Liz R

I have been best friends with this particular girl for 6 years now. Her and her boyfriend have been together for 4 of those 6.

They dont have a very good relationship at the moment and constantly fight. I've always had suspicions he might be cheating, but never had any proof.

Yesterday at a festival, I met a girl and she didnt realise that the girl in question was my bestfriend, and she started sayinf "poor ...., her boyfriend is always out cheating on her, he's always hooking up with other girls, even in their own house"

Naturally I was shocked, allthough it wasnt a massive surprise.

I didnt ask any questions, just played along I knew, and then walked away.

Im now torn, do I tell her? My issue is, I dont know 100% its true.. but honestly I really do believe it is.

To complicate matters further, her boyfriend is best friends with mine. If I were to tell her, it would make things really awkward for all of us.

What do I do!

I recently just got a variable rate personal loan for $10,000.

The loan is for cosmetic surgery.

I would like to get the surgery within the year, however setting a date isn't too important at the moment.

I have the $10,000 sitting in a savings account with an interest rate of 5%.

The interest rate on the loan is currently 15%.

Should I just leave the money in the savings account, to accrue interest, then get the surgery after a year?

In a year I would earn $2000 in interest on the $10,000, which would cover the whole amount of interest im paying over my 2 year loan,

So basically, im being lent $10,000 and, if I leave it in my account for a year im not paying any extra interest?

Is it just me or does that make no sense?

I am aware that some banks offer 100% loans, Im just wondering what percentage of the total amount do most banks require as a deposit?

Im looking into studying physiotherapy at Uni, im just wondering if physiotherapists need to give patients needles ever, or have to study anything to do with needles.. or is there anything else out of the ordinary physio visit that a physio does?

what does 'manyak ampota' mean?

I've just been approved for a credit card. All my friends are telling me it's a bad idea.

Im pretty good with money, so I think i should be ok lol.

What are something to be mindful off?

The credit card i applied for has a 55day interest free period, im paid weekly, so i shouldnt have much trouble paying things within 55 days

Is there anyway that when someone adds you on facebook you can accept the request, but limit there access so they can only see your profile and not post on your wall?

He drives a Lexus IS300. ITs for a birthday present, I know nothing about cars :)

Its my boyfriends birthday soon, and I want to buy him something for his car.

He drives a lexus IS300. Hes alreayd for screens in all the head rests, so there goes that idea.

What could I get him? Im looking at spending anything upto $300. Possibly more if its something good.

Please be specific.

Ta :)

When is the best time to travel to Spain, and what areas should we visit?

I've been seeing this guy for nearly a year now.

We're pretty much best friends with benefits. We're not official because he travels alot, and I have work commitments.

The other day he was pinching me and wrestling with me, and it was really annoying and he was generally hurting me. I told him to stop, he didnt. So i yelled at him, "Seriously stop your hurting me", still doesnt stop. So I pushed him off me, and hit him (not very hard, im tiny). Straight away he hit me in the chest and i fell into the wall and nocked the mirror off his table. Then he started yelled "why the f*ck did you hit me", at that stage i was crying like a baby, and didnt say anything because who knows what he would do. A minute went by i was laying on the bed crying he picks me up and starts saying im sorry, im so sorry, i'll never do it again. Are you ok? im really sorry..

And so on.

Its not the fact that it hurt, or that he hit me that bothers me. Its the look in his eyes when he did it. It was like I was nothing.

Im pretty sure it wont happen again, but can you ever be sure?

I didnt yell at him or make a big deal, because his flatmates were over. So i just stayed quiet the rest of the day.

What would you do?

Its my 19th Birthday next Saturday, im struggling for ideas here.

Im just going to have 20 or so close friends over for drinks at my place, then head into the city and go to a few clubs.

I dont want to just sit around drinking all night, any good drinking/party games anyone knows of? Anything to make the night more fun..

Willing to spend upto $400 or so. Dont bother suggest "buy a **** load of alcohol and get drunk" .. that is a given.

NB: Im in australia, hence being able to club at 19 :)

What did you get for your Birthday this year, If it hasn't been your Birthday what have you asked for?

I really cant think of anything. Im turning 19, i really want a new tattoo, my parents aren't too keen. Any ideas?

I live out of home, paying my rent and buying my groceries for 2 weeks would be a major help, but my parents want to buy me a 'present' .. hmm .

Im turning 19 in 3 weeks. Im not sure what to do for my Birthday.

Im really not interested in having a big dinner with all my "close friends", as its my flatmates Birthday this weekend, and thats what he's doing.

For my 18th I hired out the VIP section of a club, which was pretty good.

I've had a look at renting a stretch hummer for 2 hours to cruise around the CBd, which would cost approx $880. - My parents think that it's a bit expensive and that if I do that for my 169th i'll have to much to live up for my 21st.

I don't really want to spend more than $600.

What are some good ideas? Alcohol shall definately be involved. - Perhaps not if we chose to go go-karting or something similar in the day, but definately will involve clubbing.

All my friends are hip hop dancers, what hip hop/rnb clubs in the city are good?

Excluding - funky Buddha, RnB superclub, Sapphire..

Im trying to guy G-Dragons album Heartbreaker in Sydney, Im not sure where any korean music stores are? I can only find it on ebay in Korea but the shipping will take to long i need it by Friday.

I usually get paid fortnightly on fridays (im due to be paid this friday).

Today is my last day at the job, aren't they technically supposed to pay me today because its my last day?

The accountant insists on paying me on friday. Hmm doesnt sound right to me!

Im 18, I live out of home, and I have been made redundant in my admin job.

I havent taken any annual leave in the past 10 months, when i leave i will be paid four weeks pay, plus 3 weeks in annual leave.

Its impossible to find a fulltime, or any admin job in late december, so I will probably be unemployed till early - mid January.

My pay our will be roughly $4000. How much money should I be keeping in my savings?

My rent is $165p/w, and I dont currenltly have a car. All i'll really need money for is groceries and other incidentals.

Any advice?

I already have tow sparrows on the left side of my stomach (ribcage), and the quote "Alis Volat Propriis," (she flies with her own wings).

Im going to get two koi fish on the right side of my rib cage, im trying to find a good quote to go with it? I think it will just look two plain without anything else.. any ideas?

Im 18, 5'9 & weight approx 130 pounds.

I only want to lose about 10 pounds, in the next 3 months.

I calculated my BMR as 1444.

I generally consume over 2000 calories per day (not including weekend binge drinking sessions!) and never gain much weight at all? If i try and stick to 1200 calories per day and excercise for 30mins per day, am i going to lose any weight?

I've recently been browsing some pro anorexia sites, most of the girls only consume 300 - 400 calories per day. I look at photos of these girls and some of them are fat? well, they dont look too skinny at all?

My dietition said i should consume 1200 calories per day minimum.

If they are having less than a third of that, and are still fat, what chance do i have?