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Me and my cousin Monique were kind of close, but I knew she would always talk **** about me behind my back, so that's why I never trusted her with my personal stuff. So anyways, she had this guy Paul that she would casually make out with only during the summers. And they were never bf & gf, they didn't even verbally communicate, they would just make out (while she had a bf) and that's it. Then when he moved here they casually had sex. And then she broke up with her bf, to see if he would ask her out but he never did. Since they didn't verbally communicate, she would always tell me to go ask him why he doesn't talk to her. She really liked him and hoped to be with him. She claims she "loves" him. And this guy had always flirted with me but I never listened to him bc my cousin is a jealous girl. I also never told her, that he flirted with me. So then, one day my aunt saw him and asked why I don't talk to him. I told her why, & she said "Please, do you think your cousin feels bad when she's in the bed with her bf"? And I said like no. So then she asked "why should you feel bad if she doesn't?" So then I invited him to a party with me, and he said yes and was very happy and excited about it. Now my cousin forever hates me and even began drinking, (meanwhile she is still with her boyfriend!), after she found out me and him are together. I do feel bad sometimes. Was I really in the wrong for this? Btw, I am 20 years old, my cousin is 21, and I have been with my bf now for a year.

I am a 19 year old female. And I feel like I don't sin on purpose often. The only thing I've been struggling not to do is have sex. I love it. It fascinates me and I want it all the time. I just feel like I should get married already so I won't feel so bad for doing it. The only reason I feel like it's getting to be a big problem, besides that it's against my values, is that I get late to work or late to anywhere else because I wanna have sex one last time before I leave my boyfriend, to go wherever I need to. I just don't know what to do. Being abstinent seems almost impossible at this point. And when he's at work I make myself come at least 2 or 3 times, because I don't want to wait for him.

My cousin Ana and this guy Ezequiel have been knowing each other since they were toddlers. (I've only been 4 times). He used to live in El Salvador and Ana would go over there to visit family and he lived next door to her grandmas house. And even when Ana had a bf in the U.S. she would still kiss & touch Ezequiel when she would go to El Salvador. So now he is here, and were all older ( I'm 18, she's 19 and he's 21). Ana tried and tried for them to be together but he never responded to her pleads. She would always tell me to tell him to talk to her or to sit with her. She was always all over him but he never tried. So she got frustrated and gave up & got back with her bf. Ezequiel likes me and I like him. And we're together. But I know even though Ana has her bf she is still interested in Ezequiel and is jealous when I talk to him or anything. So that's why I never listened to him when he would try to sweet talk me because I felt bad because my cousin still has feelings for him. But my aunt (not her mom) said that she doesn't feel bad when she's in the bed with her bf, so I shouldn't feel bad or let her prevent me from pursing a relationship with him. I feel like I need some reassurance or somebody else's perspective please. My parents think it's okay because she is clearly just in his past now.

I'm a female. I don't want to go anymore & today is the day of prom. And by this time I thought I would have a plan. But I don't and there's only 4 people I talk to at school, but I don't consider them friends. (I only have 1 friend but she got sent to another school and can't go to prom). Maybe if they were friends they would've at least asked me what I was going to do for prom or invite me to at least eat with them before or something. Because I know they didn't invite me to do anything after prom because I don't party anymore, and I don't do things like that anymore. So if I go, I will be literally going alone just to be there and look stupid, and then leave. A girl in my bible study that I barely even know said I could go with her and she barely even knows me! She considers me rather than those people I've talked to for years! But I feel like I would just feel kind of uncomfortable going with the girl from bible study because I don't know her very well, or her friends. :/ I just feel sad because there's only 2 reasons I want to go. Just to wear the dress and to take a picture of myself in it and that's it. :( there's way more reasons why I don't want to go. So should I just stay home? I don't have many friends not because I'm stuck up, but because I chose to live differently now and I don't gossip with people anymore, I don't do bad things with them anymore, and I try my best not to compare anything or judge. So they have no use for me.

My boyfriend'a pre-trial is set for the 28th of this month. There was a list of subpoenas for about 14 people on the 13th of this month, in which some it says "returned unserved" and has the dates as well as others that just say "unserved". There was a subpoena for his mom but it said DA to serve and then it says "unserved". I found this out through the jail's records research. That means he didn't go right? Do all of the people called forth have to go in order for the pre-trial to take place? Since the DA didn't go for his mom does it mean they will most likely reset his trial again? :( His charge is agg robbery and he is 19 years old, in Texas. He has been in there for 2 years already for the crime he committed when he was 14 years old. And they just walked up to his door step years later and arrested him now that he is an adult. Can somebody help me acquire some kind of understanding?

What can I do to help my boyfriend get out of jail sooner? Should I get a different lawyer than the one that was appointed to him since he can't afford one? Because normally those lawyers could care less right? Is there anything at all I can do besides put money in his books, write and visit him? :(

I worked at Baskin Robbins just for the summer (2 months). And then I began working at chick fil a (getting paid $7.25 same as Baskin) and I did my best and wanted to get a raise and I didn't so I left after 8 months. Apparently I have to ask for it? Anyways, now I am at clothing store, and they pay me $7.75 and I've been there for 3 months but my friend told me to work with her they will start me at $8.25 and I am 90% sure I will get the job there. So should I leave where I'm at or will it look bad? :/ but isn't it normal for anyone to leave where they will get paid more?

I'm going to visit my boyfriend in jail but I can't let my parents know that he's there.. I'm 18 but I still live with my parents. I don't want to be suspicious or anything and I don't want to get caught. :(

When I was 15 I had gotten pregnant and my mom went psycho when she found out but dad was pretty calm even though he hated my bf. But then i ended up getting an abortion. I was scared and my parents isolated me from everyone and were telling me to do and do it so I did. And the following years after went down hill. They had me locked up in the house which made me worse with the depression I got after having the abortion I would just stay in my room crying everyday and having desires of killing myself for doing that to my own flesh and blood. To make it worse I told my bf that I did it without talking to him first. And he became depressed too because he wanted to keep it. My parents hated him and I never saw him again. Now I am 17 a junior in high school (late birthday) and I think I'm pregnant again but with a different guy. So far I have taken 4 college credits completed while I'm in high school. I will be 18 in September and I care about my education and want to keep moving forward with it. Me and my bf had talked about what we do if I was pregnant and we have good plans. It's just that he's 21 and I'm still underaged.... I made a stupid mistake but that doesn't mean my life is over or ruined. I just don't when to leave. I can't live with my family's disappointment. Especially my brothers. :/

I want him to smack my *** and give it to me do hard that tears come out my eyes. I don't wanna be able to walk after... I want him to leave my legs shaking. ;( what do I dooooo?

;( I mean the sex we have is good but idk it's not rough. :/ And we've never talked dirty to eachother. So idk how it will be if we do..

Me and my bf were having sex and after a little bit even though i knew he was in me, I just didn't feel any pleasure the last couple thrusts. Is that normal? Or what does it mean? It was like he was still going at it but I wasn't even horny anymore. I don't understand.

Me and my bf were having sex and after a little bit even though i knew he was in me, I just didn't feel any pleasure the last couple thrusts. Is that normal? Or what does it mean? It was like he was still going at it but I wasn't even horny anymore. I don't understand.

My parents are so strict I'm tired of them and they're tired of me.

And I'm not fixin to wait 10 years to get their trust back because I'm not getting any younger.

I'm scared that i wont be able to make it on my own though and once i leave i never plan to go back no matter what.

I don't know if i deserve everything i been through, i feel like everything is my fault. But isn't that me being responsible for my actions and then i have to deal with the consequences (which is them not letting me doing anything by myself?) I don't know. But i do know that i don't wanna be here anymore. I don't wanna deal with their bs anymore. But then i feel stupid for leaving a nice house in a nice neighborhood living without paying anything to the complete opposite. I don't know what to do. Nothing will change even when i am 18. :'( I still wont be able to go out ill just be miserable until i graduate college!! :'(((((( I'm 17 years old btw and have NO FREEDOM!!!!!! I don't want to seem ungrateful because i am thankful for everything that my parents have done for me i just don't need to deal with them constantly suspecting me being drunk or on drugs or pregnant or sneaking out at night I'M NOT DOING ANYTHING AND ITS SO FRUSTRATING AND HURTFUL. I'm not allowed to go anywhere without someone in my family being with me. I'm not allowed to stay past 12:30 anywhere i go. And I'm a real party person unlike my sister. I don't have to do drugs or drink to have fun i love dancing and that's enough for me...

how i feel after having an abortion.

he thinks it was the right thing and by choosing that, i wouldn't have to suffer being a young mother.

But he was completely wrong because after i did that, i wanted to kill myself and became an emotional wreck. Depressed and angry all the time. full of shame. how can he understand when hes so hard he is insensitive to peoples feelings because he never had love growing up. what can i say to help him understand

My friends quince is next saterday!! :o & I'm a dama (so I'm going to be dancing in front of all the guests) & I'm also going to give her suprise gift!!!

I really want to look good.

All I reall have is a bit of love handles (WHICH I HATE SO MUCH) and a lil flab on my arms ;(. I know it's gonna take time to really get rid of the love handles but I want them to be at least a little bit slimmer ;( pleaseee

Do you use weights? Or just do regular squats??

Me and this guy like each other we know of each other, and I talked to him once last semester and I went to a party with him and a group of friends about 2 weeks ago. He's to shy to talk to me so idk what to say to him.

Any ideas? :/

So since me and my ex broke up I've had a couple guys try to come into my life and make me theirs but it doesn't work

I've had guys say and do the nicest things to me that any girl would love

But for some reason everything they say and do doesn't matter to me

What could be the reason?

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I think it is ;(

What should i do?

Will putting tape on it work?

Or what kind of other piercings would make it look less noticeable?

I like it so much it's just uhh

I just got it done yesterday...

im so horny all the time and im only 16 so i cant do anything about it :(