Amanda

My husband is in the army and wears the same uniform all week, with the exception of his undershirt, boxers, and socks. He showers every night, but even after he washes, he still smells like old sweat. I think the only deoderant he uses is Axe, and to me that is just NOT a "real" deoderant. I have to wash his clothes with vinegar or baking soda to try to get the smell out. But what do I do about him? He tries to get clean, but even he notices that he smells a little after he showers. Is there a good deoderant/antiperspirant I can buy? A good soap? I don't want to hurt his feelings (we haven't been married long) but I want him to smell fresh too. Help!

I just heard Ben Harper "In the Colors", and I like it and want other songs with this type of "feel" to it. It sounds sexy, beachy, and something that you might slow dance or make love to. Any similar suggestions?

Ok, I just got married last month and my husband and I have a *very* good sex life. We have sex pretty much everyday and it is never boring, we experiment and try new things, etc. I knew he looked at porn before (we used to have a long-distance relationship so I even expected it) and I have even bought him porn recently and we have watched it together. My concern is that he looks at porn during the day while my daughter and I are both home. It's like he gets bored or something and he watches videos online. To my knowledge he doesn't masturbate, just watches it. He tries to hide it but I know when I sit down next to him and he clicks on the yahoo homepage or closes everything out fast that he was watching porn. And he never clears the history, so the evidence is there. I mentioned to him that it bothered me and I think I offended or embarrassed him. Guys please answer: Am I being unreasonable? Are there any other guys who would do this? Should I just let him do it and get over it?

When we have sex it lasts less than 5 minutes every time. At first it didn't bother me because we usually have great foreplay (oral and manual) so I always "get mine" that way, but sometimes I really want the intercourse part to last longer. I don't know if it is because he is uncircumcised and that makes him more sensitive or what. Once he ejaculates, he is too sensitive to go a second round....he doesn't even like for me to move much after he finishes. Oral sex usually takes a little longer, but the actual sex is always quick, no matter what position or what we do. I really don't want to hurt his feelings, he knows that he is a "quick" guy, but I want to try to make it go longer! Any suggestions?

Can anyone recommend a good website to order affordable but nice invitations? I don't want to buy blank ones and hand write them, and I don't want to print off of my computer. Thanks.

My wedding will be on Dec 22 and I am having a hard time deciding what colors to use (for bridesmaid's dresses, accents, etc.). I do NOT want to use Christmas colors at all...no red or dark green. Are there any other colors that would be good for a winter wedding?

Ok, I am getting married (2nd marriage) in December of this year. I am just starting to plan things, and it seems like it is for the 1st time! Can anyone give me advice for my wedding...like if you could only give me one piece of advice, what is the most important thing you would tell me?

He is turning 29, in the army, and we are pretty serious (been together for 1 year, almost engaged). He can buy anything he wants - has a corvette, loves xbox, etc - but I have no idea what to get him! Of course he's going to have steak for dinner and a BJ after, but I really want to buy him a gift...and I really only have $100 to work with. Please help me with suggestions! Thanks.

My fiance and I have a good sex life already, but I like to try new things to keep it interesting...and hot. Guys tell me, what is the best or hottest thing a woman has done for you? Something that would get you going just thinking about it again.

And sorry, can't do anal. He's just tooo big for that!

I want to leave from Texas, so Disney is not an option (not this time). My boyfriend (hopefully soon fiance!) and I would like a little time alone, so it would be helpful if there was some type of childcare. Has anyone had a similar experience and can recommend a cruise line &/or destination?

I have had HPV and abnormal paps for almost 3 years now, but my most recent pap came back as having high-grade lesions with CIS (carcinoma in situ). I had a colposcopy today, but I am worried about the results and what will happen. Has anyone gone through this before? I have both low and high-risk HPV and mine will NOT regress! I am afraid it will end up impairing my ability to have kids in the future? Any advice or similar stories?

My daughter and I like to dip our french fries into our ice cream and eat it. Wendy's frosty and fries is probably the best mix. I think it is the mix of sweet, cold ice cream and hot, salty fries. Does anyone else like to do this?

My ex and I have been divorced for 2 years and my 5-year old daughter lives with me. We have joint custody, but I am the primary caregiver and decision maker. I want to move a few states away to be near my serious boyfriend (he is in the military). The problem is, my ex refuses to let me move with our daughter and will not compromise on visitation arrangements (he currently gets her every other weekend).

Has anyone had a similar situation? If I have to go to court, what are the chances that the judge will allow me to move with my daughter?

My ex and I have been divorced for 2 years and my 5-year old daughter lives with me. We have joint custody, but I am the primary caregiver and decision maker. I want to move a few states away to be near my serious boyfriend (he is in the military). The problem is, my ex refuses to let me move with our daughter and will not compromise on visitation arrangements (he currently gets her every other weekend).

Has anyone had a similar situation? If I have to go to court, what are the chances that the judge will allow me to move with my daughter?

Has anyone ever used E-loan.com? If so, was your experience good? Are they reliable?

Her father and I divorced 2 years ago, but she is just now "acting" out about it. She cries for her dad every night, even though she sees him every other weekend and calls him daily. Her behavior is deteriorating as well...she is constantly pushing my buttons and defies authority. She gets worse when we are in the company of others. Does anyone have any suggestions? (and yes, I do spank when needed).