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I am noticing more and more that about 5 and after every night I am getting a hot flushed face on one side ( usually my right cheek). I blush a lot anyway during the day but I want to know if anybody gets this and what it might be?

Thanks :)

I am so fed up with people walking all over me, but I can only blame my self. So people have sussed out my personality and know they can get away with stuff. But growing up I am realsing what they say, do , borrow money all that I just need to either say no or tell someone what they did was wrong. I trued yesterday to tell somene they were being horrible by commenting about me rudely and so and they just laughed saying I was over reacting. I cant get taken serouily and how can I ?

So she does these things a lot but Ill use today of an example of things she did. First she called me a pig and explained why because I was eating something. It was completely unessecary and mean. Me and this boy were mucking about and she said after in front of everyone he has a girlfriend and your still all over each other... So aparantly I cant muck about and be friends with a guy and lastly I have a really bad blushing problem and she just said today randomly look how red she is this kills me when she says that because I have a skin condition and she know full well I am insecure. Its always little comments and a lack of politeness. It really gets to me because I put so much effort to making other people happy and comfortable and confident. And It seems like everybody not just her that they take the mic. Im so fricking fed up of it. Do you think she was jelous today that I got on with this person well? Thanks for help and sorry about longness! :)

So there is this new guy that joined my tutor group recently. We started chattimg and things got of well, we got on really well laughing and making silly jokes with each other. Me amd him now share music taste with each other. He waves at me when he sees ma and when there is a spare chair next to me he will sit rather thab any other. Today at a life guarding practise at the pool we were mucking about, he kept on lifting things and telling me to look how strong he was jokingly.And we were pretty much next to each other most of the afternoon. He says I am funny. My doubts are is earlier he said ' you're so weird' and 'you're a bit odd arnt you' and he's so into his looks, me not so much at all. So tell me what you think? Thanks :)

So tonight I went to netball training with her, it was my first time. Whenever I had a questions she was blunt, rude and made me feel like and idiot for asking. Actually she is like this on a daily occurence. Expecting things from me, making me feel stupid. She has to be always right, even when she is obvousily not. She walks all over me. But saying that I find her funny, we have a lot in common and she os my best friend. But anyway after training I got increasingly more mad. And when I got home I told her i was fed up. I told her I expect respect from my best friend, i said friends don't make other friends feel like crap, they don't constantly borrow money and never lay back, they are not always bwing sarcastic and expect things handed on a plate. I was raving and she didnt taje it well.now we are not talkingand her being her will carry this on. So should I of just kept my mouth shut and how do I fix this?

So I am 17 nearly 18. I am at college (uk). All my friends have bf /gf and its kinda getting to me! I am on a course with 13 guys and one other girl. I am always meeting new people and I always get on with them! Most people call me a bit weird but in a good funny way. I am very good with people. But I'm still single :( I get on with all the guys at college I joke about with one or two with some jokes between us and they all take the mick out of me ? By doing things like teasing me about my sillyness or stupidness sometimes. Today I was just lost in my head and I looked over and this guy was staring at me laughing saying what are you like. Guys always take the mick for being a bit short and always get me to do stupid stuff. But nothing ever seems to progress ? So are they teasing because they may like or what? Thanks you! x

I'm happy most of the time but anything can set me off into rage of punching walls and crying. I'm 17 and female btw. I'm okay when I am out and about but when I am alone at home feel so sad. I normally experiment with drinking and smoking and end up feeling so bad. When with family it can be okay but again an argument get get going quickly partially with me and my mum. I have in the past taken it physical and I am so ashamed by that but I really can't control my self. Its never really that bad a shove back or something but enough. Recently I've turned to punching walls to help calm me. I hate the way I look. God I hate everything about me so much. I am disgusting. I don't know what I'm feeling its not depression because I can be happy and up beat most of the time. Idk anyway any opinions? Thanks and sorry for being a bore!

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So I'm 17 and luckily so far have been blessed with clear skin apart from redness and occasional bad ezcema. Anyway my mum , dad and all three brothers suffered from acne badly and my mum and dad even now still get spots sometimes!! Anyway I feel like I'm doomed for it. I know its a problem many people suffer or deal with but I literally think I won't be able to handle getting acne. I'm really self concouis and the only thing I like about me is my clearish skin. If I were to get acne I think that will be game over and sorry to sound like I'm overreacting but I do think I will get very sad and my anxiety will stop me from leaving house as it already can right now. Anyway How do you girls deal with it ? And does everybody get it?

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Its been like this for a couple of days now. My emotions have been all over the place basically when I'm with friends I'm okay and happy , when I'm on my own I'll just feel like ****. I'm really angry I started screaming and crying and punxhing a wall yesterday just because I ordered something to the wrong address. I'm crying over the way I look, crying when somebody says something maybe a bit too harsh to me or I don't like it. I'm either feeling okay or like the world is going to end. One minute I'm hungry the next my appitite is gone and my axiety has gone through the roof. I'm also feeling like **** about the ugly eczema on my fave and refusing to go to college next few days. Im sorry if it doesn't make sence but maybe you can help? Thanks

I have a loving family I suppose they can be annoying , anough money, a friend that I'm quite close to, education but I don't have the looks or itellagence. But anyway despite all that I'm not that happy. Or if I am happy I try and make myself sad because why should I be happy?

Some say it is and some say its just an excuse for being lazy and 'everybody's like that' I personally think it is real what about you?

Hello I'm 17 female. And I always seem to be bored. I'm fed up of it, I will finish doing something then not know what to do next. I try things and get quickly bored. I can't seem to concentrate on anything. Also I am always, Always fidgeting, even in my sleep. I'm not good at anything. I am annoyed because my 3 sibling and both my parents are so clever and smart and I'm the dim stupid one of the family. I forgot everything I learn. I literally think going to school is pointless because I don't concentrate. I also am always in a daze like mouth open looking completely blank people take the mic out of it. And last but not least Im always tired and unmotivated to do stuff. Oh also I can't stop snacking and eating its the only thing I don't find boring and reading I like to read.

So am I just being an *** and complaint for life?

Thanks

Hello I'm 17 female. And I always seem to be bored. I'm fed up of it, I will finish doing something then not know what to do next. I try things and get quickly bored. I can't seem to concentrate on anything. Also I am always, Always fidgeting, even in my sleep. I'm not good at anything. I am annoyed because my 3 sibling and both my parents are so clever and smart and I'm the dim stupid one of the family. I forgot everything I learn. I literally think going to school is pointless because I don't concentrate. I also am always in a daze like mouth open looking completely blank people take the mic out of it. And last but not least Im always tired and unmotivated to do stuff. Oh also I can't stop snacking and eating its the only thing I don't find boring and reading I like to read.

So am I just being an *** and complaint for life?

Thanks

Hello I'm 17 female. And I always seem to be bored. I'm fed up of it, I will finish doing something then not know what to do next. I try things and get quickly bored. I can't seem to concentrate on anything. Also I am always, Always fidgeting, even in my sleep. I'm not good at anything. I am annoyed because my 3 sibling and both my parents are so clever and smart and I'm the dim stupid one of the family. I forgot everything I learn. I literally think going to school is pointless because I don't concentrate. I also am always in a daze like mouth open looking completely blank people take the mic out of it. And last but not least Im always tired and unmotivated to do stuff. Oh also I can't stop snacking and eating its the only thing I don't find boring and reading I like to read.

So am I just being an *** and complaint for life?

Thanks

Do guys find girls that can crack a joke and be a bit dirty attractive? Or do they feel that it is their job to be the funny one?

Cheers ;)

Hello,

So when I go out and about I look at other girls and see how pretty they are compared to me. I think what have I got compared to them? My question is is there any hope for the less sexy hot girls out there? Girls like me who may be short and stumpy, pale skin and slightly chubby and I don't wear any make up because I can't be assed tbh! I like to say that I have a good personality and according to a lot of people a very good sense of humour but that's a guy thing to be funny. So any guys go for these type of girls?

Thanks!

He's 20 I'm 17 and we are quite close. I knew he was smoking since he was about 16 I'd say but recently well past 2 years I realised that he is smoking pot all the time. Everyday mutible times a day. And on his own this isn't normal is it? He has talked about his anxiety before and does smoke openly in front of me. The other day he had an argument with my mum and whislt he was driving me to my friends house he pulled over and said I need to calm down and this is the inky way how he actually said that and then had a quick smoke. That isn't healthy and especially not safe whilst driving. I don't k ow what to do about it because my mum has tried to speak about it before but its ended up in him denying it all. Is it non of my business and shall I let it go?

Thanks :)

I smoke rarely but enough to know how my body deals with it. I usually get a bit dizzy and feel pretty good. But this time I finished and I felt sick and so so low. I went and was sort of sick and now that feeling has passed but I feel weak and kind of depressed. It's been a hard few days recently so my mood hasn't been at all great but now I am so anxious and cant sit still. I feel really bad why is this?

Thanks

I went to the doctors the other day to talk about feeling of Anxiety which I have had for a while. During me telling him what was going on he didn't look at me just at the computer screen. He was really blunt. I told him that I looked online about Anxiety and said I feel all of what it describes and he said ' I don't care what the internet says what are you feeling' to which I replied ' I just told you all the common things' And i did actually tell him. So anyway at the end he didnt other me any help he just said ' Go talk to your college about it'. I don't know why he annoyed me so much. I came out the doctors feeling twice as bad as when i went in. What y college supposed to do about it? Who do I talk to? I just feel like I am not being taken seriously because I'm 17.

Am I overreacting ? And btw Im from Uk so its free to see the doctor if i did pay I would be super annoyed.

Thanks