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  • Am I over anxious or should I be worried? Be grateful for all advice please?

    i went on a first date with a guy saturday evening, hes 28 im 21. it was our first time to meet each other in person so it was kind of casual we went shopping and then for food. i wasnt sure what to make of it though. we have been texting for 3 weeks prior to that as our mutual friend tried to set us up. on the date he brought up our mutual mate and asked me how come me and him never hooked up when we speak so highly of each other and i explained we were just friends. we didnt kiss i just gave him a hug as i left and he said it was lovely meeting you. i text him later that night to thank him for this evening and he text back saying it was lovely to meet you i had fun hope to see you again :) x monday night he started a conversation on fb chat just general conversation and then he just said "looking forward to seeing you again :)" i text him last night and we were talking about our plans for the weekend and he told me for the second time he would be back in my current city next week. then he just didnt text back and he always does at some stage. is this a bad sign that hes loosing interest? i dont understand why at the start of the week he would say "looking forward to seeing you again" and now just drop it?

    2 AnswersMarriage & Divorce10 years ago
  • Should I be worried or am I just paranoid? I would be greatful if someone would give me their advice?

    i went on a first date with a guy saturday evening, hes 28 im 21. it was our first time to meet each other in person so it was kind of casual we went shopping and then for food. i wasnt sure what to make of it though. we have been texting for 3 weeks prior to that as our mutual friend tried to set us up. on the date he brought up our mutual mate and asked me how come me and him never hooked up when we speak so highly of each other and i explained we were just friends. we didnt kiss i just gave him a hug as i left and he said it was lovely meeting you. i text him later that night to thank him for this evening and he text back saying it was lovely to meet you i had fun hope to see you again :) x monday night he started a conversation on fb chat just general conversation and then he just said "looking forward to seeing you again :)" i text him last night and we were talking about our plans for the weekend and he told me for the second time he would be back in my current city next week. then he just didnt text back and he always does at some stage. is this a bad sign that hes loosing interest? i dont understand why at the start of the week he would say "looking forward to seeing you again" and now just drop it?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • no one is answering can someone please answer and give me their opinion?

    i went on a first date with a guy saturday evening, hes 28 im 21. it was our first time to meet each other in person so it was kind of casual we went shopping and then for food. i wasnt sure what to make of it though. we have been texting for 3 weeks prior to that as our mutual friend tried to set us up. on the date he brought up our mutual mate and asked me how come me and him never hooked up when we speak so highly of each other and i explained we were just friends. we didnt kiss i just gave him a hug as i left and he said it was lovely meeting you. i text him later that night to thank him for this evening and he text back saying it was lovely to meet you i had fun hope to see you again :) x monday night he started a conversation on fb chat just general conversation and then he just said "looking forward to seeing you again :)" i text him last night and we were talking about our plans for the weekend and he told me for the second time he would be back in my current city next week. then he just didnt text back and he always does at some stage. is this a bad sign that hes loosing interest? i dont understand why at the start of the week he would say "looking forward to seeing you again" and now just drop it?

    7 AnswersSociology10 years ago
  • is this guy interested?

    saturday evening I met up with a guy I have been texting for the past 3 weeks. It was our first time to meet each other so kind of casual and We went to look at cars and them for food but I'm a real picky eater and he's by so I felt a bit uncomfortable and I know it was a bit of a turn off for him. He was very mature and grounded and serious type of person and spoke about the most important thing to him would be to find someone to love as opposed to money etc. he is very attractive and i fancy him and like him. We also talked a lot about our mutual friend, my date said he couldn't understand why me and his mate never hooked up when we were so close but I explained me and him were just friends. He also talked a lot about his ex gfs and what he looks for in girls etc. and how dating is a game. At the end of the date he never tried to kiss me or anything so I just gave him a hug and thanked him and that was it. He's 28 I'm 21. Also when I got out of the car he said it was nice 2meet you by the way. I text him later on and said thanks for tonight and he said I had fun was lovely meeting you hope to see you again. so last night he pops up on fb chat just general conversation and then said "looking forward to meeting you again" so is he interested?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Am i mad or weird to have moved such a distance for work and "city life"? would really appreciate your opinion?

    I am 21 years old. In June I moved from the country to the capital city of my country for both a job and my ex bf. He lives in this city and I moved in with him and his family. Needless to say it didnt work out but I loved my job and had made a few friends but loved the city life so I decided to stay and got my own place. I now live on my own and have a new job and rarely see my "city" friends as much but I am still content with workin here during the week and going home at the weekends. Often people ask me my story and when I tell them this i feel they look at me as if to say its a bit silly or weird. What do you think?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • need dating advice badly would really appreciate if someone would give me their advice on this please?

    yesterday evening I met up with a guy I have been texting for the past 3 weeks. It was our first time to meet each other so kind of casual and We went to look at cars and them for food but I'm a real picky eater and he's by so I felt a bit uncomfortable and I know it was a bit of a turn off for him. He was very mature and grounded and serious type of person and spoke about the most important thing to him would be to find someone to love as opposed to money etc. he is very attractive and i fancy him and like him. We also talked a lot about our mutual friend, my date said he couldn't understand why me and his mate never hooked up when we were so close but I explained me and him were just friends. He also talked a lot about his ex gfs and what he looks for in girls etc. and how dating is a game. At the end of the date he never tried to kiss me or anything so I just gave him a hug and thanked him and that was it and he said it was a pity i wasnt going out tonight. He's 28 I'm 21. Also when I got out of the car he said it was nice 2meet you by the way. I text him later on and said thanks for tonight and he said I had fun was lovely meeting you hope to see you again.

    So my questions are a) does this mean he's been polite or want to see me again for a second date and is still interested?! b) how long should i wait before hearing from him again if he is interested?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • need dating advice badly would really appreciate if someone would give me their advice on this please?

    yesterday evening I met up with a guy I have been texting for the past 3 weeks. It was our first time to meet each other so kind of casual and We went to look at cars and them for food but I'm a real picky eater and he's by so I felt a bit uncomfortable and I know it was a bit of a turn off for him. He was very mature and grounded and serious type of person and spoke about the most important thing to him would be to find someone to love as opposed to money etc. he is very attractive and i fancy him and like him. We also talked a lot about our mutual friend, my date said he couldn't understand why me and his mate never hooked up when we were so close but I explained me and him were just friends. He also talked a lot about his ex gfs and what he looks for in girls etc. and how dating is a game. At the end of the date he never tried to kiss me or anything so I just gave him a hug and thanked him and that was it and he said it was a pity i wasnt going out tonight. He's 28 I'm 21. Also when I got out of the car he said it was nice 2meet you by the way. I text him later on and said thanks for tonight and he said I had fun was lovely meeting you hope to see you again.

    So my questions are a) does this mean he's been polite or want to see me again for a second date and is still interested?! b) how long should i wait before hearing from him again if he is interested?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • would really appreciate if someone would give me 5 mins and give me their honest opinion on this date?

    yesterday evening I met up with a guy I have been texting for the past 3 weeks. It was our first time to meet each other so kind of casual and We went to look at cars and them for food but I'm a real picky eater and he's by so I felt a bit uncomfortable and I know it was a bit of a turn off for him. He was very mature and grounded and serious type of person and spoke about the most important thing to him would be to find someone to love as opposed to money etc. he is very attractive and i fancy him and like him. We also talked a lot about our mutual friend, my date said he couldn't understand why me and his mate never hooked up when we were so close but I explained me and him were just friends. He also talked a lot about his ex gfs and what he looks for in girls etc. and how dating is a game. At the end of the date he never tried to kiss me or anything so I just gave him a hug and thanked him and that was it. He's 28 I'm 21. Also when I got out of the car he said it was nice 2meet you by the way. I text him later on and said thanks for tonight and he said I had fun was lovely meeting you hope to see you again. So my question is does this mean he's been polite or want to see me again for a second date and is still interested?! also how long should i wait before hearing from him again if he is interested?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • first date in 5and a half years and i dont know what to think can someone please give me their opinion?

    This evening I met up with a guy I have been texting for the past 3 weeks. We went to look at cars and them for food but I'm a real picky eater and he's by so I felt a bit uncomfortable and I know it was a bit of a turn off for him. We also talked a lot about our mutual friend, my date said he couldn't understand why me and his mate never hooked up when we were so close but I explained me and him were just friends. He also talked a lot about his ex gfs and what he looks for in girls etc. and how dating is a game. At the end of the date he never tried to kiss me or anything so I just gave him a hug and thanked him and that was it. He's 28 I'm 21. Also when I got out of the car he said it was nice 2meet you by the way. I text him earlier and said thanks for tonight and he said I had fun was lovely meeting you hope to see you again. So my question is does this mean he's been polite or want to see me again for a second date?!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • is he being polite or hinting at a second date? be really appreciative if someone would give me their opinion?

    This evening I met up with a guy I have been texting for the past 3 weeks. We went to look at cars and them for food but I'm a real picky eater and he's by so I felt a bit uncomfortable and I know it was a bit of a turn off for him. We also talked a lot about our mutual friend, my date said he couldn't understand why me and his mate never hooked up when we were so close but I explained me and him were just friends. He also talked a lot about his ex gfs and what he looks for in girls etc. At the end of the date he never tried to kiss me or anything so I just gave him a hug and thanked him and that was it. He's 28 I'm 21. Also when I got out of the car he said it was nice 2meet you by the way. I text him earlier and said thanks for tonight and he said I had fun was lovely meeting you hope to see you again. So my question is does this mean he's been polite or want to see me again for a second date?!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • i cant understand this at all it would mean a lot if someone would spare a few minutes and help me on this?

    i have been texting a guy i know of through a friend. hes 28 im 21. we havent met in person but have been texting and spoke briefly about meeting this weekend and he told his mate he would meet me aswell.. as i told him im renting a new apartment and he asked me when was the house warming and where was his invite! i told him he didnt need an invite and then asked me was i a good cook! i said i was and asked him when was he home again and he said weekend after next and i said u can come over then and il cook for ya he said good stuff il bring dessert hah!! this was all in a "flirty smiley face haha" way so i dont know if he was genuine or not. we havent spoke in a week so i dont know what the story is. last night our mate put up a status on fb about how depressed he was and this guy put up im sure "mary" (me) would call round and keep you company and cheer you up with a smiley face and our friend replied shes a good mate. i dont know what he meant by this. i text him today just hey hows you etc and he never replied. what is going on witht his guy one minutes hes interested next he goes all cold? is he still interested or trying to back out?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME THEIR OPINION AND ADVICE ON THIS PLEASE?

    i have been texting a guy i know of through a friend. we havent met in person but have been texting and spoke briefly about meeting this weekend. so i told him im renting a new apartment last week and he asked me when was the house warming and where was his invite! i told him he didnt need an invite and then asked me was i a good cook! i said i was and asked him when was he home again and he said weekend after next and i said u can come over then and il cook for ya he said good stuff il bring dessert hah!! this was all in a "flirty smiley face haha" way so i dont know if he was genuine or not. we havent spoke in a week so i dont know what the story is. last night our mate put up a status on fb about how depressed he was and this guy put up im sure "mary" (me) would call round and keep you company and cheer you up with a smiley face and our friend replied shes a good mate. i dont know what he meant by this. is he still interested or trying to back out? should i text him or take it that if he wants me he'l text me?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • im so so confused about these mixed signals can someone please help me sort this out and help me?

    i have been texting a guy i know of through a friend. we havent met in person but have been texting and spoke briefly about meeting this weekend. so i told him im renting a new apartment last week and he asked me when was the house warming and where was his invite! i told him he didnt need an invite and then asked me was i a good cook! i said i was and asked him when was he home again and he said weekend after next and i said u can come over then and il cook for ya he said good stuff il bring dessert hah!! this was all in a "flirty smiley face haha" way so i dont know if he was genuine or not. we havent spoke in a week so i dont know what the story is. last night our mate put up a status on fb about how depressed he was and this guy put up im sure "mary" (me) would call round and keep you company and cheer you up with a smiley face and our friend replied shes a good mate. i dont know what he meant by this. is he still interested or trying to back out? should i text him or take it that if he wants me he'l text me?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • badly need advice on this im very worried pleading with someone to please help me?

    i have been texting a guy i know of through a friend. we havent met in person but have been texting and spoke briefly about meeting this weekend. so i told him im renting a new apartment last week and he asked me when was the house warming and where was his invite! i told him he didnt need an invite and then asked me was i a good cook! i said i was and asked him when was he home again and he said weekend after next and i said u can come over then and il cook for ya he said good stuff il bring dessert hah!! this was all in a "flirty smiley face haha" way so i dont know if he was genuine or not. we havent spoke in a week so i dont know what the story is. last night our mate put up a ststus on fb about how depressed he was and this guy put up why dont ya ask mary round im sure she'l cheer you up. i dont know what he meant by this. is he still interested or trying to back out? should i text him or take it that if he wants me he'l text me?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • can someone please spare two minutes and give me their honest opinion on what to do with this please?

    i have been texting a guy i know of through a friend. we havent met in person but have been texting and spoke briefly about meeting this weekend. so i told him im renting a new apartment last week and he asked me when was the house warming and where was his invite! i told him he didnt need an invite and then asked me was i a good cook! i said i was and asked him when was he home again and he said weekend after next and i said u can come over then and il cook for ya he said good stuff il bring dessert hah!! this was all in a "flirty smiley face haha" way so i dont know if he was genuine or not. we havent spoke in a week so i dont know what the story is. is he still interested or trying to back out? should i text him or take it that if he wants me he'l text me?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • what should i do? i would really appreciate if someone would spare a few minutes and help me out on this?

    i have been texting a guy i know of through a friend. we havent met in person but have been texting and spoke briefly about meeting this weekend. he also told my mate that when hes home this weekend he was going to meet me and see what happens. but we havent spoke in neearly a week now. i know hes coming home friday and going out saturday night with my mate and going back sunday. i started the conversation last week and i know it sounds dumb but i dont want to be the one to text him first all the time so what should i do leave him and hope hel contact me or just text him and see what the story is? what should i do ?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • what should i do text him or leave him? be greatful for all advice please?

    i have been texting a guy i know of through a mate. we havent met in person but spoke briefly about meeting this weekend. he also told my mate that when hes home this weekend he was going to meet me and see what happens. but we havent spoke in neearly a week now. i started the conversation last week and i know it sounds dumb but i dont want to be the one to text him first all the time so what should i do leave him and hope hel contact me or just text him and see what the story is?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • i really want to be friends with my ex but dont know what to do? can someone please help me with this?

    me and my ex were together for a year and had a long distance relationship but we decided i would move in with him and his family during the summer. it was grand at the beginning but then we split up, i moved out but stayed living in the same city as him. things got messy because we owned a dog together and he took her but never gave me the money for my half. both our families got involved and i know he probably hates me for all that has happened. but the thing is i miss him. i dont want to get back with him or anything like that but i miss talking to him and would really like a friendship with him and to forget the past. i am contemplating texting him but i dont know what to say and i dont wnat to look desperate or that i need him either so what should i do ? if i should take the chance and text him what should i say ?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • what should i do take a chance or play safe? would like genuine advice please?

    so i have been texting a guy for the past 3 weeks. we havent met yet and we know each other through a mutual friend. hes a footballer so lives 3 hours away from where we are from. hes really nice and my mate says he has planned to meet me when he comes home. but the thing is the season is nearly over now so him and his mate are looking into offers of going abroad to play football next year and are going for trials in december. so my question is should i start meeting him when i know theres a possibility he could be moving country? if i dont meet him i will regret it as i really like him and if i do i will probably gain feelings for him and will end up hurt in january so i dont know what to do take the chance and hope for the best or play safe? also if he new he would be moving country then why would he want to start something either?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • what should i do take a chance or play safe? would like genuine advice please?

    so i have been texting a guy for the past 3 weeks. we havent met yet and we know each other through a mutual friend. hes a footballer so lives 3 hours away from where we are from. hes really nice and my mate says he has planned to meet me when he comes home. but the thing is the season is nearly over now so him and his mate are looking into offers of going abroad to play football next year and are going for trials in december. so my question is should i start meeting him when i know theres a possibility he could be moving country? if i dont meet him i will regret it as i really like him and if i do i will probably gain feelings for him and will end up hurt in january so i dont know what to do take the chance or play safe?

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago