confused

ok i started going out with this guy, he is very shy and sweet, he has a really clever and sly friend. the problem is for the first week and the first two dates he was very sweet and talks to me alot on the phone and in person but recently he doesnt return my phone call or texts. my phone has been acting stupid lately too but whats with his hot and cold behavior? is it like when guys have u they go back to being super chill? from clingy to almost non-existent?

how long do guys usually wait before they call a girl they've just met? is it different for everybody? (its been 2 days)

i didnt bother getting his info but he asked for mine so i gave it to him cuz he wants to meet up some time this week.......... ugh....

im not worried just curious thats all cuz i heard from one of my guy friends that they ususally wait like 4-5 days or something like that....

is it possible that he lost the number? wouldnt that be a lil stupid?or is he too shy?.....

if ur gonna give a rude ans .... just dont ans at all

how long do guys usually wait before they call a girl they've just met? is it different for everybody? (its been 2 days)

i didnt bother getting his info but he asked for mine so i gave it to him cuz he wants to meet up some time this week.......... ugh.....

i have a friend who is a guy and he asked me how he can make himself more charming.....

i have no idea...

how can a guy make himself more charming? what kind of stuff is he suppose to say?

background info

i like this guy we have tons in common and one of my guy friends told me that we look so cute together and that my crush seems to really like me. I cant tell if my crush likes me or not or we are just really really good friends. we have so much in common, kinda like a mirror image of me but different gender. he has open up to me alot and i feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything like my past (which i can never do with anyone else). he is quiet and shy around other people and im usually outgoing.

here is the problem

today when we walked off in different directions we kinda turned around and waved again and then all of the sudden, some instinct thing inside my head like yes i liked him but maybe i should not like him anymore.its bugging me cuz im confused, do i listen to my head and like not like him anymore or do i listen to my heart and just maintain status quo? i dont know if he knows i like him cuz he seems to get it at times

THX and PLZ dont be rude

ok this is weird i think....

9 years ago i met this guy we hung out for like 2 years as really really awesome friends...on graduation (elemantary) he told me he really really liked me and i laughed... and then we just sat there said nothing...and then i moved....i havent contacted him or seen him for 7 years ..... personally i really did really really like him...but under the circumstances i thought it was best not to let him know....we will call this guy A

This year in college i met another guys we hit it off really well and even during out short time of meeting we became really close friends..... i think i might even have a crush on him... we will call this guy B... and i think he likes me too like 80% sure....

For some odd reason im still cant get A out of my mind ....but i want to be more than friends with B.... but i cant bring myself to tell B because of A'shadow....

what should i do? im so confused,its totally weird

plz no wacky rude comments and thx to anyone to that ans

im really confuse where im at with this guy.... previous questions i have asked was whats the difference between a really really close friend and a crush/potential lover....

cuz im not sure what we are seriously.... alot of ppl thought i knew for a long time or couplely when i just met him.... here is the problem though....

at this point we have been acting like close friends and like we talked about alotta stuff, family, opinions, likes/ dislikes, and the list goes on .... but like we only see each other on certain days so not every day but every time we see each other we just light up ... BUT we rarely talk either on phone, msn, im (other means) other times ....so like im not sure what we are or will be...or should i even hint that i want to be more than "friends" ....im just really unsure,confused and i guess scared ...sigh~~~

he is typically a shy guy very quiet when im not around and around other girls- or so my friends tell me

im really confuse where im at with this guy.... previous questions i have asked was whats the difference between a really really close friend and a crush/potential lover....

cuz im not sure what we are seriously.... alot of ppl thought i knew for a long time or couplely when i just met him.... here is the problem though....

at this point we have been acting like close friends and like we talked about alotta stuff, family, opinions, likes/ dislikes, and the list goes on .... but like we only see each other on certain days so not every day but every time we see each other we just light up ... BUT we rarely talk either on phone, msn, im (other means) other times ....so like im not sure what we are or will be...or should i even hint that i want to be more than "friends" ....im just really unsure,confused and i guess scared ...sigh~~~

he is typically a shy guy very quiet when im not around - or so my friends tell me

im really confuse where im at with this guy.... previous questions i have asked was whats the difference between a really really close friend and a crush/potential lover....

cuz im not sure what we are seriously.... alot of ppl thought i knew for a long time or couplely when i just met him.... here is the problem though....

at this point we have been acting like close friends and like we talked about alotta stuff, family, opinions, likes/ dislikes, and the list goes on .... but like we only see each other on certain days so not every day but every time we see each other we just light up ... BUT we rarely talk either on phone, msn, im (other means) other times ....so like im not sure what we are or will be...or should i even hint that i want to be more than "friends" ....im just really unsure,confused and i guess scared ...sigh~~~

hum this is kinda a stupid question but i was wondering whats the difference between a great and close friend of opposite sex and someone who is like a crush or potential lover..... ?

cuz itsnt there like a saying that goes along the line of blah blah blah love is friendship on fire.... or something like that .... so like im kinda not sure...at least for my situation.... i think cuz there is this guy i think i like, we kinda just met like a few months ago and like when we just met we seem like really close friends and most ppl ask me if i have known him for like a long long time....which is really no.... and like some other ppl is like is there something going on between him and i.....which is no in the "relationship" type of sense... so i m really confused as to which direction him and i we are heading ....

i mean what draws the line between friendship and "lover-ship" haha (i think i made that up ) ..... is there a definet distinction or is it a grey area?

hum this is kinda a stupid question but i was wondering whats the difference between a great and close friend of opposite sex and someone who is like a crush or potential lover..... ?

cuz itsnt there like a saying that goes along the line of blah blah blah love is friendship on fire.... or something like that .... so like im kinda not sure...at least for my situation.... i think cuz there is this guy i think i like, we kinda just met like a few months ago and like when we just met we seem like really close friends and most ppl ask me if i have known him for like a long long time....which is really no.... and like some other ppl is like is there something going on between him and i.....which is no in the "relationship" type of sense... so i m really confused as to which direction him and i we are heading ....

i mean what draws the line between friendship and "lover-ship" haha (i think i made that up ) ..... is there a definet distinction or is it a grey area?

hum on like dec 22 im hosting a birthday party for me cuz im turing 19 and its legal to drink in canada at that age so there is no legal issue... im the youngest of all the ppl i invite..... but!!!

my question is that i have no idea what drinks and food to provide and what activities to have ?

ok so for the basics i kinda decided that i would have some red or white wine, juice other than that i have no idea...

food well definetly cakes and chips and no idea after that

im also not sure about quanitiy of stuff i should have because im estimating that my party will last from 6 pm till like 3 am or something...not totally sure...and i think my guests will not have had dinner yet ...

as for drinking and driving all the drinkers will have to stay at my place untill they are sober to leave which is noon next day

thx any suggestion is much appreciated

here is the problem.....actually there is two but this one is more important

ok.....so like this guy and i we are taking similar classes and for one of the classes we already had a midterm exam and we got our marks back, my mark was a lil bit lower than his, we have always gotten the same marks but now i feel stupid compare to him no longer equals and im bugged by the fact that he would not "like" me because of this....so ppl do u think he would think of me differently because of this?(thats the first problem)

the second problem is that i kinda like him more than a friend and im not sure after this situation he wouldnt want to hang out with someone who is not as smart as he is or something like that .....idk i know its stupid to ask but i guess im just very bugged ~_~"

thx to anyone who responds

im very outgoing but when it comes to telling someone i like them i can never do it.....(yeah i know its sad).....but i kinda want to let this guy know that i like him more than just a friend how do i let him know that without making it awkward between us and saying bluntly "i like u a lot wanna be my bf" type thing? cuz i have class with him and i dont wannna ruin what i have with him already. thx for responding

sigh~~~

the world is not gonna make a big diff if i am not there.....

does anyone care?

no one seems to be paying attention or is always getting me mad ......idk

hum what should i do besides get medical help...cuz that i will definetly try but like is there anything else i can do?

i used to be very oppstimistic person but idk so much happened sigh~~~

thx ppl

something happend in school there is this guy and at first i didnt know that he had a gf so we were like going out for a while and then it stopped for about a month (last month) and then a few days ago i found out that he had a gf from one of my friends ,and they have been going shorter than him and i have,oddly this month i see him pretty much everyday which i normally never and also a week ago he asked me out again but i said no cuz i was busy......

i really like him but i am not sure what to do cuz his gf is my friend's friend and i know i should not be flirting with my friend's friend's bf .........what should i do?...right now i pretend i dont know anything....:(

a)skating/indoor roller blading

b)bowling

c)billiard pool

and why?

why am i so scared to let someone into my heart?

I like a boy and he likes me (perfect right?) well no because the more i know i like him the more scared i am and i get this urge to just shut him out completely... like i don't him close to my heart its so confusing like i just want to lose him and run away. why is this?

there is the thing

i like two guys

one is a playboy(he is super cute) at my school who is currently dating me and this other girl

the other is a trustable hot guy but he is in a different university across the country and he is older by two years

who do i pick?and why?