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I have severe anxiety when it comes to stress on making a decision .this is going to be my senior year this year and I don't know what to do. My mom either wants me to go air force or to a big school but I don't know what to do...everyone keeps telling me to just do what's going to make me happy but I don't know what that is... My fiance is going to have to stay here a little while after i graduate before he can go anywhere with me...i want to make my mom happy and proud but i also want to be with ny fiance and make him happy...please help me make a decision...i need advice

I am 17 years old and i just lost my virginity a few days ago and my boyfriend says its now hurting for him to pee. We both have only had one other person in which a ******* was given/received and neither of us have a history of having an STD. He has been checked before but has had a ******* since then by one other person and i have only done that with one person i used to date before him. I have never been checked before but have had a minor UTI. Is this a UTI or an STD or anything to be worried about?