chick29

Well I messed up! I cheated on my boyfriend. I want to tell him but I dont knwo how. He has pushed me away for a long time. I want to get it off my chest becasue it is not easy living like a lie. I am not in love with him anymore and I told him this but he does not seem to hear it when I say it. He has not trusted me in a long time. I have never given him a reason not to but reciently things with a friend of mine got caried away. I want to be honest but I dont know how. Then man I cheated with is not available to be mine. So all I am gaining out of telling him is that I would have a cleat concience. My be that is selfish and I am a ***** but I need to be honest. What should I say? He is a great guy just not the guy for me. How do you end a relationship when once beleives it is over and the other thinks everything is okay? I have told him that I am no longer in love with him but he doesn't get it. Please help!

I have been with my b/f for a long time and we have been having some problems and I want out. I have felt this way for awhile but it has gone on for to long. I have feeling for someone else but that is not the reason i want to leave. I need sometime for me to get to know me as a person. I have had a boyfrined for so long I forgot who I was. I just need to easiest and and least hurtful way to break it off?

Have you ever cheated? did you feel guilty? Did you tell the person you cheated on? did you stay together?

I have been with my boyfriend for a long time but I have a good male friend .. My b/f and I have been fighting alot and my friend has been there for me. I can never thank him enough for all her does..My friend is married ( I have know him for 17 years) his wife does not like me and my b/f can not stand him. Every time he has a problem at home he comes to me and I do the same. We have this connection I can not explain. He knows everything about me. About 2 months ago I had a big problem with my b/f and went to talk to my friend--I never thought of him as aanymore then a friend while I was talking to him we started kissing and one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex...It was incredible...I care about him and we talked about what happened and how we both wish it could happen again. I know its wrong but I have very strong feeling for him...mt b/f has accused us of cheating in the past it has not happened till now...should I tell him or just move on?

Why do woman always want what they can not have? In there jobs and life..why is it that if it is not off limits woman do not want it? I have never made a man cheat before but now the one i want is taken and I would do almost anything to be with him.. I do not understand.

I am not looking for judgement...i am looking for honest answers. I am in a situation and need advice...I reciently had an affair with a married man and my heart is breaking I do know it is wrong but i want it so much...he is the love of my life...i have tried to distance myself from him in the last few weeks but i long just to hear his voice...i think about him all the time...i dont wanna be there when it is convient for him but i'll take it if there is no other time...i know it sounds bad but i am so in love with him i can not eat or sleep...He did tell me he loved me too..So what would you do? I tried to walk away but my head and my heart are fighting..i know in my head it is wrong to be with a married man but my heart tells me different...please help!