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  • My bf cheated on me with his baby mama?

    And he swears up and down that she forced him to do it and he was never into it. they've been having sex for as long and our whole relationship, he said he was doing it because he needed her help to file for indecency for financial aid stuff, and she threatens him with a lot concerning their son so he felt like it was the only way he could get her help. Anyway he said he wouldnt do it again because he knows now that she doesnt have that kind of power, and he fully regrets everything, I tried to break up with him regardless of all this because its a disgusting situation and he literally cried his eyes out for an hour. I assumed this meant he was genuine and though I was still disgusted, I stayed with him, he even gave me the password to his fb, and lets me check his phone whenever, Idk if im making the right choice though, were both 19, and in school, i really love him but i dont want to make the wrong decision, I'm not the type of girl to take bs, so if theres a reason to leave him I will, what is your suggestion/experience with this type of situation.

    9 AnswersPolls & Surveys8 years ago
  • My bf cheated on me with his baby mama?

    And he swears up and down that she forced him to do it and he was never into it. they've been having sex for as long and our whole relationship, he said he was doing it because he needed her help to file for indecency for financial aid stuff, and she threatens him with a lot concerning their son so he felt like it was the only way he could get her help. Anyway he said he wouldnt do it again because he knows now that she doesnt have that kind of power, and he fully regrets everything, I tried to break up with him regardless of all this because its a disgusting situation and he literally cried his eyes out for an hour. I assumed this meant he was genuine and though I was still disgusted, I stayed with him, he even gave me the password to his fb, and lets me check his phone whenever, Idk if im making the right choice though, were both 19, and in school, i really love him but i dont want to make the wrong decision, I'm not the type of girl to take bs, so if theres a reason to leave him I will, what is your suggestion/experience with this type of situation.

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • My bf cheated on me with his baby mama?

    And he swears up and down that she forced him to do it and he was never into it. they've been having sex for as long and our whole relationship, he said he was doing it because he needed her help to file for indecency for financial aid stuff, and she threatens him with a lot concerning their son so he felt like it was the only way he could get her help. Anyway he said he wouldnt do it again because he knows now that she doesnt have that kind of power, and he fully regrets everything, I tried to break up with him regardless of all this because its a disgusting situation and he literally cried his eyes out for an hour. I assumed this meant he was genuine and though I was still disgusted, I stayed with him, he even gave me the password to his fb, and lets me check his phone whenever, Idk if im making the right choice though, were both 19, and in school, i really love him but i dont want to make the wrong decision, I'm not the type of girl to take bs, so if theres a reason to leave him I will, what is your suggestion/experience with this type of situation.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • my dad(and family) is forcing me to transfer from Temple U, to MIllersville U?

    even though I have a GPA of 3.7. what are the pros and con of both schools? I want to make sure I make the right decision.

    1 AnswerPolls & Surveys8 years ago
  • How long before I can take out a loan on my own?

    I need money to go to school next spring semester which is is in 6 months, I want to get a credit card so Ill be able to build my credit enough so as to take out a private loan because I don't have anyone that will cosign for me, and in order for me to pay for school, I will need to be able to take out private loans, how can I achieve good enough credit for this in 6 months?

    1 AnswerPolls & Surveys8 years ago
  • How long before I can take loan on my own?

    I need money to go to school next spring semester which is is in 6 months, I want to get a credit card so Ill be able to build my credit enough so as to take out a private loan because I don't have anyone that will cosign for me, and in order for me to pay for school, I will need to be able to take out private loans, how can I achieve good enough credit for this in 6 months?

    1 AnswerFinancial Aid8 years ago
  • My sisters bf kissed me on the cheek?

    And my boyfriend is pissed off. I told him about it, and hes pushing so hard for me to tell the guy that I wasnt comfortable with it, or to tell my sister that he kissed me, and that I didnt like it. The thing is that I knew he was just being friendly and he was just being a nice guy, and I dont want to be rude for a stupid reason telling him not to do that and making a big deal out of nothing.My boyfriend has decided to make this a big deal, and now were fighting. Anyway, what got on my nerves is that(this is innaproprite) but he said if I did a certain sexual thing, he wouldnt require me to do all that, which really makes me mad. I said no of course and thats what resulted in us fighting. Is he right to be angry? And if not, how do I handle it. Me and my bf are 19 btw, my sis is 24 and her bf 26.

    5 AnswersPolls & Surveys8 years ago
  • My sisters boyfriend kissed me on the cheek?

    And my boyfriend is pissed off. I told him about it, and hes pushing so hard for me to tell the guy that I wasnt comfortable with it, or to tell my sister that he kissed me, and that I didnt like it. The thing is that I knew he was just being friendly and he was just being a nice guy, and I dont want to be rude for a stupid reason telling him not to do that and making a big deal out of nothing.My boyfriend has decided to make this a big deal, and now were fighting. Anyway, what got on my nerves is that(this is innaproprite) but he said if I did a certain sexual thing, he wouldnt require me to do all that, which really makes me mad. I said no of course and thats what resulted in us fighting. Is he right to be angry? And if not, how do I handle it. Me and my bf are 19 btw, my sis is 24 and her bf 26.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Is this a legitimate reason for my bf to be talking to his ex?

    They have a kid together, and i dont mind when theyre talking about their son. But they talk 24/7 on text, and everytime hes on facebook. Anyway, I confronted him about the excessive communication and he said that he talks to her cause she has no one else to talk to and shes going through alot of stuff, and she doesnt have that many people to talk to. He also said that she has a potential of going crazy, and he doesnt want his child in the arms of a crazy woman.He also said he wants to remain in good terms with her, and doesnt want a situation where they are in discord with eachother, and she gets mad, and she tries to battle for full costudy, or somethig like that. Anyway Ive caught a glimpse of what they talk about, and I saw something about her saying that she misses havin sex with him. I dont want to seem mean but is his reasonlegitimate? And how do I handle it.

    3 AnswersPolls & Surveys8 years ago
  • Is this a legitimate reason for my bf to talk to his ex?

    They have a kid together, and i dont mind when theyre talking about their son. But they talk 24/7 on text, and everytime hes on facebook. Anyway, I confronted him about the excessive communication and he said that he talks to her cause she has no one else to talk to and shes going through alot of stuff, and she doesnt have that many people to talk to. He also said that she has a potential of going crazy, and he doesnt want his child in the arms of a crazy woman.He also said he wants to remain in good terms with her, and doesnt want a situation where they are in discord with eachother, and she gets mad, and she tries to battle for full costudy, or somethig like that. Anyway Ive caught a glimpse of what they talk about, and I saw something about her saying that she misses havin sex with him. I dont want to seem mean but is his reasonlegitimate? And how do I handle it.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Is it disrespectful to ask your BF?

    To see the conversations between himself and the mother of his child? I seriously think there might be something going on between them, they text ALL THE TIME!! but I dont want to be rude and ask to see what theyre talking about. Plus he looks through my cellphone and what not when Hes suspicious of me, and scolds me for texting exes, even though were just genuinely friends, and he sees that, the thing is I wuna do the same to him soo bad, but I feel like I dont have the right. Your thoughts?

    4 AnswersPolls & Surveys8 years ago
  • Is it direspectful to ask your boyfriend?

    To see the conversations between himself and the mother of his child? I seriously think there might be something going on between them, they text ALL THE TIME!! but I dont want to be rude and ask to see what theyre talking about. Plus he looks through my cellphone and what not when Hes suspicious of me, and scolds me for texting exes, even though were just genuinely friends, and he sees that, the thing is I wuna do the same to him soo bad, but I feel like I dont have the right. Your thoughts?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • 19 year old dating someone with child?

    hey,

    I'm 19 years old, and my boyfriend (also 19) has a child, were both in college. when I first found out I didn't really think too much of it, and thought I could handle the whole situation. We've been together 8 months now, and he's introduce me to both his parents. I on the other hand am nigerian and in my culture ,we are not permitted to introduce significant others unless we are engaged. anyway, him and his baby mama text literally all the time even when he's with me, and I just feel some kind of way about it because she's still his ex, but even though I have a problem with it, I feel like I can't say anything because they might be talking about their son. The son is 1 btw, and me and my bf have been together for 8 months, we've been bf and gf for 5 months however. anyway, lately I find that its getting harder to deal with the whole thing, and I'm jealous of the ex gf becasue she has his baby. I don't want a baby now or anything I'm just jealous because I don't feel like number 1, and I feel like any girl should feel like number 1 in any relationship. anyway he talks about his son a lot, which makes it a little worse for me too. so to make it all better I asked him if I would ever meet his son, because I knew if I learned to love his son, I would be able to care for him and understand his significance in my bf's life, and not care too much about the baby mama, the only thing is that my bf said that I'll meet his son, when he meets my parents, the thing is that I wish he could meet my parents so badly, and if I had the power to do so, he would have met them a long time ago, but my culture is different, and my parents abide strongly by it. IDK what to do, because I find myself thinking about this when I shouldn't be, in class and what not, what would be your advice for this situation?

    Im a good girl btw, I make deans list every semester with a major in chemistry and premed, so I'm not some stupid girl that's only worried about boys, this is why I need help with this situation.

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • 19 year old dating someone with child?

    hey,

    I'm 19 years old, and my boyfriend (also 19) has a child, were both in college. when I first found out I didn't really think too much of it, and thought I could handle the whole situation. We've been together 8 months now, and he's introduce me to both his parents. I on the other hand am nigerian and in my culture ,we are not permitted to introduce significant others unless we are engaged. anyway, him and his baby mama text literally all the time even when he's with me, and I just feel some kind of way about it because she's still his ex, but even though I have a problem with it, I feel like I can't say anything because they might be talking about their son. The son is 1 btw, and me and my bf have been together for 8 months, we've been bf and gf for 5 months however. anyway, lately I find that its getting harder to deal with the whole thing, and I'm jealous of the ex gf becasue she has his baby. I don't want a baby now or anything I'm just jealous because I don't feel like number 1, and I feel like any girl should feel like number 1 in any relationship. anyway he talks about his son a lot, which makes it a little worse for me too. so to make it all better I asked him if I would ever meet his son, because I knew if I learned to love his son, I would be able to care for him and understand his significance in my bf's life, and not care too much about the baby mama, the only thing is that my bf said that I'll meet his son, when he meets my parents, the thing is that I wish he could meet my parents so badly, and if I had the power to do so, he would have met them a long time ago, but my culture is different, and my parents abide strongly by it. IDK what to do, because I find myself thinking about this when I shouldn't be, in class and what not, what would be your advice for this situation?

    Im a good girl btw, I make deans list every semester with a major in chemistry and premed, so I'm not some stupid girl that's only worried about boys, this is why I need help with this situation.

    1 AnswerOther - Cultures & Groups8 years ago
  • 19 year old dating someone with child?

    hey,

    I'm 19 years old, and my boyfriend (also 19) has a child, were both in college. when I first found out I didn't really think too much of it, and thought I could handle the whole situation. We've been together 8 months now, and he's introduce me to both his parents. I on the other hand am nigerian and in my culture ,we are not permitted to introduce significant others unless we are engaged. anyway, him and his baby mama text literally all the time even when he's with me, and I just feel some kind of way about it because she's still his ex, but even though I have a problem with it, I feel like I can't say anything because they might be talking about their son. The son is 1 btw, and me and my bf have been together for 8 months, we've been bf and gf for 5 months however. anyway, lately I find that its getting harder to deal with the whole thing, and I'm jealous of the ex gf becasue she has his baby. I don't want a baby now or anything I'm just jealous because I don't feel like number 1, and I feel like any girl should feel like number 1 in any relationship. anyway he talks about his son a lot, which makes it a little worse for me too. so to make it all better I asked him if I would ever meet his son, because I knew if I learned to love his son, I would be able to care for him and understand his significance in my bf's life, and not care too much about the baby mama, the only thing is that my bf said that I'll meet his son, when he meets my parents, the thing is that I wish he could meet my parents so badly, and if I had the power to do so, he would have met them a long time ago, but my culture is different, and my parents abide strongly by it. IDK what to do, because I find myself thinking about this when I shouldn't be, in class and what not, what would be your advice for this situation?

    Im a good girl btw, I make deans list every semester with a major in chemistry and premed, so I'm not some stupid girl that's only worried about boys, this is why I need help with this situation.

    2 AnswersPolls & Surveys8 years ago
  • 19 year old dating someone with a child?

    hey,

    I'm 19 years old, and my boyfriend (also 19) has a child, were both in college. when I first found out I didn't really think too much of it, and thought I could handle the whole situation. We've been together 8 months now, and he's introduce me to both his parents. I on the other hand am nigerian and in my culture ,we are not permitted to introduce significant others unless we are engaged. anyway, him and his baby mama text literally all the time even when he's with me, and I just feel some kind of way about it because she's still his ex, but even though I have a problem with it, I feel like I can't say anything because they might be talking about their son. The son is 1 btw, and me and my bf have been together for 8 months, we've been bf and gf for 5 months however. anyway, lately I find that its getting harder to deal with the whole thing, and I'm jealous of the ex gf becasue she has his baby. I don't want a baby now or anything I'm just jealous because I don't feel like number 1, and I feel like any girl should feel like number 1 in any relationship. anyway he talks about his son a lot, which makes it a little worse for me too. so to make it all better I asked him if I would ever meet his son, because I knew if I learned to love his son, I would be able to care for him and understand his significance in my bf's life, and not care too much about the baby mama, the only thing is that my bf said that I'll meet his son, when he meets my parents, the thing is that I wish he could meet my parents so badly, and if I had the power to do so, he would have met them a long time ago, but my culture is different, and my parents abide strongly by it. IDK what to do, because I find myself thinking about this when I shouldn't be, in class and what not, what would be your advice for this situation?

    Im a good girl btw, I make deans list every semester with a major in chemistry and premed, so I'm not some stupid girl that's only worried about boys, this is why I need help with this situation.

    10 AnswersParenting8 years ago
  • 19 year old dating someone with a child?

    hey,

    I'm 19 years old, and my boyfriend (also 19) has a child, were both in college. when I first found out I didn't really think too much of it, and thought I could handle the whole situation. We've been together 8 months now, and he's introduce me to both his parents. I on the other hand am nigerian and in my culture ,we are not permitted to introduce significant others unless we are engaged. anyway, him and his baby mama text literally all the time even when he's with me, and I just feel some kind of way about it because she's still his ex, but even though I have a problem with it, I feel like I can't say anything because they might be talking about their son. The son is 1 btw, and me and my bf have been together for 8 months, we've been bf and gf for 5 months however. anyway, lately I find that its getting harder to deal with the whole thing, and I'm jealous of the ex gf becasue she has his baby. I don't want a baby now or anything I'm just jealous because I don't feel like number 1, and I feel like any girl should feel like number 1 in any relationship. anyway he talks about his son a lot, which makes it a little worse for me too. so to make it all better I asked him if I would ever meet his son, because I knew if I learned to love his son, I would be able to care for him and understand his significance in my bf's life, and not care too much about the baby mama, the only thing is that my bf said that I'll meet his son, when he meets my parents, the thing is that I wish he could meet my parents so badly, and if I had the power to do so, he would have met them a long time ago, but my culture is different, and my parents abide strongly by it. IDK what to do, because I find myself thinking about this when I shouldn't be, in class and what not, what would be your advice for this situation?

    Im a good girl btw, I make deans list every semester with a major in chemistry and premed, so I'm not some stupid girl that's only worried about boys, this is why I need help with this situation.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • How would you feel about?

    Your boyfriend talking to random girl on a website, about sex and what not, would you break up with him? Is this normal? Also what about to his ex, they have a kid together but they talk way too much imo, plus when I looked through his stuff their convos were kinda innappropriate

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago