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I have a good friend who I care about deeply. Mind you we haven t known eachother long (2 weeks tops) but its like we have known eachother for a long time. Like an instant friendship. Well anyways....I came out to him and he is cool with it and is professing that he is Str8....but He has done the following things that make me question him....

1) He took several selfise with me in his underwear and nothing more

2) He asked me for a partial massage and then he returned the favor

3) He has the stereotypical sashay and lisp down to a T when he is acting silly to amuse me but acts masculine at the same time

4) He says I m precious to him

5) He has already given me some gifts (small, not large)

6) Ive seen him naked (full frontal and backside)

7) he has let me touch him pretty much anywhere at almost any given time

8) he gives me compliments

9) he says that he Loves me

What do I make of this. I truly need to find out. any advice would be helpful. serious answers only please.....thank you

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I recently caught my maid stealing valuable items from my home. when i confronted her she spit on me and pull a switch blade on me and threatened that if I say anything to anyone she would come back and finish the job. I am writing this from my car because I saw my maid go into my house and I am afraid of her. I know that she works for an agency but when i called, it said the number was no longer in service. was I ripped off? Is she really a maid or a common thief? What do I do she is scaring me really bad. Any ideas? thanks. Also I was thinking of doing one of those "hardy boys" moves and reporting her after catching her again. thank you for real answers

I recently got my phone bill in the mail. Normally it is very reasonable. This month, not so much. I noticed alot of calls to Asia and India and I do not know anyone in either area. The only other person with access to my house is the maid. What do I do about this. I don't want to falsely accuse her but I know it hasn't been me making those calls. My real problem is my maid tends to be aggressive and mouthy when she feels she has been wronged and I don't know what to do. Please help me approach this with professionalism and tact yet standing firm. thank you

My maid has been late to work for the past week and she hasn't even as much as lifted a phone to say so. I have asked her why has she been coming in late, she would state that it is none of my f&@$%(^ business and proceeds into the house to clean. After i explained that she could be terminated for tardiness she literally SPIT on me and Slapped me (All very true) and said what she does with her time is her business. I know this is not tolerated elsewhere but I do not want to physically remove her as not to get charges pressed against me. Any way around this behavior and anything I can do to prevent this in the future? Please help. Thank you

Here is the situation. The Maid I hired a few months ago has been great with housework and I love her for that. The bad part is she cusses in front of my small children and I know I have no control over what people say but this is a little much. my children are impressionable like most children and pick up on good and bad manners. Recently I was home and she was cleaning when I heard her say a horrible F*%# word in front of my 2 yr old. I have asked her to please not curse in front of them. she continues to do so and to top it off she has gotten so bold as to spit on me and tell me that I am a bad boss for trying to "control" her and her free speech. She went on to explain to me that if I continue to try to censor her, she would have no choice but to have me arrested and file false allegations of child neglect. I mean her work ethic as far as cleaning house is good but I do not feel like I should put up with her rude behavior towards me and my children. By the way, to make things worse, I have heard her chanting in her native tongue and I don't know what to make of this but with the way she is acting I don't want to put anything past her at this point. How can i get this situation under control. Please help, serious answers only please. thank you

My dad hired a maid to clean our house a few months ago. I just recently noticed the maid smoking cigarettes in my room. my dad thinks they are mine but I do not smoke. And the maid has been stealing some of my best clothing. I did confront her and she cussed me out in some foreign language and spit on me. In english she said if I say anything she will just say that I've been stealing from her purse and cussing her out. the complete opposite of what she's been doing to me. how do I get my dad to believe me. should I try to set up a hidden camera or something. Someone help, this maid is ruining my life!!!!

My best friend just hired a nanny to look after her 3 children, ages 12yrs, 6yrs and 12months. Here is the situation I am having. The nanny is sweet but I have noticed some items coming up missing. I should know, I have been BFF's with her for forever and have seen all her house. Anyways, I notice the nanny with jewelry that I know is not hers and a couple of expensive designer handbags that my friend did not give her. How to I tell my friend without seeming like I am being jealous or nosy. Should i approach her and tell her or should I confront the bad nanny? Major advice needed for this please. Also the nanny is sweet but I seriously doubt she can be trusted. Btw the 2 handbags are Louis Vuitton and COACH and I know more than anyone that those designers make one of a kind handbags and this nanny i have not seen with any handbag but those two with the exception of her wallet.

I recently hired a maid to help me keep house as i work all the time and need the extra help. i have noticed items coming up missing. when i confronted her. she just denied it and said that she would sue me for discrimination. is this even legal what she is doing. what grounds can i take to fire her. should i get the cops involved. she says also that it would be my word against hers and that i don't deserve to have nice things. what do i do about her? please help one last note. i have also noticed that sometimes when i get home, none of the chores are done and food is missing from the fridge? any advice please help

My maid is mean. I give her specific instructions to do and she doesn't do them. and they are simple tasks like cleaning mopping garbage, just simple stuff and on top of that she is rude to my children. My son told me that she spit on him and attempted to try to lock the fridge just for asking for a snack. this does seem farfetched but it is true and he even told me how he came home from school the other day and she was sleeping in his bed. and when asked to get up she cussed him out. and one last thing i should point out. my daughter came home from grocery shopping and caught the maid smoking in my house and i know there not my chidren's or mine because none of us smoke, hence the reason why it smells. i am about at my wits end, what can i do about this. i need real answers please.

I just recently sold Hero Quest a Board game on ebay, how should I wrap it before i mail it out as to make sure it gets there safely. it's going to Brazil