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Been considering some strictly NSA side action. Does that make me a bad person?

A little background - I'm wanting to incorporate my HP Media Center desktop system into an existing wireless network. I've tried the N600 adapter but I just don't think it's fully compatible with the router, which is an older model I inherited from a friend. Any help will be GREATLY appreciated. Thank you.

I would've welcomed it (especially from my 8th grade teacher - she had huge breasts!) and would NOT have said a word about it!

My friend's 16 year-old daughter, who's very pretty, posted some bikini pics of herself on Facebook yesterday. I clicked LIKE on a few of them. No comments. Just LIKES. This morning, I log onto FB and notice she's no longer in my friends list. The rest of her family still is, however. Even though I've never given her any reason to be uncomfortable around me, I'm afraid I may have creeped her out. Now, I'm a 43 year-old, happily married man and father of a daughter myself. I have no desire to go around FB, leering at pictures of other men's daughters and I sure as hell wouldn't want them doing that to mine when she reaches that age! To me, that falls firmly under the golden rule. How should I go about clearing this misunderstanding up?

As she is obviously a total bi slut, this question is open to men and women.

Thursday night, my wife discovered some pictures of bikini-clad and nude women on my phone. She went off on me, at one point saying she felt "cheated on". To put things in perspective, I don't associate with other women without my wife being present. I don't go to strip joints and my female friends are her female friends. I take my wedding vows very seriously and would never cheat on her. Here's the thing, though. Through our 10 years together, she's often neglected me sexually. When I've tried to talk to her about this, it usually ends up in a fight. So, I don't even try anymore. That said, I am a man with needs. As such, I occasionally use pictures of women (though not the ones she found on my phone) for self gratification. I'd much rather have regular, satisfying sex with her but she's not willing to work with me on that. Plus, I'm married. Not dead. As such, I don't see what the big deal is about me admiring the female form. We have a 5 year-old daughter so divorce is not an option right now. Plus, I saw my brothers go through nasty divorces and have resolved that will NOT be me. HELP!

I'm a sexually neglected and frustrated man. I've tried to tell my wife what I'd like in the way of pleasuring but her mind is closed. A little background - my wife is overweight. She was overweight when I married her so I knew this going in. She says she knows she needs to lose the weight but doesn't have the willpower to do what it takes to follow through. I've seen high school pictures of her, before she gained all the weight, and she was a real knockout! She had CURVES not ROLLS. Don't get me wrong, she's still beautiful and I let her know it EVERY day, along with how much I love her. Make no mistake - I DO love her. However, she's gained weight since we got married. To the point that intercourse is problematic. The only position we can manage is missionary and, because she gives me ZERO foreplay, it takes me forever to climax. As a result, my arms sometimes start to get tired and/or my wrists start to hurt. Even when this happens, I still will manually or orally stimulate her to climax. Too bad she doesn't give me the same consideration. She told me, once, that she found my semen disgusting. So, no handjobs or bj's for me. She says that I'm the most considerate and best lover she's ever had and says she loves me. However, actions, or lack there of, speak louder than words. It's gotten to the point that I don't even care if we have sex anymore and have taken to seeing to my own needs. I take my marriage vows very seriously so an affair or one night stand isn't EVEN an option to me. What can I do to fix this situation?

.... before we slap them down?

Hard!

....is just like a constantly yapping, little dog that's badly in need of a shock collar?

Let me start this by saying I love my wife very much.

Our sex life, however, leaves much to be desired from my viewpoint. I try to make suggestions on how she can spice it up for me but they pretty much fall on deaf ears. I've given her orgasms in every conceivable way. Conversely, if I don't get mine from intercourse, which sometimes happens, I usually have to take care of it myself.

What can I do to get her to REALLY listen and take my suggestions to heart? I'm not asking for anything outrageous or kinky - just the occasional hand, mouth, or tit job.

Is it merely receiving sexual gratification from someone other than your spouse, even if there is ZERO emotional involvement (ex. - massage with a "happy ending" at the local massage parlor)?

Yes, I'm married. No, I haven't cheated on my wife. Just curious how others define cheating.

Conservatives would like to know.

Especially when President Obama has expressed an interest in moving forward and solving the REAL problems confronting this country.