TILIS222

For 11 years now, my youngest son, who is married with children, has refused to speak to me over a lie he told. I cannot see my grandchildren and I know for a fact he tells them 'grandma is a liar'. I am afraid I will die before I see him or his kids again. I am ill and do not know how long I have. (the lie was something HE told and blamed on me). This all started when his father and I got divorced and we both remarried...his father three weeks after the decree and me a year later. He hides when we accidentally run into each other, he hidduring his grandfathers funeral, he hides when I visit his grandmother. What can I do. His oldest son, my grandson, told my granddaughter, from my other son, that she shouldn't be around me because I am a bad person and a liar. She spends a lot of time with us and her attitude is changing because of it. She asks me questions and I am worried about making it worse by telling her (she is too young) what is going on. Do I now take this to a lawyer? I couldn't stand losing her too. My oldest son is aware of all this but I don't want him involved. I don't want to lose what is left of my family. Help please. Serious answers only.