Eleanor

My best friend broke up with his ex-boyfriend (which is my friend too) a few months ago.. But before their break up... She started to see someone and I didn't say anything to anybody, now she's in a serious relationship with that guy, her ex just asked me if she has moved on or something... And I decided to be honest and I told him half the truth ... I told him that she is dating someone, but don't know the details cuz she's busy in college and we don't have time to text each other anymore.. I know that I sound like a ***** telling him that, but I think he deserved the truth and I tried to not to hurt him!

He isn't over her, so I was trying to help him and my BFF too.. Cuz she Didn't want to tell him that she is dating someone and she moved on... But her ex is still suffering for their break up and I can't stand it anymore.. That's why I told him & Cuz he asked me to..

So I think I helped them both .... But for now the two of them are suffering and me...

He"s suffering cuz he thinks that he didn't mean to her like she meant to him..

And she's feeling guilty for the things she did to him!

And I told her everything I said to him and she got mad at me and she made me look like the witch of her relationship and now she's not talking to me.. -.-

The thing that I don't like about her is that she likes the attention that her ex gives to her but she doesn't know or pretend to don't know that he's suffering !

Now here's the question ... Am I a bad person for telling him the truth ?

What should I do after all this drama ... I've tried to talk to her but she doesn't pick up my calls...

And I've been texting her ex just to check that he's ok :)

But I don't know how to fix this !

I don't wanna lose my BFF ... And I don't want anything bad happen to my friend ( her ex ) either..!

So SOS & give my ur opinion !

My story is hard to explain ...

So lets make it short ...

I was bullied when i was in high school and I did the stupidest thing in the world.. I quit school cuz couldn't handle the jokes and how those ppl treated me. so I went to my father's restaurant to work ... Now I've been working for 4 years and everybody that I know is in college and they can have amazing trips all over the world and Im a loser who quit school n now I don't have anything.. just work and work .. sometimes I think how things could be so different if I didn't quit ...

I just asked my mom in tears if I can go back to school.. But I don't know if go back to school will help me to kill the demons inside of me.. Cuz there's always a voice telling that I'm a failure in life...

Should I go back to school at this age (21) or just keep working n maybe one day take my dad's business ?

IM VISITING MY FRIEND IN MIAMI IN MARCH

BUT IM 20 AND HOTELS DON'T ALLOW PEOPLE UNDER 21 TO CHECK IN

SO I TOLD HIM MY PROBLEM AND ASK HIM FOR HELP ... AND HE JUST SAID THAT I CAN STAY AT HIS HOUSE ... AND I FREAKED OUT... CUZ I KNOW HE KIND OF LIKE ME.. AND WE'VE BEEN TALKING A LOT SINCE I TOLD HIM THAT IM GOING TO VISIT HIM.. SO SHOULD I GO AND LIVE WITH HIM ? OR FIND A HOTEL JUST FOR MYSELF?

HE'S NOT A STRANGER CUZ I USED TO GO TO SCHOOL WITH HIM ... PLUS HE LIVES WITH HIS 15 YEARS OLD SISTER..

I DON'T KNOW.. WHAT TO DO... AND WHAT MY PARENTS WILL THINK ABOUT ME IF I GO TO HIS HOUSE AND STAY THERE FOR A FEW DAYS !

Tengo 20 años y pienso ir a Miami sola por unos 5 días para conocer la ciudad, pero he oído que los hoteles de alla no alojan a jóvenes menores de 21 años. Me podrían recomendar algún hotel ? Que acepte menores y que este entre 100-150 $ la noche! Que este cerca de la playa y de los shopping malls !

Y que lugares me recomendarían ir ?

Bueno espero sus respuestas !

Im 20 and I'm going to stay in miami for 5 days.

Can someone suggest me a great hotel near the beach and shopping malls ? And not too expensive... (maybe a hotel with free transportation would be great )

I heard some hotels there don't allow people under 21, so am I gonna have problem with that ?

and which places I shouldn't miss ?

Hoy estuve viendo fotos de mis ex compañeros de la escuela y muchos están estudiando en canadá o en estados unidos, cosa que yo no pude hacer por que deje la escuela, pero siempre he querido ir a esos lugares, pero mis padres siempre me han puesto a trabajar con ellos desde que iba a la secundaria ( tienen un restaurante ) y me ponían de cajera cuando salía de la escuela... Aora que crecí pues me ponen a hacer mas cosas y mas por que no estudio me dejan todo el día en el negocio.. Y viendo las fotos de mis ex compañeros siento envidia y enojo al ver que ellos no se esfuerzan por nada y yo me esfuerzo tanto y al final no obtengo nada, no es justo llevar una vida así...

Que puedo hacer para dejar de sentirme así? Siento que mi cabeza va a estallar !

I'm planning to work at a fast food restaurant (fried chicken and stuff )

but I don't know if I should wear makeup ( foundation and powder ) to protect my skin from the grease...

I want to use Stee Lauder 's matte perfecting primer... or what you can recommend?

I have a little acne problem.. but I don't want it to get worst... ;(

so help me.l what should I do... or just wash my face every time I feel the grease on my face?

regresare a trabajar a un restaurante de comida rápida

al salir de trabajo siempre me dejaba el cutis grasoso y por supuesto me dejaba con un serio problema de acné...

mi pregunta es si al usar maquillaje ( base y polvo ) ayudaran a qe mi cara no se engrase tanto ?

o empeorara mi situación?

ya mejor un poco fuera de ese empleo, y no qiero volver a tener acné en mi carita :(

i have red spots all over my back :( they hurt when I touch them.. ;S

they look so gross.. that I can't wear tops or bikini when I go to the beach.. ;(

what can I do ! I want a treatment that doesn't leave scars or stuff like that?

:( I'm really worried !

quiero comprarte un iPod touch

pero no se de cuantas gb ...

Ademas ya tengo un iPad y un iPod nano...

pero qiero el iPod touch por puro capricho no se si comprarlo o no..

ya tengo el dinero listo y todo..

pero mi mama me dice que no me lo compre que solo ando desperdiciando mi dinero por que si...

lo compro o no lo compro?

si lo llegara a comprar me podrian decir de cuantos GB me convendria mas?

tenia muchos granos en la frente, solo en la frente por que siempre tenia el flequillo tampandomela...

bueno la cosa es que estuve usando una crema que se llama "dermisa" para tratar mis granos... ( he intentando con sinfín de cremas y jabones y ese si ha funcionado ) el único problema es que me reseca la piel, pero ha desaparecido casi todos mis granitos en menos de una semana, pero mi frente esta tan reseca qe se ve la en la piel costras blancas ... me da pena salir a la calle así y además con la frente descubierta !

que me recomiendan para librarme de los granitos sin resecar mi cara?

no creo en los remedios caseros... por que siento que me sacan mas granos :S

espero sus respuestas :)

hola tengo 20 años y vivo en México

no tengo ninguna meta ni sueños en mente por que siempre cuando se lo cuento a algún "adulto" me meten ideas para hacerme cambiar de opinión... es por eso que estoy frustrada conmigo misma y a la vez no tengo a alguien con el que pueda contar...

mi mama el año pasado me dejo regresar a mi país natal, Panamá, fui a arreglar unos papeles y también visite a unos amigos que me dieron una idea de vida alla ( rentar un departamento, trabajar en un lugar estable y ahorrar dinero para poder tener vacaciones una vez al año ) cuando regrese le conté a mi padre sobre esos planes y me dijo que no era tan fácil como yo pensaba... y me hizo cambiar de idea..

pasaron meses y seguía con esa idea en mi cabeza, hasta me enoje con mis padres y hasta hice huelga de hambre para que me dejaran irme.. les dije qe me dejaran probar aunque fueran 6 meses y si no sobrevivía sola pues regresaría a casa con ellos... pero no me dejaron...

el mes pasado me dejaron regresar a Panamá pero a visitar a mi hermana... y ella tiene un trabajo y un novio que la mantiene muy bien.. y es así como me veo a mi.. y cuando regrese a México, regrese deprimida por que se que mis padres no me dejara hacer lo que qiero...

mi mama dijo que por qe no me quedaba aquí con ellos, que tienen negocio propio, y qe cada año me pueden dar vacaciones al lugar que quisiera, es una buena oferta... pero odia la ciudad en la qe vivo...

no se si es por que soy una persona demasiado terca y negativa...

ahora me la paso depre casi todo el tiempo...

no se que hacer... alguna idea..?

I met this guys in high school like 4 years ago at boarding school..

I'm living in Mexico now.. and he is from venezuela but now he's studying in Miami

he was in the same classroom with me.. i never talked to him in person, cuz I was shy...

when I left the school, I luckily got his msn.. and I added him on fb

a few months ago.. he started to talk to me... sending me inbox and asking me things about how I was doing and stuff... I really didn't get the chance to know him better... but when I talk to him it's like a knew him since forever I can talk to him about crazy stuff that normal people would find weird but he understands me ... that's why I started to like him...

I told him one day that I want to get married cuz I thought I was getting old stuff like that... and he told me that he wouldn't mind to marry me... ;) we're not officially in a relationship... but sometimes I try to ask him bout our "relationship" and he tells me that when I visit him in Miami he will answer me...

I don't know if he's just playing with me.. ;(

so what should I do...? take the risk and visit him?

or just stop talking to him..? and don't make this thing bigger...?