Victoria Meyer

So my fiancee and I are wishing for a very small, intimate ceremony with a reception that includes everyone . We are a very quite, reserved couple who have been together forever (11 years) so we really don't want a huge event .

If we could we would go somewhere else to get married to avoid the chaos and hurt that might come with the whole event .

We really just want our parents, our children , close friends, grandparents, and certain family members who we have been close to to attend the ceremony . However if we do this we are afraid that some people would be upset that they where not invited. Another thing we are having issues with is the cost of food ...with all family, a handful of friends between the two of us we are estimating close to 300 people. We are paying for it ourselves and honestly we cant afford to feed all. But my mom and some family members on my dads side have leaked that my fiancee and I are getting married ...so now everyone is assuming we are having a huge reception and everyone is invited =/ We have had a few family members offer to help out but as April draws closer there has been no mention of help...We just don't know what to do ...I feel like giving up and going to a court house and get it over with. Like I said we want to have something ...but I feel like it is way over our heads and budget to do anything . Our budget allows for 3000 dollars to be spent at most !!!!! What can we do? I am ready to give up .

I was 9 days late on my monthly visitor . Today I started spotting after being intimate, and from then on out me period got heavier and heavier with severe cramping from my lower back down to my tailbone and in my pelvic area. This evening I went to the bathroom and completely filled the toilet with blood. A little while later I went to the bathroom again and the blood was stringy and I had passed a long thick wad of blood . I recently have had severe gas pains and side pains ... Could I have been pregnant and not known and miscarried or is this just what happens once you have children and get older. ( I have a 2 year old and I am 27. )

SORRY IF IT IS A TMI ...I just want to include the details ...

Thanks in advance for any answers.