Gabriela

I don't know how to get over my ex. We have a daughter together so everytime I see him or talk to him I want to be with him again. I cant help it. I cant stop asking him question s that are bon of my business.. Like how was tour date? Does she look better than me? Did you guys have good conversation? I ask these dumb questions that only give me answers that make me feel worse. I alsi cant stop checking his facebook page or the facebook pages of all the girls he is dating. We broke up because he was flirting witg his high school friends on facebook. I tried and tried to get his reasons for doing this out of him until finally he got tired of what he callsy nagging and he broke up with me. He said he is young 21 years old and he wants his freedom of going to bars and meeting new girls. I am having a VERY hard time accepting thid considering we had a baby, a house paid in cash, and plans for marriage. Please help me get over him because he clearly prefers these other girls over me .

I just moved in with my boyfriend 2 months ago because I am pregnant. I'd say the first two weeks were great and we had sex all the time because it was the first time we had so much time together. Then it slowed down. I thought it was natural, considering our work schedule: I work 5am to 2pm and he works 3pm to 12am. When he comes home, I need to be sleeping to wake up early for the next day. i found out every night he came home from work or I was at work in the morning he was watching porn or masturbating to pictures on facebook. I found out just because I had a strong gut feeling about it and so I asked him. It turned into an argument and he admitted he was. I knew he watched porn, but he said it would stop once I lived with him. I never reject sex, why wouldn't he want to have sex with me when he comes home? His answer is that he doesn't know. I was mad and left. When I came back, I saw in the history that instead of missing me he watched porn again. I accepted his appology, tried to move on, but then he did it again, and again, and again. He says he doesn't know why and that he's sorry. I gave him the option of breaking up if he just isn't attracted to me anymore and he rejected the idea. He says I'm beatiful, that he loves how I love having sex and that he wants to be with me forever. Can i believe it? Is he only with me because we're having a baby together? He tells me what he fantasizes about when he masturbates to the facebook pictures and it hurts to know that he fantasizes about things I want but that he refuses to do with me (even before I was pregnant!) . I offered watching it together and he said he felt uncomfortable. I just don't understand why he gets more aroused masturbating to porn and facebook more than having sex with me. I'm not incredibly hot, but I'm pretty decent. One thing I have noticed is that the girls are either prettier or have bigger butts than I do. Does he want more? Why does he stay with me? I know he's not worried about hurting the baby because when we do have sex, he holds nothing back. I'm thinking I should do us both the favor and break up for good. It's what he wants right?