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I married my sons' father after our first son was born, our relationship was always unstable, we didn't get along very much but we both tried to make it work for our son. He made it very clear that he DID NOT want anymore children. One day we had a big fight and he left for a few weeks, I kept calling him and putting our son on the phone til he came back home. I told him I was on birth control (and really wasn't) and got pregnant with our 2nd son right after he came back thinking that would tie him more to me, he got so upset about it that he wouldn't even speak to me while living under the same roof. When I was 3 months pregnant he left, he's never met our 2nd child who's almost 1 now. I have no idea where he is I've tried searching for him and gotten no where, he's an illegal alien with no social security number, or family here. I know he left the state but that's about it. We're still married, and I want to divorce him and place him on child support for both our sons. How do I even get started?

I drink lots of water all day have a lean chicken breast with a garden salad for lunch and small meal for dinner don't eat after 7pm. I also walk for and hour or my elliptical for 30 mins. a day, and I'm going to be taking adderall soon for add. How much weight do you think I could manage to lose in 4 months. I have a special event to attend in 4 months.

I will continue to do the same even after my event I just would like to have an idea of how much weight can be lost in 4 months w/my routine. Also does Adderall help the weight loss.?

Any advice on ways to shed the pounds quicker would be great!

What I want to do is change the spelling of my name. The first letter of my first name and change my last name from my dad's to my mom's. How do I go about doing that and how much does it cost? I'm 23

I'm 23. I've been losing my hair like crazy, lately I'm always gaining weight and Inability to lose the weight. Also water retention, facial hair growth, bloating and lots of headaches. I've always had a very clear skin now I'm getting a little bit of acne on my face and in my hair. I know it sounds like a lot but in the last couple of years my image has drastically changed and I don't understand why. I haven't been able to afford to go to a doctor but I've been told that what Im going thru might be hormone Imbalance. Anyone else have gone thru anything similar.? how did you get treated.? any advice I will appreciate it

For the past 2 years I've been slowly loosing my hair and I don't know why. My hair grows when I cut it but it also falls out a lot but I can't seem to get new hair to grow back in! I can't afford to go to a doctor, and Im desperate now any good home remedies or over the counter things that can get me to grow new hair.?

Lost ALL of identification...?

My husband is a legal resident since 1993, a few weeks ago he lost all his identification, driver's license, ss card and his green card.! What can we do where can we start he needs one thing to get the other we're very desperate??

My husband is a legal resident since 1993, a few weeks ago he lost all his identification, driver's license, ss card and his green card.! What can we do where can we start he needs one thing to get the other we're very desperate??

My brother's wife left him last week, they've been married for less than a year but together for almost 6. She left to be with another man but moved in w/her mother, she has a 20 month old w/my brother he wants to pay child support for his daughter ASAP but his wife wants cash instead. She doesn't work and doesn't have an income, how much will my brother have to pay.??? He makes $14hr but for the past few months has been working 30 hrs weekly.

My brother's wife left him last week, they've been married for less than a year but together for almost 6. She left to be with another man but moved in w/her mother, she has a 20 month old w/my brother he wants to pay child support for his daughter ASAP but his wife wants cash instead. She doesn't work and doesn't have an income, how much will my brother have to pay.??? He makes $14hr but for the past few months has been working 30 hrs weekly.

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My son won't sleep at night anymore and I don't know why I didn't have this problem 'til a couple of weeks ago. We play with him so we can tired him out, we give him his warm milk before bed time, he has his nite lite. But still he won't fall asleep 'til 5 am.! What can I do his father and I are very tired and we both work full time jobs and get up early in the morning.

My son has always had beautiful hair, I just loved it so much and so did he until one day that I was at work my husband took him to get his haircut becauseit was too long, obviously he didn't know what he was asking for and the lady at the salon ruined my son's hair now he cries because he doesn't like his hair short and the curls are gone, to be honest I feel like crying sometines too! can I do something about it!!!!!!

My son's hair before the hair cut

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after:

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My sis-in-law is due anytime now and have decided to go w/the name Rashel but have no middle name yet.....

last name will be Alvarez

please help

Last weekend my husband lost ALL his identification, driver's license, s.s. card, his green card and an expired passport he had! What can we do or where should we start to get his identification forms back!

Took a pregnancy test on May 2, 09 came out negative took another one may 17th came out positive. Had accident on 04-07-09 and had x-rays done about 2 wks later. Doctor said I wasn't pregnant at the time of the x-rays, can someone give me an idea of when I got pregnant? Been on the pill for over 2 an a half years this pregnancy is a complete surprise! help.....

about 5 wks ago I had a car accident and 2 wks later I had 2 x-rays done on my abdomen and 2 on my sides. Now I just found out I'm pregnant. What could the x-rays have done to my baby? What can I do?

My brother-in-law owes about 10 monts childsupport about $2200 its not that he doesn't want to pay, its because he lost his job and he's been unemployed the whole time, I mean the guy lost his apt. and moved in with us!!! Well he borrowed $500 from a friend so he can send it to the child support services but he doesn't know how! What can he do to send that money. He's afraid to go to jail and wants to do his best to pay it back at least little by little. Any suggestion helps! He lives in Texas child is in New Jersey

My brother-in-law owes about 10 monts childsupport about $2200 its not that he doesn't want to pay, its because he lost his job and he's been unemployed the whole time, I mean the guy lost his apt. and moved in with us!!! Well he borrowed $500 from a friend so he can send it to the child support services but he doesn't know how! What can he do to send that money. He's afraid to go to jail and wants to do his best to pay it back at least litlle by little. Any suggestion helps!

Thank you guys for your previous answers I just need more suggestions.

Lately we were having a lot of arguments which I started probably 80% of them, because his ex was always up in our business. He kept telling me I was the one he loved and wanted to be with, and to change my attitude towards him because he wasn't doing anything wrong. Well I guess he got fed up with it and left like a week ago, and now I realize the mistake I made and want him back so badly I love him with all my heart we've been together for 5 yrs. and have a 2yr. old boy. What can I do to prove to him this time I've really changed and want him to come back home. I don't want to lose him. I know he's angry and he's been checking on our son at the babysitter's its me who he's mad for arguing and humiliating him in front of friends and relatives last week. I just want him to know I'm truly sorry and it won't happen again but I don't know where he's staying I know he's w/ a relative but I don't know who.

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He's not communicating w/his ex she's the one calling my friends and making things up and my stupid self always fell for her games

Lately we were having a lot of arguments which I started probably 80% of them, because his ex was always up in our business. He kept telling me I was the one he loved and wanted to be with, and to change my attitude towards him because he wasn't doing anything wrong. Well I guess he got fed up with it and left like a week ago, and now I realize the mistake I made and want him back so badly I love him with all my heart we've been together for 5 yrs. and have a 2yr. old boy. What can I do to prove to him this time I've really changed and want him to come back home. I don't want to lose him. I know he's angry and hurt right now he hasn't even called me. Help any suggestions