitate more toward men but I haven't been in a relationship yet. I am curious about being with a woman but I'm a bit shy and don't know how to pursue it. I also don't want to get involved with a girl and then find out i'm straight as it wouldn't be fair on them.

I am really lonely and wonder if I am just reaching for any kind of company plus I have spent most of my teenage to adult life involved int he lgbt community through friends and organisations so I wonder if that could be confusing my compass so to speak.

I love movies like Jump In, Whip It ad Stick It (movies bout comptitions e.g Jump roe, Roller derby, gymnastics) I' love to watch more with unusual sports so no cheerleading or footbll, baseball, basketbal etc lol

Before anyone starts going on about how EVERYONE thinks they have ADD and use it as an excuse, I found out about ADD (before the hype) because my mum was researching my symptoms. There are many signs and i'm pretty sure I have innattentive ADD. I'm not using as an excuse but according to alot of the things i've read it could explain my lack of focus, motivation, organisation etc I am 100% confident I have it. the only question is should I get it diagnosed by a proffessional and how do i do that?

My mum and dad are very relaxed about the whole thing (really don't wanna get into it lol) so they haven't been very bothered about getting me some help even though they promised too. I'm currently applying to go to uni and I would like to go there with my bases covered. I have alot of doubts and i want to go knowing i don't have something thats going to pull me down. I know there's no magic cure and I will probably still have problems and it may not fix everything. It just keeps eating at me and I want to know from fellow ADD sufferers if getting diagnosed is really worth it. does medication really work? if u have been diagnosed and being treating are u more focused, motivated etc?

I just don't know anymore. If i get into uni i'll be moving to england hopefully near manchester so if anyone could recomend a good place to go to get diagnosed that would help. thanks.

I just turned 18 and i'm no where near having a boyfriend let alone a relationship but i've always been worried about losing my virginity and i want to be at ease before i meet someone.

i'm really scared for many reasons. from what i have read it's painful when ur hymen breaks also there's bleeding which would be messy and embarrassing. plus i really dont like my body including my breasts so i dont know if i'll ever be comfortable being naked. and also i do masturbate and a while ago i started to squirt which was quite freaky lol. i know it's normal but it's messy and uncomfortable. I always stop when i feel it coming on unless im in the bath cause i dont want to get my bed wet. also i shake or jerk alot when i peak and thats really embarrasing.

am i worrying about nothing. how can i be more at ease. i want to do it before i'm married cause i want it to be special but not so special that im with the guy for ages lol.

Me and my family have known for a long time that i had a behavioural disoreder but recently i found out i had ADD long story but i need to be professionally diagnosed so i can get treatment. the thing is i have been to phsychiatrists before but they didn't pick up on it then again this is before i knew.

if i finally get to a therapist i don't know what to say. do i say hi i think i have ADD lol? i just worried im gunna go to another shrink and it will be a big waste of time because we wont get anywhere and i'll just stop going.

any ideas?

can anyone think of some really funny questions ?? or just rhetorical or ironic ones :D

like:-

why isn't phonetic spelt how it sounds?

what was the best thing before sliced bread?

When cheese gets its picture taken, what does it say?

How can there be self-help “groups”?

If a mime played a blank tape at full blast, would it hurt his ears?

Whose cruel idea was it for the word “Lisp” to have a “S” in it?

why dont sheep shrink when it rains?

Why do Kamikaze pilots wear helmets?

or my fave:- If toast always lands butterside down, and cats always land on their feet, what would happen if you strapped toast to a cats back and dropped it?

Please don't answer other peoples questions it's so annoying lol

(example:- why do we put a round pizza in a square box? because you can't make a round box that packs flat!)

i mean thats just boring lol

when me and my sisters were young, on april fools day my mum gave my sister 10 pounds to go buy some elbow grease from the shop lol

she took half an hour lol

I know this is a heavy question for yahoo answers lol but i dnt know who to talk to. i dont want to talk to my family because they are firmly in the pro side and i dont wanna dissapoint them if i decide not to go.

i have had alot, ALOT of problems with school in the past i didn't even finish high school (i know need to do sumthing to even get into college) but basically im sitting on my a** 24 hours a day with nothing to do with my life. no social life, no job no life at all.

so i have been thinking lately what to do with my life and i keep thinking about going to college. i need to meet people and i need something to make my life worthwhile not to mention the need for an education. most i have is 5 really bad GCSE's.

i'm worried that i just can't do it. i have problems with attendance, organization, motivation and social skills. but i still feel this is something i need to do with my life. im just afraid cus im not super excited or dedicated. i dont know if i could make it. i think i need to be in a dorm with someone i dont know cus im too comfortable at home. its complicated i dont know if anyone can help me but i think i just needed to get this out.

i would go to a shrink but they seriously get on my nerves (dont ask lol) anyway thnx to anyone who reads this and especially to anyone who answers even if it's just a "hang in here"

when i masturbate the pleasure builds up and before peak or at peak not quite sure, i shake when i rub, like a kinda violent twitch. like it's too much. is it because im over sensitive.

may sound wierd but how do i stop it cus its way too much and i end up having to stop. i dont know if i have had an orgasm if i have then i thought it would be more lol