Chloe Hayfer

Lately have been having dreams about having sex with girls, which is quite awkward because I am straight and have never been with a girl. I have never been attracted to girls so I don't know what to think at this point, what do these dreams mean?

Short version: my friend got a boyfriend 2 weeks ago. Lets call him Andy. If I'm chilling with her, all we ever talk about is Andy, how perfect he is, how sweet he is, how much she adores him..blah. When I want to go somewhere with her, and I call her, I always hear Andy in the background and its always the same story of how they already made plans. When I really missed her ( i dont see her often) I called, and I started telling her about this cute guy and other problems and personal stuff and I realized that I was on speaker when I heard them both laughing. I really love her I do, its just that I never see her anymore, i can never talk to her, and if we do hangout we end up talking about him. I feel bad about telling her to stop obsessing over him, I dont want her to be angry with me. ADVICE WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED) :D

add. info- were both 15

Im a 14 year old girl, my hair was always kinda medium not too thick not too thin. Around 2 weeks ago i was running my fingers through my hair and literally my whole hand was covered in hair. I am not exagerating, there were about 50 hairs, i wish i was kidding. it scared the crap out of me because i have never had that. i eat normally, i excercise, drink lots of water, and dont really have alot of stress in my life. PLEASE HELP ME. PLEASE.

Ok, so im a 18 female, I having an amazing boyfriend and all but everytime I want to have rough sex with him he always say that he doesn't want to hurt me and he would feel like he was causing me pain. I know he wants to he's just scared to make me feel uncomfortable. I just really want him to push me against a wall, kiss me, spank me, come inside of me, do whatever he wants to me. Use me for his pleasure, pull my hair, bite my neck a bit. For those of you who think im some dumb whore im not. I just want to pleasure him and make him happy in anyway possible. I do great in school, and hes my only serious bf, we been going out for 2 and a half years.I have never had any abusive problems in my life, and I have a great relationship with my friends and family.I just really like being completely dominated in the bedroom. Please help, how should I ask him to try this?

I broke my ankle really badly in school during gym a month ago, and i have to use crutches for school. I know this sounds childish but I am in so much daily pain because my school is huge and it takes me such a long time to get from class to class, my arms feel like they have been run over by a lawn mower repeatedly especially because i am skinny and i guess my muscles are weak... When I walk in the hallways people look at me some sort of animal, and it really bothers me so i try to walk as fast as possible to avoid the glares. My mom doesn't let me take the bus to or from school so i have to take a taxi everyday and i barely ever see my friends at all, and when i do I'm in such a hurry that i cant talk to them. My mom is very sick and she went to the E.R today so I almost had a heart attack, and I'm very scared for her because she has serious heart problems and every time i even think about her, i just can't. And I live on the 4th floor of a building and we don't have an elevator so it takes me a very painful 20 minutes at least to get down the stairs everyday. I'm sorry I'm trying to not complain, if it helps I'm a 15 year old girl, freshman in highschool. I doubt anyone will care but if you did read this please leave a comment or advice..thank you so much.

My best friends birthday is coming up, and I don't know what to get her. I have known her literally since birth, so this present would mean alot to her and me. I really want her to love it :) She is a 14-year old girl, and her favorite color is blue and pink, and she is obsessed with hello kitty and gymnastics, if that helps. If you have absolutely any ideas, please let me know, thanks!! =D

I am obsessed with pulling out my eyelashes, i did not even notice that i was until i saw i didnt have any left. I searched it up, and it says that this is a form of self harming, even though i dont feel like i am. I am not insane, and i really do need help, i have been doing this for around 2 years. I'm very ashamed, and if tell someone they will think im crazy. please help

Everyone keeps saying that we are going to diieee on Dec 21,2012, i personally think thats a bunch of crap, because when you think about it, they said we were supposed to die in 2000, in 1995, in 1997, and even in 2010, oh and lets not forget judgement day. What do you think?

My favorite is coffee, whats your? =D

I have not had my first kiss yet, i'm turning 15 next month, most of my friends have. I was just wondering, what age is appropriate for a first kiss? No mean comments, thanks guy's! =D

So my really good friend just told me that she smokes. I was in shock because in all the years I have known her, she would never do something like that. She said she has only done it a couple of times, but I can feel it in her voice that she wants to do it again. I love her, shes like my best friend, but every time I try talking to her about it and reminding her its a bad habit she just gets defensive and pushes me away. I don't want for her to be a smoker, i dont want her to get lung cancer or anything. But every time I try to help, she always pushes me away. i am scared for her, please help and give me any advice u think would help, thank you.

There is this guy in my class that I really, really like. I will admit that he doesnt have the best grades but he is funny and really sweet, and were friends. I sit with him in health and my friends hates him and was telling him to shut up and that he likes me. When she said that he got soooo defensive, he said ewww, no, i dont like her, i dont like anyone in this school, people here are wierd. My friend said that he just got defensive cause hes shy, and when she said "you like her" he blushed. I am really confused at what happened. Help?

I got my period for the first time 3 months ago, its is out of control!! I get my period every 2 weeks, my period started again december 27 and has been going ever since, today is the 10th day its been going and its not stopping. I am losing so much blood, i feel like all the energy is being sucked out of me. Is this suppossed to be happening? Please help, i am scared.

Okay so I am 14 yrs old and i am in the eigth grade. My school handed out our high school applications a couple of weeks ago, and we all spoke with our guidance counseler. She said something about how if you enter high school with at least 10 credits you get to graduate a year early. (im sorry im giving so little information, i just dont remember at the time) I am in the regents class, so I wud like to know how can you earn credits?? Please help, and no mean comments guys thanks ! =D

Okay, so me and my friend want to get matching piercings. We could either get a cartilage piercing, or a second hole. We cant decide, which is more painful??? What wud u get??? Be honest =D

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-14 yrs old

Okay, so my bestfriend has no idea how to swim (she is 13 yrs old like me). She really wants to learn and I am trying to teach her. I personally love swimming, its my #1 fav hobby. Anyway, we went to the community pool and i started to teach her the basics, moving around in the water, getting used to the underwater pressure. So then, the next thing I tried to do was to teach her how to float, this was IMPOSSIBLE!!! (of course i didnt tell her that) She has no idea how to float, so i got this begginners mini board to try to help her. When i tried holding her back under water so she doesnt "sink" she got so scared that she ran out of the pool. She doesnt trust other people holding her up, she gets very scared.

So then I tried getting her to hold the board in front of her (it floats) and showing how to properly kick her feet. It worked......kind of. At least now, she can swim almost half of the pool by herself with a board. (i think thats good progress, comparing to when she first came in and had no idea what to do". So now, I want to move up to the next step. But I have gotten very confused what to do next. I have been on the junior swim team since I was 9, but when I try to teach others I get lost. Can someone please tell me what to do next???? Anything that you did that might have made it easier for you to learn how to swim??? Please help, I dont want to let her down, is there anything that i can make her do to make her a bit less frightened??? and plz no mean comments

Btw, I am very supportive and reassure her every 5 mins that shes doing great and nothing to be afraid of.

So I really want to get a piercing, I have already discussed it with my mom and she said its okay. Last week I was 100% sure that I was going to get it, but then one of my friends said that when she got hers it hurt so bad that she started crying, she also said that you cannot swim with a cartilage piercing. Is this true? Does it really hurt that bad?? Please help, and thanks guyz!!

For the past 3 days all I hear is "omigod!!! j-day is coming were all going to die?". Whats ur opinion of j-day? PLz no mean comments k? thanks =D

So my best friend ever is turning 13 in 2 days!!! She is very very close to me and on my b-day she got me $60.00. She kind of has more money than me, this makes me feel wierd because I would feel bad if I did not give her 60 bucks back, but if I did it would be wierd cuz then i wud hav no present for my b-day. So i finally decided to get her Victoria Secret perfume and body mist (its wrapped up in this purple flower looking box), I got her this hoodie and I have a matching one so it looks rlly cute when we walk togethor. And I got her a 30 dollar gift Macys card, and a box of her favorite all time chocalates. The last thing I got her are these matching purple and blue heart leg bracelets for each of us and an old navy hand bag.This is probably going to sound very stupid but, I dont think she will like it, can you plz tell me if this sounds like a good present or not or if I need to buy something more? Please help?

So i have two "friends", they completely mess up my life. One says something behind my back, the otherone tells me all the mean things she said. When I confront her about it, she denys and blames all on the other one. Im so tired of this, all of this is messing with my grade, my life, and my free time. I told both of them Im not talking to them and how mad I am and then they start being mean and saying how im a dirty liar. I just want peace and quiet, what do I do?