Amy C

My husband and I recently helped out a friend by offering a spare bedroom to him when his landlord kicked him out with no notice (no lease). All was well for a while, but then his ex girlfriend (who happens to be a very old friend of mine) started coming around. It was never discussed that she could stay at our house, and she has her own house, but she is at our house day & night none-the-less. Her AND her dog.

If this was just a weekend thing or a couple of nights a week, I would not even care. We are all adults and I have no problem with our friend wanting to spend time with a lady, but this woman is now effectively living at our house and no one even asked us if that was OK. She makes an effort to stay our of our way and not interfere with our daily lives, but she is using water, internet, electricity, etc.

As I stated above, she has her own house. She has all these little excuses why she doesn't want to be there, none of which are our problem - nor do I care. I feel like she is hiding from all of her responsibilities by hiding out at our house all the time, and I am just sick of it. She has cats at her house that are being completely neglected and this bothers me a great deal.

What do I do? I feel like she's using the fact that we are old friends to guilt me into this situation. She is always going on about how very much she doesn't want to be at her house, and how great we are, blah, blah, blah. I just want her to go home. Help!

I spent over and hour typing and then editing my question details down to the max. character limit only to find that it won't post. I get the message "Sorry, we cannot post your question at this time. Please try again later."

I mean, I had a legit question. If "How can I go from blue hair to blond?" gets posted with no problems, what gives?

So my boyfriend and I have this 'friend' who used to date one of our other friends; we didn't really know her until then. She broke up with our friend 6 months ago and ever since then has been really vocal about how lonely she's been, how she's forgotten what sex is and blah, blah. She keeps coming around our house, which I hadn't though too much of because she lives in another town but works in our town; she stops by for breaks. My boyfriend and I went on a vacation not long ago and while we were gone she starts posting to Facebook about the dreams she's having, which are apparently sexual dreams, about someone she can "never have" and also posting about how there's someone that she "can't get out of her head". Again, did not think too much of this because she could have been talking about anyone. Well, yesterday she shows up at our house, orders lunch on her phone, has a cigarette and then leaves. About 10-15 minutes later she posts this statement to FB: "All the good ones are taken, but thanks for the smile! <3" OKAY. So WTF is this? Has she been talking about my bf this whole time? Was she hoping to catch him alone? Am I just being paranoid? Should I say something to my bf? Sorry for all the questions, but I really don't know what to do here. If she's going to post something like that on FB, and she IS talking about my bf, then she obviously has no respect for me. What would you do? I don't want to cause a huge mess, but I am not going to just stand by and watch!

I asked a question a couple of weeks ago, but it has completely disappeared from my 'Questions' list. It just reads "User has not asked any questions" under that tab now. Is there a reason for this? It wasn't an offensive or profane question, it was a simple sociology question! Is it because I did not get any answers? Has this happened to anyone else? Any clue why?