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i missed my period by more thank 2 weeks now. 3 days after my missed period i took a home test it was negative. but i still havnt got my period so i i took another test and it was negative too. ive got swollen breast, copper tasting mouth which i had with my first child, heart burn and acid refelx which ive only ever had when i was pregnant with my first, ive had back aches and head aches, my man says my boobs taste acidy and ive been waking up nauseaous and aching body. what the hell is going on???? i know the home test can be wrong and everyone is going to say go to the doc but im trying to avoid it until i know for sure bc i know ppl in the hospital and it will get around, can i get some advise or personal experiance plz!!!!

Me and a friend recently were friends with benefits. a mutal agreement, i always felt like i had a crush on him. But during our a friends with benefits i realized thats all it was. During this time he would bounce from this is a good i dea to man this is a bad idea. and then one day i told him he needed to make his mind up. He decided he didnt want to be friends with benefits anymore, but thats all we would ever be other then friends. I said it was and we have still been friends, we were talking one day and i told him that at the time i didnt realize it but i was crazy about him. And i still am, that ive always had some deep feelings for him and didnt realize it untill now. he responded like a friend would and said sorry but he doesnt feel that way and how can he help. ect... a few days went by and i was fine i feltbetter after getting it off my chest. and kinda acted like it never happened. Well he blew me away when he contacted me and wanted to hook up again. he was even sweet to me. he even sat and talked to me for a while and hung out. he told me he just likes talking to me. What changed and why is he telling me there will never be anything between us, but after i tell him i have feelings for him we wants to be friends with benefits again??? i dont understand the maddness behind it all......should i stop being friends with benefits with him if i feel like im falling for him and he says there will never be anything between us?

If you do have a friend who you can talk sexually wih and pretty much anything, and you both want to have sex and not the emtional part how do you go about it?? If both parties agree to it. i really want to just have sex, its been a while and everyone has needs and i want to full fill mine. i have options im not ugly and im surrounded by guys all the time. and i tired to full fill them with a guy i liked, but it didnt go anywhere. A friend of mine who is a guy knows about this and we talked about the situation. He knows where i stand and how im feeling, we are both feeling the same.. just pretty much sexually fustraited.. and we can talk to one another about the fustration, and we both know theres nothing between us but we talked about what if we had sex seems how we both want to and bc we are friends we know where we stand and where we both are coming from and there wont have that complication of guessing. Is this a good idea. we both dont want the emtions just sex with a friend who shares the same fustration. and would i go about doing this and not feeling awkward??

Me and this guy work together and we hang out at work. We flirt all the time but we never acted on it. Well i told him that after i got to know him i was attracted to him and liked him. He agreed he felt the same way. I told him how embarrassed i was and he told me not to be.

A few days later we were sitting together watching a movie, but never a big deal bc we always do that, but the feeling was intense. and we both felt it. i caught him looking at me and he caught me looking at him. from time to time this would happen. maybe about a week.

After this ackward stage we finally started getting a lil touchy feeling, laughing rubbing one anothers arm, ears, and hair. a moement came up when we almost kissed. we finally talked about how we both are dieing to kiss one another, BUT DID NOT! the nest day the tension was back and WE KISSED! It was amazing and he was shaking like crazy. we made out on accassions for the next few days.

We both agreed we were NOT GOING TO TELL ANYONE! we talked about how much fun it was and how awesome it felt.

We started talking online after work for a few days. THEN.... He got distant. start avoiding me, ignoring me at work. wouldnt talk to me. I had no idea what to think it went from one thing to another over night. and i didnt speek to him about it for a few days and i think he could tell i was confussed and kins upset.

Well finally i asked him to get online to talk. he agreed. and that when he asked me what i wanted out of this bc he didnt want anything from it and that it was going to go no where. And i made the mistake of telling him that i really liked him but was just having fun. as the days went on we would flirt some what and he would act like he wanted my attention and then would push me away when i tried to give him attention. i did not understand.

Let me add that this guy NEVER EVER shows or tells how he feels and says that feelings should never exsist. and never lets anyone know what he thinks or get close to him. I wasnt sure if he was scared bc he might actually like me or playing games or what i was sooo confussed. i tried to talk to him about it but i could never get close enough to him to even say hi. well i caught him online and we had a 5hr! YES 5 HR talk. and we both agreed that friends with benefits was a great idea and im truely in for having a good time and i want to have sex with him! He tells me the same. we both agreed that he was not going to play the games anymore and push me away that friends with benefits had no attachments. and i agreed and so did he!

THIS IS THE CATCH! we fooled around and did oral and make out and get so close to having sex but he keeps putting off. and i truley want to having sex with him and i thought thats really all he wanted too but why would he keep putting off! why does he keep avoiding the sex. i really dont know what to think we do other stuff but when i tell him lets have sex he says not yet... but i thought thats what we agreed on. the last few days he felt kinda distant again. he still talks to me and we talk about having sex still, but have not fooled around or had sex...

Why wont he have sex with me? could he be afriad he will develope feelings for me, could he already have feelings for me, is he afriad that ill have feelings for him, OR does he simply dont want to have with me???? I DONT KNOW!! PLEASE I NEED ADVISE FAST!

Me and this guy just recently started talking in more than a friends manner. He told me his feeling were mutual and then the next day he wanted nothing to do with me. we work together and no one knows so i use hat as an exscuse for why hes like that. but the next day he tells me how much he feels for me and we end up kissing. the next day he ignores me. then the next day he tells me how he couldnt stop thinking about meand how amazing i am. bUt then he ignores me and acts like nothing is going on with us even alone. He is not the type of guy to tell how he is feeling or to let ppl get to close to him. so i know he really likes me. Is he just playing games to get what he wants? or is he afriad and pushing me away? to see if ill come back?

I've been married for 2 1/2 yrs. we met in the military and we are both in iraq right now. we have a son who just turned one yr old. i love my husband and he is a great guy. a wonderful husband and a great father who will do anything for our son. But as time goes on we have really grown our distance and even tho we still talk and never argue we have no real relationship anymore. you might think its bc we are in iraq, but no we stay in the same room and see each other almost every day. it started after i had my son. i gained a lot of weight during and after my pregnecy so i had no self confidence and my husband did not have much intrest in me. well i just started to loose weight and i started feeling better about myself. ive lost 65lbs and i am feeling icredable and fantastic, but now my husband sees this and cant keep his hands off of me. and its great but i have no attraction to him and no desire to be sexual with him. i feel as though when im around him he annoys me and everything he does bothers me. i love him and i could not see myself leaving him. ive given it some time and even tried to do new things to spice things up. My sex drive is up and im feeling great but cant seem to feel saftisfied or the attraction with my husband. i dont know what to do. i think maybe it has to do with how he makes me feel. he never listens when i talk to him. he never shows up when i ask him to meet me. he never goes out of his way to see me. he cant remember somthing i told him 5 min ago. its like im not there to him unless he wants something or wants to have sex. so even though i may feel a high sex drive i tell him im tired bc i have no desire to have sex with him. im so confused and dont know what to do. i know he loves me and i love him but i dont think im in love with him anymore. When i try to talk to him about it somehow he makes it my fault and makes me feel guilty like he never did anything. i want to be around him but when im around him i cant stand him and cant wait to get away. What do i do?

all the signs of my period are showing but i have not got my period yet and im now 4 days late. all the signs for my period started about 2 days early too. could i be prego should i take a test or is it too ealry? maybe i should just wait?