LadyLuV

Met a real nice girl online- we talked for about 3 months everyday for hours on end. Text numerous times etc. We basically shared a lot of our lives, and we really hit it off and got along very well...After 3 months of getting to know each other we decided to finally meet in person. I went to her city got a room,( we both agreeded) it was just a friendly meet. nothing else expected, hang out go dancing and some drinks. well she decided to leave that night and NOT spend the night with me. She said she felt it was wrong because she wasnt over her EX girlfriend and wanted to go home, I was shocked because I had asked her prior to going and meeting if she was ready and really wanted to me! she said YES!!! long story story short- I came home the next day and she hasnt text me or called me, like we use to prior to meeting. I feel Like I dont know if I should ask her if something is wrong n if sooo what is it???? its killing me because i really like her....we were good friends and I miss her, I really do. I dont know if I did something wrong or what . what should i doooooo????????

I dont think its a good idea because I know with our past..example. each time she came to my house we ended up being " involved" sexually. But I do miss her soooooooo much, IDK what to do. We havent seen each other for several weeks. Im confused what should I tell her.???????

In the course of 7 months we did a lot together, we became very attached n she even Used the Love word with me. She made me believe she was going to leave wife, etc etc. No children involved. Yesterday she tells me shes going to go to marriage counseling n wants to work on her marriage! I was appalled n upset how she could lie to me for so long, n treated me like I never exited yesterday! My question is.....Should I tell spouse bout me?? I fe he needs to know the truth! Suggestions? ???

long story short we both have liked each other for 5 years, the last 2 years we lost contact(i quit) my job where she works at also. after 2 years we found each other again, and this time im not letting her go!!! she tells me she is and has always liked me sooo much, she wants to be with me also and that her marriage is miserable and wanting a divorce. i believe her. we have gone out several times and got pretty physical with one another. I love everything about her. i am scared because i feel im falling deep in love with her as each day goes on... she the same. she tells me she never ever wants to loose me again. my question after 2 long years of non contact is it possible to still love someone so intense, and maybe can it be destiny ??? or should i just try not to pursue it to much.??

me and my ex had plans to celebrate my bday last month and go on a mini vacation. out of no where she gets mad at me over something so stupid and stopped all communication with me. Even cancelled our trip for my bday! without giving me a REAL explanation. I was very confused and hurt, didnt think she would do that to me. Well all month she didnt text or called until a few days ago. She said she misses me and wants to see me!!! wtf!! I asked her why she did what she did and left "hanging" with out explanation. She said " I WANTED TO SEE IF I COULD LIVE WITHOUT YOU AND MOST IMPORANTLY TO SEE IF IM STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU, WHICH NOW I KNOW I AM".... what the hell kind of explanation is that!!!!!!!! what do you guys think? I mean, im so hurt by the whole thing and cant understand that explanation...can u guys make sense of it

me and my ex had plans to celebrate my bday last month and go on a mini vacation. out of no where she gets mad at me over something so stupid and stopped all communication with me. Even cancelled our trip for my bday! without giving me a REAL explanation. I was very confused and hurt, didnt think she would do that to me. Well all month she didnt text or called until a few days ago. She said she misses me and wants to see me!!! wtf!! I asked her why she did what she did and left "hanging" with out explanation. She said " I WANTED TO SEE IF I COULD LIVE WITHOUT YOU AND MOST IMPORANTLY TO SEE IF IM STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU, WHICH NOW I KNOW I AM".... what the hell kind of explanation is that!!!!!!!! what do you guys think? I mean, im so hurt by the whole thing and cant understand that explanation...can u guys make sense of it

We were together for 3 years, In the last year it had been very rocky. We argued a lot, we somewhat lost respect for each other. We both did very hurtful things to each other. We would stop talking for a week or two then She would call me or text and ask to hang out with me, I gave in and once again we were on that same roller coaster. It seemed like no matter how hard we tried we always ended up breaking up. Well, Last month was my bday, we had planned a big celebration but we again got into it and stopped talking for few weeks now. He finally text me and asked me if I would meet him for dinner and drinks........ I am very hurt still by what he did to me on my special day, and other very important occasions. I don't want to be back with him but I do miss him A LOT. I responded to the text sure but only as friends nothing else, and told him this time everything has changed. Its not going to be like the previous times. He agreed to just"friendly" dinner but Im not to sure. I feel maybe my emotions will come out, at the same time i do miss him. What should i do??? help pls

We were together for 3 years, In the last year it had been very rocky. We argued a lot, we somewhat lost respect for each other. We both did very hurtful things to each other. We would stop talking for a week or two then She would call me or text and ask to hang out with me, I gave in and once again we were on that same roller coaster. It seemed like no matter how hard we tried we always ended up breaking up. Well, Last month was my bday, we had planned a big celebration but we again got into it and stopped talking for few weeks now. He finally text me and asked me if I would meet him for dinner and drinks........ I am very hurt still by what he did to me on my special day, and other very important occasions. I don't want to be back with him but I do miss him A LOT. I responded to the text sure but only as friends nothing else, and told him this time everything has changed. Its not going to be like the previous times. He agreed to just"friendly" dinner but Im not to sure. I feel maybe my emotions will come out, at the same time i do miss him. What should i do??? help pls

I've been very confused can someone help please. I had a gf of 3 years we broke up for a year, During that break up I met someone else. Me and this new person started to do a lot together, We had a lot of fun, laugh, felt great...But deep down I still loved my ex. I still do. well this new person fell in love with me, I dont love her, but LIKE her a lot. She is great. Well just recently my ex came back on the picture and just confirm to me I still love her! but now I dont know what to do with the new person who fell in love with me! I mean.....I dont want to hurt either one. What should i do??? help

I've been seeing this girl for few months now. we are offically a couple, after her waiting for a year and a half for me. Well, at first she was very romantic, caring, attentive etc. she still is caring, but has stopped with going the extra mile for me. flowers have stopped and even cute little cards things she use to do. I dont know what to do or tell her? i mean.... i feel like she is kinda in a routine and isnt showing much interest as she use to. How can i tell her that? what do you think i should do? it makes me feel like maybe i should move on

I was with my ex for 3 years, 15 years ago. she left me for someone else and got married had children etc. after she left me few years later she contacted me and we talked here and there never really hung out. The thing is FELL in love with this girl. I never got over the fact she left me for someone else. all this time has gone by...she has 2 kids and married now. but she recently again contacted me again and this time we went out for drinks. She told me many things, especially how she made a mistake to leave me, and get married etc. I saw her and i felt those exact feelings i had for her 15 years ago!!! i wanted to say its ok we can work us out again, but i feel its NOT right. well time went by again months n again she contacted me. this time she was flirting, remenicing about our times together way back in the old years. I felt again those feelings for her. My question is SHOULD i even be talking to her at this point? I mean Is it healthy the right thing to do, because now that i saw her those old feelings resurface and im scared to get hurt again, but i sure still do have feelings for her......please help. what to do after all this time

Me and my girl broke up a month ago. It wasnt nice. we had a long distance relationship for 3 years. I found out a lot of lies she told me, and found out hurtful things sh was hidding from me. Well we have not had any contact in over a month, My bday just passed and I didnt get a card or anything from her, Her bday is two days later then mine but I DID send her a card!!Even after she messed up so bad in our relationship I still sent her a card, to show that Hey No hard feelings, and wish her luck in her life. Well she didnt do the same for me, nothing. Why do you think she is that way??? I mean after 3 years u just dont stop caring for someone, She was in love with me ( i think) well I just wanted to show I forgive her. Any suggestions ?????

Me and my girl broke up a month ago. It wasnt nice. we had a long distance relationship for 3 years. I found out a lot of lies she told me, and found out hurtful things sh was hidding from me. Well we have not had any contact in over a month, My bday just passed and I didnt get a card or anything from her, Her bday is two days later then mine but I DID send her a card!!Even after she messed up so bad in our relationship I still sent her a card, to show that Hey No hard feelings, and wish her luck in her life. Well she didnt do the same for me, nothing. Why do you think she is that way??? I mean after 3 years u just dont stop caring for someone, She was in love with me ( i think) well I just wanted to show I forgive her. Any suggestions ?????

I need some serious advivce. Im in a relationship currently. I did something horrible and cheated on my partner. My partner does not know, dont have it in me to come clean...well I regret it! it was a mistake, but the problem is this. I hung out with the person I cheated with a few days back as "friends" with other friends. the thing is.....I got real jelous and upset when I saw someone else flirting with my lover!!! Like what right do i have to be upset, since I have a Partner and I cheated!!!! the person I cheated with is single so she can be meeting people. Now I dont know what it means that i got so upset and bothersome, I text her that night and told her off!!! told her to go with who ever and to leave me alone!! she was like " wait, we r just friends right"? Ugh!! whats wrong with me??? and i have a partner all along...........help me. I think i need some counseling or something

really feel Im not the same person I use to be. Im in my early 30s. A few months ago, lets say 6 months I was happy, outgoing, energetic etc. I always had friends invited me to do things I did. Well I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years and the last few months have been horrible. I mean, I feel so unhappy, not confident(which is something I never ever lack if anything I was super confident) but being with my ex, I think somehow I lost all those good qualities of me! I mean we just broke up after trying for the million time, and it hurts. I miss her a lot, and I feel I became someone else for her, now shes gone and IM GONE too, since im not me!! how Can I recoupe myself? I mean.... I'm older now and should understand but damn its hard.. I feel Im depressed, All i want to do is sleep and barely work, I never smile anymore, the sad thing is THATS NOT ME deep down!!! everyone knew how i was, after being with my ex I lost myself.......help pls anything would help

I really feel Im not the same person I use to be. Im in my early 30s. A few months ago, lets say 6 months I was happy, outgoing, energetic etc. I always had friends invited me to do things I did. Well I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years and the last few months have been horrible. I mean, I feel so unhappy, not confident(which is something I never ever lack if anything I was super confident) but being with my ex, I think somehow I lost all those good qualities of me! I mean we just broke up after trying for the million time, and it hurts. I miss her a lot, and I feel I became someone else for her, now shes gone and IM GONE too, since im not me!! how Can I recoupe myself? I mean.... I'm older now and should understand but damn its hard.. I feel Im depressed, All i want to do is sleep and barely work, I never smile anymore, the sad thing is THATS NOT ME deep down!!! everyone knew how i was, after being with my ex I lost myself.......help pls anything would help

It all started so fast, a co-worker. We hung out, lunch breaks etc. i just got out of a relationship myself, so she really comforted me about it. the thing is, she is married and wants to pursuit something with me, something serious. At first I was fine with it just hanging out, talking etc but it escalted to a degree I had no IDEA it would. well long story short, the wife found out and that person got CAUGHT!!, MY lilttle fling took a huge turn and now I dont know what to do! She tells me she wants to be with me at all cost, and maybe even ending it with the wife because he fell hard for me without even realizing it either. The thing is, Im so confused I feel guilty, ashamed, that I may be the reason of a broken marriage a "divorce". I told him I felt I could do it before but things got way to serious way to fast, and that Even though I REALLY also have feelings for him he needs to decide what the right thing to do is. i even encourage him to maybe work things out with the wife, etc..but he said he is sure of one thing right now and that one thing is how much he WANTS me in his life. I feel so confused, What if any advice can anyone give please.....

It all started so fast, a co-worker. We hung out, lunch breaks etc. i just got out of a relationship myself, so she really comforted me about it. the thing is, she is married and wants to pursuit something with me, something serious. At first I was fine with it just hanging out, talking etc but it escalted to a degree I had no IDEA it would. well long story short, the wife found out and that person got CAUGHT!!, MY lilttle fling took a huge turn and now I dont know what to do! She tells me she wants to be with me at all cost, and maybe even ending it with the wife because he fell hard for me without even realizing it either. The thing is, Im so confused I feel guilty, ashamed, that I may be the reason of a broken marriage a "divorce". I told him I felt I could do it before but things got way to serious way to fast, and that Even though I REALLY also have feelings for him he needs to decide what the right thing to do is. i even encourage him to maybe work things out with the wife, etc..but he said he is sure of one thing right now and that one thing is how much he WANTS me in his life. I feel so confused, What if any advice can anyone give please.....

Ok, I really need advice. Im in a long distance relationship have been for over a year. Its been tough but we've manged so far. Well I have a gut feeling that she is lying to me about something,(her ex living with her)!! huge deal. I have visted her, and never see him but She does act a little suspicous when im there. Well I want to get a flight and show up unexpectally.... Im so confused but feel I really need to do it for my own sanity. Just to know for myself the truth. The thing is ..if I go and I dont find anything would she be mad? or what if I do find something?? Im scared both ways...help! what would any of you people do pls......thank u