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I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years now. We have lived together for 3, and been engaged for 2. His divorce with his ex still isnt final, and he isnt doing anything about it. Also, I am struggling with health insurance due to a job change, and I found out a few months ago, that his ex is still covered under his medical insurance. I cant bring it up without him getting upset with me, but its starting to wear me thin. What should I do?

A school district violated a legal separation agreement and tested my daughter for preschool special education.. without my knowlege. I then found out, sent them a copy of the separation agreement, which states clearly that they need consent from both parents. We then had a meeting on her special education needs, and they were aware at that time that any services that she needed had to be consented to by both of us. Then I found out a couple of weeks later that they started services, this was before I even go the consent forms in the mail to sign. What can I do about this?