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it always starts the same way and ends the same way. i put on sexy things he likes me to wear, i talk dirty like he wants but im ALWAYS on top. ALWAYS. im not kidding. we have been dating for a year and a half and he's been on top MAYBE 5 times and only after i talk to him about being on top.(we have sex almost daily. maybe miss a day here and there) he will try it once and then not again until i bring it up again. when we talk about it he says he will think about it and try but it just feels so much better for him if im on top. im bored and im frustrated and he knows it but its not getting better. i have tried asking him during sex to get on top of me but when i do that, he just rolls over and it ends. sometimes he does foreplay, and he's really good at it but not very often. what can i do?? im so attracted him and love him very much but im SO frustrated and bored with the same sex every time. same position and everything. its like clock work.

she is a really dramatic child (like her mama) we have moved around a bit lately and her dad and i are divorced. (she is about to leave for the summer to be with her dad) she seems "normal" in every way. she is sweet, naughty when she wants to be, plays with barbies and makes them talk to each other in high pitched voices, she has friends, she is smart and very creative. she can also manipulate me into anything! ugh!

well a couple weeks ago my mom gave her a paper towel with ice in it cause she said she had a headache..well that must have been a thing of comfort from grama, a show of love and my daughter liked it, wants that every night now. well last night, it was late, past bed time and i didnt want to give her the paper towel. she started crying, being very dramatic, of course and said she needs it cause she cant sleep with out it. i asked why she cant and she said cause she hears voices when she tries to sleep. i asked what the voices say and she said they say swear words like mama says (opps!) and the voices say not to love mom. we were arguing about the paper towel and she was mad at me. (she is in the i dont love you anymore! you are a mean mommy!! when she doesnt get what she wants stage)

my exs mom has schizophrenia and bi polar, so im FREAKING out!

should i be worried? does this sound bad? or is she confusing thoughts with voices? the more my mom and i talked to her about it, the bigger the stories got..i dont know what to think about this!

i have a call in to my therapist who is a child psychologist also, but any advise or if any has had their 4 or 5 year old say this, what was the outcome? what did you do?

she is a really dramatic child (like her mama) we have moved around a bit lately and her dad and i are divorced. (she is about to leave for the summer to be with her dad) she seems "normal" in every way. she is sweet, naughty when she wants to be, plays with barbies and makes them talk to each other in high pitched voices, she has friends, she is smart and very creative. she can also manipulate me into anything! ugh!

well a couple weeks ago my mom gave her a paper towel with ice in it cause she said she had a headache..well that must have been a thing of comfort from grama, a show of love and my daughter liked it, wants that every night now. well last night, it was late, past bed time and i didnt want to give her the paper towel. she started crying, being very dramatic, of course and said she needs it cause she cant sleep with out it. i asked why she cant and she said cause she hears voices when she tries to sleep. i asked what the voices say and she said they say swear words like mama says (opps!) and the voices say not to love mom. we were arguing about the paper towel and she was mad at me. (she is in the i dont love you anymore! you are a mean mommy!! when she doesnt get what she wants stage)

my exs mom has schizophrenia and bi polar, so im FREAKING out!

should i be worried? does this sound bad? or is she confusing thoughts with voices? the more my mom and i talked to her about it, the bigger the stories got..i dont know what to think about this!

i have a call in to my therapist who is a child psychologist also, but any advise or if any has had their 4 or 5 year old say this, what was the outcome? what did you do?

she is a really dramatic child (like her mama) we have moved around a bit lately and her dad and i are divorced. (she is about to leave for the summer to be with her dad) she seems "normal" in every way. she is sweet, naughty when she wants to be, plays with barbies and makes them talk to each other in high pitched voices, she has friends, she is smart and very creative. she can also manipulate me into anything! ugh!

well a couple weeks ago my mom gave her a paper towel with ice in it cause she said she had a headache..well that must have been a thing of comfort from grama, a show of love and my daughter liked it, wants that every night now. well last night, it was late, past bed time and i didnt want to give her the paper towel. she started crying, being very dramatic, of course and said she needs it cause she cant sleep with out it. i asked why she cant and she said cause she hears voices when she tries to sleep. i asked what the voices say and she said they say swear words like mama says (opps!) and the voices say not to love mom. we were arguing about the paper towel and she was mad at me. (she is in the i dont love you anymore! you are a mean mommy!! when she doesnt get what she wants stage)

my exs mom has schizophrenia and bi polar, so im FREAKING out!

should i be worried? does this sound bad? or is she confusing thoughts with voices? the more my mom and i talked to her about it, the bigger the stories got..i dont know what to think about this!

i have a call in to my therapist who is a child psychologist also, but any advise or if any has had their 4 or 5 year old say this, what was the outcome? what did you do?

Its just one bump, size of a small raisin. It itches when i touch it. Its red but it may be cause im touching it and stuff. What could it be? Could it be herpes? I have heard that herpes are small bumps like pimples, but im starting to get freaked out! Im going to the dr. Tomorrow but i cant sleep im so nervous! Help!

my boy friend and i live together, he has two kids and i have one kid. he has his kids every other weekend. i moved an hour away from my best friend, so i never get to see her any more. well, this saturday, my BF has his kids, but my friend wants to get together and go shopping and what not, well my boyfriend is freaking out!!! he pretty much just kicked my daughter and i out of the house becuase i want to go shopping with my friend instead of sit home and hang out with him and his kids. am i wrong to want to hang out with my friend i never see? its been months since i have seen her. its like he expects my life to stop becuase his kids are there. am i wrong for this?? he has his friends come over at least 3 times a week and i never say anything about it. what do i do?

my boy friend and i live together, he has two kids and i have one kid. he has his kids every other weekend. i moved an hour away from my best friend, so i never get to see her any more. well, this saturday, my BF has his kids, but my friend wants to get together and go shopping and what not, well my boyfriend is freaking out!!! he pretty much just kicked my daughter and i out of the house becuase i want to go shopping with my friend instead of sit home and hang out with him and his kids. am i wrong to want to hang out with my friend i never see? its been months since i have seen her. its like he expects my life to stop becuase his kids are there. am i wrong for this??

cant cook right, i cant clean right, i cant parent right, i cant treat his dogs right..im getting exhausted. when i try to talk to him him about it, of course its a blow up! He says he is just trying to show me better ways to do it. why are they "better?" cause they are his ways? he isn't mean about it, tries to put it nicely, but its all the time. i get nervous when i play with my daughter for fear that im "breaking a rule" that's has been set that i may have forgotten..last night my 4 year old and i were coloring, on paper, on the floor and he got mad because he doesn't want markers to get on the carpet. he is so strick and i am too passive. it seems i just forget all his rules all the time and we are always fighting. what do i do? am i being too sensitive? He says he is suppose to tell me how to do things Better or different so that both our lives are easier...is this right? am i the one that needs to adjust? he is always on my daughter too, she is 4 and she is always getting in trouble. she is starting to tell little lies and he threatens her with a wooden spoon. i under stand rules for kids are good, but i also want her to be a kid. she gets in trouble for eating popcorn on the couch during a movie!

i try to talk to him but he is the type to take one thing i saw and jump off a cliff with it. gets fired up so fast!

help! what do i do??

i cant cook right, i cant clean right, i cant parent right, i cant treat his dogs right..im getting exhausted. when i try to talk to him him about it, of course its a blow up! He says he is just trying to show me better ways to do it. why are they "better?" cause they are his ways? he isn't mean about it, tries to put it nicely, but its all the time. i get nervous when i play with my daughter for fear that im "breaking a rule" that's has been set that i may have forgotten..last night my 4 year old and i were coloring, on paper, on the floor and he got mad because he doesn't want markers to get on the carpet. he is so strick and i am too passive. it seems i just forget all his rules all the time and we are always fighting. what do i do? am i being too sensitive? He says he is suppose to tell me how to do things Better or different so that both our lives are easier...is this right? am i the one that needs to adjust?

dont know what to do.. my fiance and i live together in a town house. we have two pitt bulls already. they are great dogs! he is obsessed with them and with pittbulls in general. he told me last night he wants another one! i do not!! i dont want this to turn into a fight or a deal breaker, but i cannot handle another dog! we dont have a yard for them and they are in their kennels during the day (both are still not all the potty trained) so i think adding a third is not a good idea! there is no place for them. how do i get this accross to him with out starting a fight? he is really passionate about dogs and about things going his way..i need to present this so it doesnt seem im telling him he "cant" have another dog...help!

my soon to be and i are in the middle of a divorce and he wants in the custody papers saying that our daughter can choose who she wants to live with at age 10. Im going to be to custodal parent and we will share legal. he lives in california (military) and i live in utah with our daughter. he will of course have visitation and all that, but i think a 10 year old kid cannot make that type of decision. does he have a chance at getting a judge to agree to that should he decide to take me to court? we have agreed on everything up till now and im FREAKING out!!! HELP!

during the day my puppy has to stay in his kennel for now, he isnt house trained yet. should i put down pee pads in there with him? or just leave it bare? i had blankets in there but i have to keep washing them cause he pees on them. i understand he is only 9 weeks so he cant hold it for long yet, but will the pee pads encourage him to pee in the kennel?

i have tried eveything! we put him in his kennel, its just big enough from him to stand up and move around, i let him out 15 to 20 min.s after he eats, he pees then we are out there for ever it seems. i think he doesnt need to poop so we go back in and he POOPS! on my FLOOR! ugh! he also, pees on his blankets in his kennel! i thought that dogs dont pee where they sleep? its like he doesnt care! at night he sleeps in his kennel and during the day when im at work he is in his kennel..

He is about 10-11 week old chi-poo..any suggestions or tips i would be apprecited!!

they have a two year old daughter, she has not worked in two years (stayed home to care for baby) and he is in the marine corp. he is cutting her off the bank account today because she is filing for divorce and he dosnt want it. he said he will not support her anymore and wont listen to anything. what can my friend do? can he legally cut her off like that? he said he will send her checks each month to provide for the baby but not her anymore. the divorce is no where near being final

started car this morning and its making a clanking sound during idling and when i accelerate and the check engine is blinking. also, i think it is fling through gas really fast. i need to get to work tomorrow but afraid if i drive it it will get worse. i have an appointment on monday at the dealership. my question is, will i make it worse if i drive about 10 miles to work??

i have been looking for the purse that jennifer anniston carries in that movie. does anyone know who makes it?

Expected value math question?

i need to figure out the expected value of a casino game. i want to use black jack. my question is:

E = (AMT TO WIN)(PROB OF WINNING) - (COST OF PLAYING

it cost $5 to play and it would be to get black jack in the first hand

example:

The SuperLOTTO Plus jackpot starts at $7 million. It is now at $18 million (cash value is $11,500,000). The odds is 1 in 41,416,353. It cost $1 per play per draw. To win, one must select five numbers from 1 to 47 and one MEGA number from 1 to 27 and match them to the numbers drawn by the Lottery.

E = (AMT TO WIN)(PROB OF WINNING) - (COST OF PLAYING)

E = ($18,000,000)(1/41,416,353) - 1 = -0.5653890626 (not a fair game)

i had a baby 6 months ago and i was wondering what the best diet pills are? what has everyone tried and loved!? i work out every morning and its not enough. hints anyone?!

my baby is 3 months old and i have lost about 25 pounds (i gained 45) after having her and i just cant seem to lose any more! i go to the gym 5 days a week and try to eat healthy- anyone have good ideas that helped them?

please, anyone with pcos. what is the best way to get rid of the hair? should i try Yaz?