Booboo

My boyfriend and I have both been divorced twice. He has grown kids and has lived on his own in between relationships in the past. He was also in a 3 year relationship (living with a woman) but that ended last year which is when he moved back into his parent's house. His story is that he's holding out for a house on a decent amount of property before he moves out of his parents. My advice to him was to get something temporary until he finds something more permanent. Now he says he's trying to buy a warehouse that he was going to re-sell for profit, or that he could also live in. Whatever. So that's his new thing now and said he can't buy a house when he's trying to buy the warehouse. I'm 44 and own my own house and feel that he's a grown man who should have a place of his own. I'm not sure if I should give him ultimatums or not, because he really is a nice guy, but it's hard for me to go to his parent's house to see him. I feel like we're teenagers fooling around in his bedroom in their basement. He doesn't mind coming to my house, but it would be nice to hang out with my guy at his own place too. I mean, really.

Exhusband living too close