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So I met this girl on an online dating site. Everything was great from the beginning. We text back and forth a lot and went on 4 fantastic dates. I don't normally fall for girls so quickly but we had so much in common that i was starting to have deep feelings for her and she for me. she told me how much of an amazing guy i was and how she wanted to be with me and wanted to be my GF and was so happy and didn't want anyone else but me. you know all that good stuff. She wasn't talking to anyone else on the dating site. we honestly were perfect for each other. Then 2 days later i stop hearing from her and i start to get a little concerned. She said oh I'm sorry i just don't think this is going to work out I'm starting college and I'm only 18 and don't want to be tied down into a committed relationship. Now i can see if you were going away to school but she was just taking a few courses at a community college and she didn't live far so like WTF? I was willing to do anything to make it work out and she clearly stated she liked me so much. basically she was head over heels for me with everything she said with how happy she was and so glad she met me. then 2 days later pulls a 360 on me. why go onto an online dating site and then not want anything? Im thinking since she's 18 she's still young and immature and I'm 23. I asked her if we can just be friends and she said we could which is not something i really wanted but she also said she was going to talk to other people which made me think ok so there obviously had to be more to it then just school if your interested in talking with other people. I'm so crushed and confused. why do girls do this and have this happened to you before?

There is this girl I've been talking to/seeing for a little over a month now. We used to text all the time and she used to respond to every one of my texts. We still talk but not as often as we used to. I started to have doubts and we got into a little of an argument because I thought things have changed and she said to me well I liked where things were going but you obviously have your doubts and she said she can't always reply to texts and she's been busy. I mean we had 3 awesome dates and then she started to talk to me less but still states she likes me and wants to talk to me, but yet again wen she doesn't reply to my texts she's always on Facebook on her cell phone and she never used to be like this until now but I take it as if she wasn't interested in me she wouldn't try to work things out so I'm not sure what to think. Also she does have a 2 month year old baby and she does work couple days a week. am i over reacting? Am i not picking up on something? She does text me first to but our convos aren't what they used to be.

So there is this girl that i have been seeing for about a month now. We met on an online dating site and we have been hitting it off. We connect really well and things couldn't be better. She does have a 3 month year old baby which takes up a lot of her time and she just recently started working again. We had a really good date on valentines day and we kissed and right there and then we set up wen we were going to hangout again. We text all the time but just recently, I haven't really been hearing from her much. She tells me she's really busy and has something going on every day this week and said she would text me last night, but still haven't heard from her. She also hasnt been on FB much or updating it at all. I guess you can say maybe I'm over reacting a little bit, but sometimes wen girls stop talking all of a sudden it can be a sign of not being interested anymore. We were suppose to hangout today but she called me yesterday and said something got switched with work and she said we can hang on friday night. I know I'm probably over reacting and I'm giving her the space she needs and I'm sure she will text me eventually, but part of me is saying maybe not interested anymore? before sunday, we text all the time even late at night, now not much of anything

Well as you all know meeting girls on online dating sites can be pretty rough because of the fact that you can talk to more then one girl/guy at once. Well i met this one girl on an online dating site and I'm really starting to like her. she's a sweet girl and she told me how she appreciates how nice i am and stuff, but she's also talking to another guy and she's planning on hanging out with both of us. I mean i no she's not my GF and i can't have a say in who she hangs out with but if it really worth it to try to compete for this girl or should i just move on and forget it? I'm just not the type to talk to a girl if she might be seeing someone else casually.

I really am looking for anyone who is willing to help me or has the same problem I have. Ill try to use as much detail as possible. In the past a lot of my relationships have not lasted very long. This is due to me having very high anxiety and over thinking way too much. The minute i start to like a girl I start getting really bad anxiety and can't help but to over think everything. I met this girl who is probably everything i can ask for. She a lot like me in so many ways. The minute i start thinking about a relationship with her, i start to panic and immediately don't want to talk to her anymore. why do i always get this way? is it commitment issues? Am i just not ready or am i just not as crazy about her or not attracted to after all? i no these might be stupid questions but i just don't no why I'm feeling this way.

I posted something similar to this a week ago but now its more involved and i need some advice. this might be a little long but i need someone to read all of this because I'm not sure what to do. So there is this girl i have been talking to. We met on an online dating site. Things have been going great and we only hung out about 4 times. We been talking for almost 2 months now and things have really taken off she has told me that I'm one of the nicest guys that she has ever met and she wants me to meet her friends but no more mention of that. Ive expressed my feelings plenty of times to her but she isn't someone to expresses her feelings and has trouble doing that but she did say that she wants to see where things go with us. The problem is i never get to see her because she's always so busy and she will never initiate hangout at all. its frustrating and she has told me she's not a big texter nor is she by her phone a lot and lately we haven't been texting as much because she just has a hectic schedule. Im never sure where i stand with her or if she's someone i should wait around for or find someone who's more available? i want to just express exactly how i feel but I'm not sure if she feels the same because i have no idea what she feels for me. help!

so there is this girl ive been talking to for a month and a half now. Its a little different because we met on an online dating site. We click very well and things are going great. Shes a very busy person so its really hard for us to get together but wen we do, we both have a great time. She saids she likes me and that im one of the nicest guys she ever met. She also isnt a big texter but we do text all the time wen she has time to respond. She wants me to meet her friends as well. The thing is there are other things that make me have mixed emotions. She will hardly ask me to hangout, and sometimes wen i guess I want an answer to my question as in trying to figure out if she likes me more then a friend, the answers are very vague and not direct and sometimes she will only give me an answer to half the question. She obviously has an interest in me if she enjoys being around me and im like the only person she texts constantly. I know she isnt playing head games because she told me she doesnt have time for that crap but i just really dont know with her at times. help!

I already posted something similiar to this before but now things are a little different. Let me explain.

I met this girl on an online dating site. We have been talking for about a month to month and half now. I happen to really like her. We havent met yet but we have talked on the phone and we had a pretty good conversation. The problem is shes a very hard person to read. The way she texts me im not sure if shes really into me. Shes a very straight forward to the point person. She has a sense of humor and we can have some exciting text conversations but most of the time its like talking to a robot and can be uninteresting at times. If i dont text her she will usually text me within 2 or 3 days so I no shes obviously interested in me but she will never initiate to call me or plan to hangout. Im just not really sure how to read her sometimes. At times i think she likes me and were having a great time and then other times its like talking to a robot no expression very blah and it can be boring and she sounds uninterested.I dont expect every conversation to be so great and exciting but wen ur responding like ur talking to a robot its weird. im just confused. HELP

Ok here is the scenario. I met this girl and I really like her. Havent met her in person yet because we met on an online dating site. So we text quite a bit but its mostly me having to initiate the conversation. on occasion she wont respond and I no she ignores me. When I dont text her first for a day or two she will text me first and say "hey whats up" or something along those lines. Should I just give her the least amount of attention possible? text back once then dont respond or ignore her for a week or two? not sure. help!

Now I was talking to this girl for about a month now. We talked all the time and we really like each other. She used to text me everyday and I would sometimes initiate the conversation or she would text me first. last friday was prom for her and she went down to wildwood afterwards. A few hours before prom we talked and things were great I told her to have a good time and boom she stops talking to me and stops texting me and its been a little over a week now and we hardly talk. I dont understand why?

Alright so ive been talking to this girl for about a month now. we texted back and forth and things were great. She got busy all of a sudden because the end of school was near. I totally understand if we texted less because she was busy but then she stopped texting me altogether. Im not sure why and its starting to bother me a lot. Some clues lead me to believe that shes not being 100% honest with me but again I cant say that to be 100% true. what do I do?

Ok i know I posted a similiar post before but I need some further advice because im not sure on what to do. So heres the case. I talked to this girl for 2 months. She really likes me told me im unlike any other guy she ever met before. We dated a few times, made out twice, and things were going great. Shes a really sweet and honest person and I know she wasnt talking to anyone else (since we met on an online dating site) She said at one point she can see us going out and being BF and GF. she saids she loves talking to me and our convos dont ever get boring. Now this is what I dont understand. Last night she got all weird and wasnt talking to me much. I kept asking is everything ok? she kept saying yes im fine and then out of no where said look i really like you and love talking to you but I only want to be friends. she said she didnt want to drag it along and lead me on. I do respect her for that. She also said she doesnt want to lose me or out of her life. I think she just likes ttalking to me so much that she wants me there as a friend by her side. IF i stop talking to her Is there a chance She will come running back to me and change her mind? I am going to talk to other girls. Im not going to dwell over this. As hard as it is to deal with im going to suck it up. Its just hard to be friends with someone you have strong feelings for. So should I just disappear from her life?

Ive been talking to this girl for about 2 months now. Been out a few times and she really likes me. Shes told me many times im unlike any guy she ever met and that im different and she wants to date me. I get a text message about an hour ago and she saids I thought about it and she only wants to be friends. Like WTF?? will she come running back to me if i leave her alone for a while?

There is this girl ive been talking to for about 2 months now. We really like each other a lot. We met a few times and everything is going great. We text all the time and she saids im different from most guys and that she potenitally wants me as a bf. My question is why do I still have doubt after hearing all of this? Like I feel sometimes her feelings have changed if she isnt exactly in the mood one day or she talks to me differently.Do girls mean what they say?

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I want to break up with my girlfriend but Im having some issues doing so. Shes coming over to my house for xmas and we already bought each other gifts. shes staying over my house and coming to the xmas show wit me tomorrow at radio city. I cant call it off before xmas but would feel bad if i did it after xmas/before new years. What to do?

Ive been dating this girl for about 2 months now. In the beginning things were great. Just recently Ive been getting huge anxiety attacks. When anxiety kicks in all I can think about is breaking up with her and thinking shes not the one for me. When everything is fine I have those feelings again and it makes me feel everything is ok. Im thinking it also could be my body telling me that im just not ready to be in a relationship. Im 20 years old dating an 18 year old girl. I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. When im with her it just gets bad sometimes. im not sure what to do.