Diamonds_4Ever

These are all pictures as of AFTER the wedding. A couple are even of a friend of mine (she didn't send them to him, he saved them from her myspace account). Some girls do send him pics (he asks for them) and some he just finds on the net and saves. There are soooo many though... I have talked to him about this before the wedding and after. Isn't this a type of porn addiction? What if he acts on this behavior and messes with one or more of these girls?

We went to premarital counseling for this type of thing and obviously nothing has changed. I know I should have left him at the alter, but do I try to work through this or give him the boot?

I have been to counseling with my fiance and believe he loves me, but he emailed a girl the other day and told her he needs her and never knew what he had til it's gone and told her he is "almost" off the market. Is this guy just an A hole or does he have a problem? Should I call this wedding off? We went to counseling for this same type of behavior.

I found emails between my fiance and several girls. Flirting and them sending him pictures. I don't think he physically ever had any contact with any of them, but even still isn't this still cheating? Should I bother trying to get counseling? The wedding is in 2 months.

Wedding is in a couple months. Very embarrassed.

I know I shouldn't snoop, but I needed confirmation of my suspicions before taking that final step. I am SUPER embarrased. Most things have been paid for and my 12 bridesmaids have paid for their dresses....

The email was an ongoing (recent) conversation between him and a girl with them exchanging "I love you's" but her saying how this can't work because he won't leave me. Is there even a point in trying to talk about this or do I just kick him to the curb?

I have a child with my bf of 7 years we live in a house (in my name) and are engaged to marry later this year. I just don't think this will work out. He is very un-trusting towards me (calls/emails me all the time when I'm at work or out with friends). In addition he has "borrowed" money from me in the past for household items but has not paid me back. His family doesn't really act like they want to excel in life (pursuing education career advancement etc.) which doesn't allow me to have anything in common with them.

I know that in the long run, this will not work. I do not know how to get out of this. I do not want to hurt him (clearly unavoidable) but do not know what to do...

While cleaning up yesterday, I found a receipt for a Valentine's Day stuffed animal with my fiance's things. I obviously assumed the animal was for me, so I didn't mention it. Now, the day is over, I was never given a stuffed animal, and there is an (empty) bag from the same store as the receipt, large enough for a stuffed animal in his car.

I am really shocked and hurt. Do I bring this to him? What are the odds he will tell the truth. Should I be calling off the wedding?

We have a child, and he did not give her a stuffed animal, nor did he give anything to his mother, so those two options are out.

My boyfriend finally proposed and we went to look at bands. He picked out a big gawdy band (for himself) that is half a karat larger and more expensive than my engagement ring! Isn't this, well selfish? Or am I over reacting?

My friend owns a condo and the association fee covers gas, trash removal and lawn care (and building upkeep), but for the past 4 months there has been no gas and now the trash is not being picked up. She has paid all dues but apparantly other tenants have not. About 20 units all share the same gas tank and now no one has gas. This means cold showers and no heat for everyone. What should she do? She obviously can't just get up and leave since she has a mortgage to pay, but this is unfair she has a child on the way...

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Some tenants are already in the process of foreclosing. Since there hasn't been gas for months, more and more tenants are not paying-which is understandable, but I don't know what her options are....

My friend owns a condo and the association fee covers gas, trash removal and lawn care (and building upkeep), but for the past 4 months there has been no gas and now the trash is not being picked up. She has paid all dues but apparantly other tenants have not. About 20 units all share the same gas tank and now no one has gas. This means cold showers and no heat for everyone. What should she do? She obviously can't just get up and leave since she has a mortgage to pay, but this is unfair she has a child on the way...

Background: My boyfriend and I live together (and have for the past 4 years) and have a child together and he wants me to put a car in my name for him. I know he will pay the note but I don't want to do it. I don't want the car on my credit at all. I have my mortgage in my name, furniture we purchased, as well as credit card debt already on my credit and I don't want anything else on there. Not to mention if I were to need a car in the next year or so I wouldn't be able to with his car in my name. Am I being unreasonable?

(His credit is trash from when he was young and his current car is now undrivable)

While I was waiting for my "final" approval I did not buy a thing, now that everything is finalized and I have plenty in emergency savings and closing costs etc. is it "okay" for me to order my furniture? Will the slight dip in my account have any relevance at the closing?

I just want a list of boxes that can be checked. Example:

_Pizza

_Hot dog

_Hamburger

I just want the user to be able to simply check one or more boxes by clicking on the box (nothing else needs to happen). Is there a way to do this? (I do not know how to use visual basic).I know how to get the physical boxes there, but I can't make them "checkable".

Thanks for any help!

My daughter will be 3 this summer and I am still 15 lbs from my pre-pregnancy weight. Will I ever be able to fit my pre-pregnancy clothes or should I just get rid of them all?

What worked for you if you've lost all your baby weight?

Aside from stretch marks, is it even possible for my stomach to get back flat?

Thanks

I make $41,000/yr. My credit scores are in the low 600. I know rates are down and I am really ready to move. What kind of payments can I expect? Any info is helpful. Thanks!

My baby is now 2 1/2 and I am still 16 lbs from my pre-pregnany weight. I run a mile 2x a week and go to a high impact aerobics class 2x a week.

I follow the weight watchers point system. I don't get it, I am really discouraged. Do I need to get liposuction?! Any advice would be great.

I e-file and I am not sure where to note this deduction. I live in Illinois and contributed to the Illinois plan.

My boyfriend of 5 yrs keeps on messaging women on myspace (giving his # out etc). In the past he exchanged nude photos with someone through his cell phone. We have a 3 yr old daughter. Can this relationship be saved? Am I wasting my time.

I think I just hoped it worked for our child (he's a great dad), but I don't want to be hurt or waste my time.

Please advise. =(

I am freaking out. I gained 5 lbs last week with no changes to my diet and I work out 2-3 times per week. I am NOT pregnant. What could be the cause of this and how do I fix it???

Please help!

I have a good amount of caffeine in the morning (it's the only way I can get through the day) and I don't get hungry for a couple hours, but then around 11 or 12 I get severe hunger pains, it comes on suddenly and it seems like no matter how much I eat I am still hungry!

What can I do about this (without losing the caffeine)?