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I don't know what to do anymore.

in 2months it will be a year since he broke up with a girl and he still isn't over it.

Im very good friends with her and I have asked her if she can just talk to him but because he has anger problems she is scared of him. (He would never hit a girl but his moods are unstable)

Me and his best friend have been trying to help him out of this but its to no use. He refuse to let this go.

I love him and care deeply for him but im at my end with this. I have been in and or seen worse things happen between two people. And us telling him its not so bad get over ETC isn't helping.

It's hard because he has used drugs and alcohol for a while but that blew up after awhile it even put him in the hospital. And whats worse he doesn't care. He doesn't care that we are suffering just as much as he is.

I just can't anymore. Me and him ain't related by blood but we see each other like family and I've known him a long time.

This isn't him.

I really am At my wits end now. I have my own problems to deal with.(Child,finding a job, Maybe becoming homeless)

I want to help but im being told that to abandon him. He's dragging me down. And I feel that me and his best friend are the only ones keeping him alive.

Please help me:(

I don't know what to do anymore.

Its been in 2months it will be a year since he broke up with a girl and he still isn't over it.

Im very good friends with her and I have asked her if she can just talk to him but because he has anger problems she is scared of him. (He would never hit a girl but his moods are unstable)

Me and his best friend have been trying to help him out of this but its to no use. He refuse to let this go.

I love him and care deeply for him but im at my end with this. I have been in and or seen worse things happen between two people. And us telling him its not so bad get over ETC isn't helping.

It's hard because he has used drugs and alcohol for a while but that blew up after awhile it even put him in the hospital. And whats worse he doesn't care. He doesn't care that we are suffering just as much as he is.

I just can't anymore. Me and him ain't related by blood but we see each other like family and I've known him a long time.

This isn't him.

I really am At my wits end now. I have my own problems to deal with.(Child,finding a job, Maybe becoming homeless)

I want to help but im being told that to abandon him. He's dragging me down. And I feel that me and his best friend are the only ones keeping him alive.

Please help me:(

Me and this guy are broken up right now but we talk on the phone and he has said he still loves me

We spent time together for a whole day and acted like a couple but the day after He barly talked to me.

Which I understand we have been stressed with our unborn baby on the way and no real plans on how were going to take care of him without the help of our parents.

I want to be back together with him but I feel like Im the only one putting effort.

I have talked to his brother (Me and Him are friends) And he knows his brother still loves me and our baby but is just confused and thinks I shouldn't give up on him.

But he's just a man child sometimes and it bothers me how I have to make sure hes happy before I am.

But its not like hes ne'er there for me when I need him. He's plans to skip school this week so I wont have to stay in the hospital after my c-section I'll be having tomorrow by myself.

I planed a whole day for us to have fun and be together but even though I know hes looking forward to it he didn't really say anything other then "that's awesome and okay"

I know I shouldnt rush us becuase I know were not getting back toether anytime soon.

But I want to know if im going to be stuck in the friend zone forever.

Me and My boyfriend have been having problems for little over a month now.

So maybe three weeks ago he broke it off rather harshly and took a surprise vacation with his friends.

I didn't hear from him in two weeks almost and yesterday was the first time Iv seen him since a few days before the breakup. Now I know its dumb but I still really love him. And he knows this.

He has called me all week and has apologized for how he treated me. He told me he has been so stressed he blew up and needed to think on his own.

He feels like an a** for how he treated me and even said he still loves me but he doesn't want us to be together anymore.

I can agree when He says were both looking for different things in life.

And he just wants to find his soulmate.

even knowing all this I know if he tried he'll be able to see that yes were different but its not that huge of a difference. But I know there isn't much I can do to bring back the relationship we had.

Dealing with this has been hard on me emotionally and physicality.

Iv been depressed and been losing sleep more and more.

Im 19yrld and 38wks pregnant.

I dont have a job or Licence did not I finish highschool. (I plan to attend an adult school this summer)

My parents have been so supportive of me and even though We never gotten along much before I feel like Im part of the family now on how well they treat me.

Another thing that has me worried is that My belly is really soft on one side. (I can squeeze it and it just feels like a fat belly but on the other side Its still a little squishy but I can feel the hardness of the baby. Maybe I just gained alot of weight but its been bothering me. I still feel him move and My ob said hes headown and I can feel him move alot.)

But with all this other stuff happening I haven't felt happy in over 2months.

I'v thought about giving my baby up for adoption.

I want him to grow up happy with two parents that are ready for him.

I love him so much and the thought of him growing up unhappy due to mistakes I'v made is the most painful out of everything.

I just don't think I'm mentally ready to raise him on my own.

I'v told my ex about this yesterday and he doesn't want to give the baby up.

He loves him probably just as much as I do.

And wants us both to raise him or atleast till we find him a good home.

I just don't know what to do.

My ex is going into the air force after he graduates his adult school. (He didn't graduate like me)

My mom had to raise my older siblings on her own and they didnt grow up as happy as they would of because they didn't have there biological father for them.

I just want my son to grow up happy and healthy and i'm afraid that if I mess up he wont be.

Please help.

Me and this guy have been dating for a year now.we weren't as careful as we needed to be and in auguest I found out I was pregnant.

And at first everything was fine. He treated me well and was always so loving with me.

Everything was pretty much normal but by the end of december he started changeing and wanting more time to spend with his friends. It upset me a little but I stayed at his house every weekend so aslong as I got atleast two phone calls a day I didnt say to much about it. But by mid Januaruy I barley heard from him and I brought it to him that It's upseting me when I know they were some days when he was just sitting around doing nothing.

We ended up fighting more and more over this.

Last month was just completly horrible for us. and it was coming to a point where I felt as if I was losing him so I was always paranoid that he would cheat or something.

As far I know he never did, But a few weeks ago I wanted him to come down and see me (We live 9miles away from each other) And instead he went out with his best friends girlfriend even though I asked Him not to he was hanging out with her the day before with his best friend. He did anyways. And I didnt hear from him for a few hours. (I had to call him) But when I did He ended up telling me He hasn't loved me for sometime now and was only with me for our son.

That tore me to shreds inside and he really didnt show any real concern other then a "Im sorry"

I'v broken down so many times during this pregnancy and that was kinda the final straw with me and I know I could never get back with him. But it still hurts.

I know that were only 19 but ignoring me and hiding out at his friends house and not even being able to say to my face that he wants out is unbelievable. And I just want to know what could have happend for him to treat me like that.

He's always been a guy that looks out for me and someone I could lean on or cry to.

Hes been my best friend for almost 3 years. And Im having his baby in give or take 2 weeks.

What should I do?

I can say I still love him. And not even just him His mother and brother have always treated me like one of the family and I even stayed over there without My ex being there just cuz I needed someone to cry to. I miss them. I ended up talking to his brother for almost 7hours today.

And it turns out my ex barley comes home anymore, Which upsets me cuz I know it upsets his mother. And she has enough problems to deal with.

My (Ex) boyfriend and I broke up for what I think for good last night.

It really wouldn't be a problem other then Im 30wks pregnant.

Were both 19 and hes finishing school now and I drooped out but plan on going back next year.

What legal rights will he have to our child?

After about a month after hes born hes leaving for 2months to Basic Taring for the Air Force.

Then Might be gone another 4months For more traing.

So far Im getting plenty of help from my parents But I do want to move out by next year after school.

Also. We broke up over something stupid (Really stupid) And Im wondering if I should try and talk it out with him.

Side story.

Since christmas hes made a habit out of not calling me but once a day for maybe about an hour or two. We do see each other every weekend Im getting farther along and I don't want it like this when our son is born.

I've told him this upsets me and he says he'll change but has yet to do anything.

We talked last night and he told me.

"It really doesn't matter if your not happy now Im planing for the Future with you"

AKA Get over it Im not changing.

I was upset and told him. "That's it huh. Were done I guess"

And he said yeah and said were over.

I called him today or well this morning to let him know I need a ride to my OB and he said he'll do it but doesn't at all effected by us no longer being together.

Any ideas how to make it stop.

Not the whole thing but my lower belly.it wasn't this soft before an it worried me.

I was at the doctors yesterday and the baby is healthy but they did say I was gained to much weight so Is the soft belly just me?

I can still feel him moving around like normal.

If its just me are there any safe was to lose it?

I tend to lean forward when I sit and I always feel the baby moving around more when I do.

I just want to make sure Im not squishing him or anything.

Im 23wks pregnant.

Scott or Bryan will be his middle name.

Im Currently 19wks and I feel as though im driving my boyfriend up a wall.

We have been dating for 11months and have been best friends for almost three years.

Were both 19 and is taking full responsibility for our child but how things are its just getting slightly harder for us to enjoy it.

He really hates how mad I get at him but is patient and tries talking things threw but I usually blow up on him anyways.

And with the stress of school He already has to deal with I feel as though he just going to bail out on me.

Even though I know He would rather light himself on fire then do that.

He's really supportive and Absolutely loves me and the baby even though he's not born yet.

But my moods Are really coming between us.

One minuted im mushy and clingy the next Im yelling at him.

He doesn't know what to do and needs advice but hes also stubborn and wont listen sometimes.

So I really Need the advice for both of us.

I really Love this Guy and want him to be as happy as I am.

Plez Help.

As most of you guys know it was Halloween this week and I been chowing down on junk food.

At mt 1st trimester I only ate fruits and veggies but lately iv been eating a look of junk food like candy and fast food.

Last time i was at the ob they said I was healthy and so was my baby but that was a few weeks ago.

Could I have caused any harm to my baby?

Im currently 18wks now.

I know It sounds like a really dumb question but as of this month Iv been eating like a cow.

Before I wasn't always a hungry person but now I can eat four tacos and be hungry an hour later.

I Only eat to maybe two normal meals then the rest is small threw out the day.

Im just not used to this Eat every hour thing.

I know U guys are duh your preggers but Its an honest question

Im a 1st time mommy

I started out at 149/50 Before I got pregnant Now that Im 17wks and I have a mild bump and im 163

Its really freaking me out. I can feel the baby and its father can even hear it. Im just concerned if the baby is healthy and growing right. Am I just being a worry wort over nothing???

Plez Help.

Okay well from the title you can guess what im about to ask.

Im 18 years old and Im having my first child.(Im 7wks)

Im slightly okay not slightly really nervous I really have no idea what to do or even buy.

It wasn't a planed pregnancy but I do have full support from my family and My boyfriends family.

I Haven't been to A female doctor yet just my town clinic to confirm im pregnant.

I have gotten prenatal which I start taking tomorrow.

(Nature Made: Prenatal Multi+DHA)

I hope that was a good choice.

But Any advice Im all ears If any Of you can Give me tips on staying healthy And relaxed And what to eat And what not to eat and Things To put on my Buy list 1st I'd be more then grateful.

Okay I've known my boyfriend for two years now. were both 18.

We've been dating seriously for just about six months

we both are very sexually active and whatnot.

he has some more school to work on before going into the air Force.

I have no I idea on what im doing I don't have an Diploma or GED Im pretty much going no where. yet he says he wants to marry me someday and even bought me a promise ring for our anniversary.

I'v been somewhat living with him for the past 4 months hoping from his house and my parents.

his family loves me an even teases us about marriage. Im just very confused.

Why would he want to be with me? I don't know what I can do in life?

I just don't want him regretting picking me.