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Long story short, my gf broke up with me 2 days ago. It came out of the blue, I never ever saw it coming. We had been dating for a few months and just 3 weeks ago,we made it official.

This girl was crazy over me, she told all her friends and family how ahoy I made her, she told me I was an amazing guy and she was super happy I was in her life.

Recently we had some arguments about communication. She is very closed and doesn't share how she feels openly or what's bothering her, I have to ask a lot. And she told me I needed to work on not reacting the way I did. So we were trying to work it out. I was really annoyed lately because she changed the ways he texted and was really blunt and I knew so etching was wrong but she just wouldn't tell me.

And then she told me that she was unhappy and didn't feel the spark anymore. I was sad and angry because a few weeks ago she said wonderful things and to me it all seemed like a lie. I told her that what she had told me was bullshit because if she really had meant it, she wouldn't just walk away after 3 weeks...

She got mad at me and she started saying how I don't understand her, how we are different and that she can't take it anymore.

I really asked her if we could try to work it out because I thought that there was no reason to break up so soon since we are still figuring everything out and getting to understand each other.

But she didn't react she was just dead quiet and didn't care...I told her she was being cold and ungrateful...you see, it my best foot forward to really make it work, and she just decided to throw it away.

I understand that maybe I reacted a little too much, but was she did was unfair...it's what couples sometimes go through after years of this, not just 2 weeks.

I cried a lot, I am a sensitive guy.. I saw her the next day and she wouldn't change her mind and she actually laughed at how I was reacting and didn't shed a tear. She just drove off.

It was like a completely,different girl, a different attitude, fm the girl I fell for. I just can't believe she would lose everything so quickly. The reason she didn't want to try again was because it was too much for her and she didn't like that I called her cold and that I thought she was lying..

Now it's NC but I miss her..any thoughts? Will she maybe come back or should I just move on? I am 19, she's 18 and just started college

She said she needed to improve and mature on her own

Long story short, my gf broke up with me 2 days ago. It came out of the blue, I never ever saw it coming. We had been dating for a few months and just 3 weeks ago,we made it official.

This girl was crazy over me, she told all her friends and family how ahoy I made her, she told me I was an amazing guy and she was super happy I was in her life.

Recently we had some arguments about communication. She is very closed and doesn't share how she feels openly or what's bothering her, I have to ask a lot. And she told me I needed to work on not reacting the way I did. So we were trying to work it out. I was really annoyed lately because she changed the ways he texted and was really blunt and I knew so etching was wrong but she just wouldn't tell me.

And then she told me that she was unhappy and didn't feel the spark anymore. I was sad and angry because a few weeks ago she said wonderful things and to me it all seemed like a lie. I told her that what she had told me was bullshit because if she really had meant it, she wouldn't just walk away after 3 weeks...

She got mad at me and she started saying how I don't understand her, how we are different and that she can't take it anymore.

I really asked her if we could try to work it out because I thought that there was no reason to break up so soon since we are still figuring everything out and getting to understand each other.

But she didn't react she was just dead quiet and didn't care...I told her she was being cold and ungrateful...you see, it my best foot forward to really make it work, and she just decided to throw it away.

I understand that maybe I reacted a little too much, but was she did was unfair...it's what couples sometimes go through after years of this, not just 2 weeks.

I cried a lot, I am a sensitive guy.. I saw her the next day and she wouldn't change her mind and she actually laughed at how I was reacting and didn't shed a tear. She just drove off.

It was like a completely,different girl, a different attitude, fm the girl I fell for. I just can't believe she would lose everything so quickly. The reason she didn't want to try again was because it was too much for her and she didn't like that I called her cold and that I thought she was lying..

Now it's NC but I miss her..any thoughts? Will she maybe come back or should I just move on? I am 19, she's 18 and just started college

She said she needed to improve and mature on her own

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Long story short, my gf broke up with me 2 days ago. It came out of the blue, I never ever saw it coming. We had been dating for a few months and just 3 weeks ago,we made it official.

This girl was crazy over me, she told all her friends and family how ahoy I made her, she told me I was an amazing guy and she was super happy I was in her life.

Recently we had some arguments about communication. She is very closed and doesn't share how she feels openly or what's bothering her, I have to ask a lot. And she told me I needed to work on not reacting the way I did. So we were trying to work it out. I was really annoyed lately because she changed the ways he texted and was really blunt and I knew so etching was wrong but she just wouldn't tell me.

And then she told me that she was unhappy and didn't feel the spark anymore. I was sad and angry because a few weeks ago she said wonderful things and to me it all seemed like a lie. I told her that what she had told me was bullshit because if she really had meant it, she wouldn't just walk away after 3 weeks...

She got mad at me and she started saying how I don't understand her, how we are different and that she can't take it anymore.

I really asked her if we could try to work it out because I thought that there was no reason to break up so soon since we are still figuring everything out and getting to understand each other.

But she didn't react she was just dead quiet and didn't care...I told her she was being cold and ungrateful...you see, it my best foot forward to really make it work, and she just decided to throw it away.

I understand that maybe I reacted a little too much, but was she did was unfair...it's what couples sometimes go through after years of this, not just 2 weeks.

I cried a lot, I am a sensitive guy.. I saw her the next day and she wouldn't change her mind and she actually laughed at how I was reacting and didn't shed a tear. She just drove off.

It was like a completely,different girl, a different attitude, fm the girl I fell for. I just can't believe she would lose everything so quickly. The reason she didn't want to try again was because it was too much for her and she didn't like that I called her cold and that I thought she was lying..

Now it's NC but I miss her..any thoughts? Will she maybe come back or should I just move on? I am 19, she's 18 and just started college

She said she needed to improve and mature on her own

Long story short, my gf broke up with me 2 days ago. It came out of the blue, I never ever saw it coming. We had been dating for a few months and just 3 weeks ago,we made it official.

This girl was crazy over me, she told all her friends and family how ahoy I made her, she told me I was an amazing guy and she was super happy I was in her life.

Recently we had some arguments about communication. She is very closed and doesn't share how she feels openly or what's bothering her, I have to ask a lot. And she told me I needed to work on not reacting the way I did. So we were trying to work it out. I was really annoyed lately because she changed the ways he texted and was really blunt and I knew so etching was wrong but she just wouldn't tell me.

And then she told me that she was unhappy and didn't feel the spark anymore. I was sad and angry because a few weeks ago she said wonderful things and to me it all seemed like a lie. I told her that what she had told me was bullshit because if she really had meant it, she wouldn't just walk away after 3 weeks...

She got mad at me and she started saying how I don't understand her, how we are different and that she can't take it anymore.

I really asked her if we could try to work it out because I thought that there was no reason to break up so soon since we are still figuring everything out and getting to understand each other.

But she didn't react she was just dead quiet and didn't care...I told her she was being cold and ungrateful...you see, it my best foot forward to really make it work, and she just decided to throw it away.

I understand that maybe I reacted a little too much, but was she did was unfair...it's what couples sometimes go through after years of this, not just 2 weeks.

I cried a lot, I am a sensitive guy.. I saw her the next day and she wouldn't change her mind and she actually laughed at how I was reacting and didn't shed a tear. She just drove off.

It was like a completely,different girl, a different attitude, fm the girl I fell for. I just can't believe she would lose everything so quickly. The reason she didn't want to try again was because it was too much for her and she didn't like that I called her cold and that I thought she was lying..

Now it's NC but I miss her..any thoughts? Will she maybe come back or should I just move on? I am 19, she's 18 and just started college

I've been dating this girl for a month and we both are serious about it and like each other a lot. It's almost like a bf/gf relationship. She has a twitter and I follow her and just yesterday she was tweeting with a guy friend of hers and in one text she answered him in a friendly way and said "I do miss you! Bunches"

And then later on this other guy and her were just talking, and out of nowhere she said "oh I miss you so much!!! Come back home!" I guess it's a guy that's away in college or something

The other guy was teasing her about how she missed her bestfriend, meaning himself...

Should I be worried or is it just a friend??! I asked her and she said it was just friends and she misses them because they were good friends..and I don't want to be insecure but it just bothered me that she said she missed them "so much"

She did however tell me she would be bothered if I said that to a girl but that she would understand that it was just a friend...

I just told her we shouldn't do what we wouldn't want the other person to do..

I've been dating this girl for a month and we both are serious about it and like each other a lot. It's almost like a bf/gf relationship. She has a twitter and I follow her and just yesterday she was tweeting with a guy friend of hers and in one text she answered him in a friendly way and said "I do miss you! Bunches"

And then later on this other guy and her were just talking, and out of nowhere she said "oh I miss you so much!!! Come back home!" I guess it's a guy that's away in college or something

The other guy was teasing her about how she missed her bestfriend, meaning himself...

Should I be worried or is it just a friend??! I asked her and she said it was just friends and she misses them because they were good friends and she has a good relationship with them and I don't want to be insecure but it just bothered me that she said she missed them "so much"

She did however tell me she would be bothered if I said that to a girl but that she would understand that it was just a friend...

I just told her we shouldn't do what we wouldn't want the other person to do..

I've been dating this girl for a month and we both are serious about it and like each other a lot. It's almost like a bf/gf relationship. She has a twitter and I follow her and just yesterday she was tweeting with a guy friend of hers and in one text she answered him in a friendly way and said "I do miss you! Bunches"

And then later on this other guy and her were just talking, and out of nowhere she said "oh I miss you so much!!! Come back home!" I guess it's a guy that's away in college or something

The other guy was teasing her about how she missed her bestfriend, meaning himself...

Should I be worried or is it just a friend??! I asked her and she said it was just friends and she misses them because they were good friends..and I don't want to be insecure but it just bothered me that she said she missed them "so much"

She did however tell me she would be bothered if I said that to a girl but that she would understand that it was just a friend...

I just told her we shouldn't do what we wouldn't want the other person to do..

I've been dating this girl for a month and we both are serious about it and like each other a lot. It's almost like a bf/gf relationship. She has a twitter and I follow her and just yesterday she was tweeting with a guy friend of hers and in one text she answered him in a friendly way and said "I do miss you! Bunches"

And then later on this other guy and her were just talking, and out of nowhere she said "oh I miss you so much!!! Come back home!" I guess it's a guy that's away in college or something

The other guy was teasing her about how she missed her bestfriend, meaning himself...

Should I be worried or is it just a friend??! I asked her and she said it was just friends and she misses them because they were good friends..and I don't want to be insecure but it just bothered me that she said she missed them "so much"

I've been dating this girl for a month and we both are serious about it and like each other a lot. She has a twitter and I follow her and just yesterday she was tweeting with a guy friend of hers and in one text she answered him in a friendly way and said "I do miss you! Bunches"

The other guy was teasing her about how she missed her bestfriend, meaning himself...

Should I be worried or is it just a friend??!

I've been dating this girl for a month and we both are serious about it and like each other a lot. She has a twitter and I follow her and just yesterday she was tweeting with a guy friend of hers and in one text she answered him in a friendly way and said "I do miss you! Bunches"

The other guy was teasing her about how she missed her bestfriend, meaning himself...

Should I be worried or is it just a friend??!

I've been dating this girl for a month and we both are serious about it and like each other a lot. She has a twitter and I follow her and just yesterday she was tweeting with a guy friend of hers and in one text she answered him in a friendly way and said "I do miss you! Bunches"

The other guy was teasing her about how she missed her bestfriend, meaning himself...

Should I be worried or is it just a friend??!

It's been 3 weeks and we like each other a lot.

We were talking about he past and I asked about his ex..he told me she was a lovely girl and he really liked her but she didnt treat him with respect and insulted him and made him cry...he got just a little teary, but I didn't mind, I believed him and he is well over her, he just wants to be treated nicely.

Today we were talking about birthdays because it was his sisters bday and he told me her bf made her cry and he told me he got really mad because his ex had also made him cry on his bday and he didnt think it was fair or anyone o ever feel that way.

He doesn't talk a lot about it, only when I asked him and that birthday thing.

Is it normal for guys to share these things?

This guy is a gentleman, he really is. Iam just wondering

so i recently added my gf on Facebook and i knew the name of her ex, she told me about him, and like a total stalker i looked him up haha..but like within minutes of adding me, she deleted him...

and i am just wondering...is there something she might be hiding? she told me about her past with him and i believe she was fully honest...but when she did this it just got me curious as to why she would delete him as soon as i added her..

so i recently added my gf on Facebook and i knew the name of her ex, she told me about him, and like a total stalker i looked him up haha..but like within minutes of adding me, she deleted him...

and i am just wondering...is there something she might be hiding? she told me about her past with him and i believe she was fully honest...but when she did this it just got me curious as to why she would delete him as soon as i added her..

so i recently added my gf on Facebook and i knew the name of her ex, she told me about him, and like a total stalker i looked him up haha..but like within minutes of adding me, she deleted him...

and i am just wondering...is there something she might be hiding? she told me about her past with him and i believe she was fully honest...but when she did this it just got me curious as to why she would delete him as soon as i added her..

I was having a nice talk with this girl I've been dating for about 3 weeks. I broke up with my ex about 4 months ago and it was a toxic relationship so I moved on cleanly because I knew I deserved better.

Anyways in a text I, by mistake called her by my ex's name...I didn't even realize it until I looked at the text after I sent it. It was an honest mistake, like completely unconscious, I was it so used to texting her and saying her name it turned into a habit. We were together for a year and a half.

She didnt get upset and I apologized a lot because i just felt dumb, but she assured me that it was just a slip and that it could happen to anyone, even her...

I still feel like it might have bothered her a bit, even though she acted very maturely about it.

What should I do? I asked her and she said she was not upset or mad or bothered at all..

I was having a nice talk with this girl I've been dating for about 3 weeks. I broke up with my ex about 4 months ago and it was a toxic relationship so I moved on cleanly because I knew I deserved better.

Anyways in a text I, by mistake called her by my ex's name...I didn't even realize it until I looked at the text after I sent it. It was an honest mistake, like completely unconscious, I was it so used to texting her and saying her name it turned into a habit. We were together for a year and a half.

She didnt get upset and I apologized a lot because i just felt dumb, but she assured me that it was just a slip and that it could happen to anyone, even her...

I still feel like it might have bothered her a bit, even though she acted very maturely about it.

What should I do? I asked her and she said she was not upset or mad or bothered at all..

I started going out with this girl 2 weeks ago. I am 19 and she's 18

So anyways, we hit it off great, we laugh and talk and its just super awesome.

And just a few days ago for some reason we ended up talking about our past and I asked her if she had ever done anything..she told me she was still a virgin but that she gave her ex a bj 3 years ago..

This surprised me and upset me I. Some way....mainly because I just never expected that from a girl like her. An she cried a lot and told me she was truly sorry...she told me that when she didmthatnshe was at a low point in her life and hadnselfmesteem issues. Also that she didnt even do it for long that itnonlynlasted 5 seconds.

So all this got me wondering....could she be lying. I think she is telling the truth but I also feel like maybe she is hiding something. And does a first time bj really last 5 seconds???

She told me she deeply regretted what she did and still does to this. She told me she really likes me and doesn't want to,lose me..is she lying, could there be more? Or should I just take her word for it? I asked her and she said that's as far as she ever went...btw I am not more experienced than her so iam not being a hypocrite

I just really want to know if its all true..she said it didn't laste more than a few seconds and that she instantly regretted it because her ex treated her like crap and pretty much pressured her into it

I started going out with this girl 2 weeks ago. I am 19 and she's 18

So anyways, we hit it off great, we laugh and talk and its just super awesome.

And just a few days ago for some reason we ended up talking about our past and I asked her if she had ever done anything..she told me she was still a virgin but that she gave her ex a bj 3 years ago..

This surprised me and upset me I. Some way....mainly because I just never expected that from a girl like her. An she cried a lot and told me she was truly sorry...she told me that when she didmthatnshe was at a low point in her life and hadnselfmesteem issues. Also that she didnt even do it for long that itnonlynlasted 5 seconds.

So all this got me wondering....could she be lying. I think she is telling the truth but I also feel like maybe she is hiding something. And does a first time bj really last 5 seconds???

She told me she deeply regretted what she did and still does to this. She told me she really likes me and doesn't want to,lose me..is she lying, could there be more? Or should I just take her word for it? I asked her and she said that's as far as she ever went...btw I am not more experienced than her so iam not being a hypocrite

I just really want to know if its all true..she said it didn't laste more than a few seconds and that she instantly regretted it because her ex treated her like crap and pretty much pressured her into it