Minniex

I was made redundant, with my last day being 2nd May. I have been very lucky and secured a new job, which I will start 6th May.

I have received my payslip for April, form my current company, and my Tax Code is BR (which I know stands for Basic Rate) and the tax on this month is a lot higher.

I am very confused.

Tax last month: £276

Tax this month £433

Can anyone shed any light on this please? Neither of the jobs will overlap.

He also has £600 in a pension plan that he would like to transfer.

Does anybody know of any providers that would allow him to contribute to a plan whilst not residing in the UK? Also, any providers that would accept a £600 transfer in.

I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months now and we are besotted with each other. I've never been with another girl before. But this feels right and I'm very happy. I told my brother about her today, he just said "what's wrong with boys?!" To which I replied that I'm happy with my girlfriend. He didn't say anything else after that, was just silent, so I left. I don't know what to do, I'm very upset about it.

I'm extremely down at the moment.. I'm normally a happy person and would like to get back to being one asap! So any help/advice would be grately appreciated. Thanks

I just want a guys point of view - if any of you have said it to a girl, what have you actually meant... did you just want to finish it and this was the nicest possible way of doing it?

I am in a job that I currently dislike, but was given the opportunity to do something that I enjoy alongside the job I dislike. I have been doing the new job for about 2 months now - I know I was doing a god job as I was being praised for it. Now, today that job gets taken away from me. I'm a very placid person - not shy, as I know how to speak me mind. The girl that told me was very patronizing "thank you for being so reasonable" !! Someone else who has been doing the same job as me in a different department has moved to mine - hence the reason for the take over. Do you think I should of stood up for myself more and demanded to stay doing that job as now I'm back doing the same old unchallenging job I was doing before.

Am I allowed to go outside the airport and look around Hong Kong, or do I have to stay in the airport?

She's just broken up with her boyfriend and is really down.

Does anyone know how much this would cost me in petrol or if there are any coach companies? Also how much would it be on the coach?

I have 6 weeks

OK, I've been at my place of work for a while now. Got together with this guy whilst we were out a few years back, but after that, nothing happened, we didn't go out together. Now, last month, (same guy) we were out together and we kissed and he asked me out. Back at work he ignores me. He sent me an e-mail this week apologising for being an idiot and ignoring me and took me out to lunch. We went out and it was really nice, but again, back at work he won't talk to me. He's a really shy bloke. I really like him and would love us to go out. I'm too frightened to make the first move as we work closely together. Hope this makes sense, please help!

It is really cold in the office, my legs have gone numb!

I keep dreaming that it's my wedding day (I'm not going out with anyone at the moment) and I haven't even bought a wedding dress, I'm running around town paniking and every bride shop is either closed or shut down! Everyone is waiting at the church while this is going on, I end up shouting at my mum (who passed away 7 years ago) blaming her for me not getting a dress. It's all very bizaar! Just like to get your thoughts please!

I really love blokes with blue or green eyes... so sexy but also brown eyes melt my heart!!

OK, this is a really hard personal question, but I have to ask. Last year, I was raped by my best friends boyfriends brother. We'd all been on a night out, got very drunk and then he attacked and raped me. I was in massive shock in the morning, got in my car cried an awful lot and then plucked up the courage to tell one of my friends what happened. I called the police, they arrested him... I've not heard anything from who i thought was my best friend. I understand that she was in a difficult possition, but if it was the other way round, I'd want to know that she was ok. What would you do? I've sent her a text telling asking her to call me, but nothing... The whole thing goes to court in a couple of months, I'm really scared but know it's the right thing to do. I miss her an awful lot.... please help

Can't help it, watched it since it started and absolutely love it.... Jacks my fave, he's gorgeous :-)

I broke up with my boyfriend last month, I've managed to delete all the lovey dovey e-mails off my pc, but I'm struggling to delete the texts off my mob... I'm still really hurting and it's taking time to get over him. There's no way we're getting back together, he cheated on me... I just can't do it, please help.

He's slightly older than me, and I know he doesn't have a girlfriend, I just need to get enough courage together to take the plunge and ask him out!! Please help!