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Dareck M
I need advice in a relationship.?
Ok first off I need to explain my situation...
I met this girl in 7th grade, and kind of had a crush on her until early freshman year when she started seeing this guy..... lets call him Joe. I hid my feeling for her very well, and she and joe were happy for about 6 months to a year. Then things started to go bad. He began to treat her very poorly, ignoring her, making fun of her, insulting her for believing in god, and his mother would do much of the same things. She would call her fat, and say that she wasn't good enough for him, and Joe would just kind of laugh. This went on for 2 more years, in which she would come to me every day crying, upset, or angry because of something Joe did or said. (By this time I was her best friend, and we drove to and from school together daily, he wouldnt go out of his way to get her, and she was on my way) I was always there for her. At the end of our junior year they broke up and she called me in tears telling me what had happened. He cheated on her, and then basically dumped her for his neighbor. Roughly a month later I hosted a party and we both ended up drunk (the first time either of us had drank) Apparently she felt the same way towards me as I had for nearly the same amount of time, we were both just too chicken-**** to tell the other one. We were happy for about a month, nothing could touch us. Then Joe found out that her and I were together, and he began calling her multiple time a day, every day. Saying I miss you, I made a mistake, I love you, I want you back. At first she told him to get lost and that she was happy, and didn't want to go back to the way he treated her. After 2 months of this she broke down, feeling towards him began to re-surface, and she wanted to take a break from everyone, including him. I was ok with it, I gave her space, but he didnt, he kept calling her and with no input from me, he changed her mind. Now she is back in an unstable relationship with him, and wants me to try to be friends. Ive tried nearly everything to keep her close, but it seems everything I try just makes her more distant, and I think that she will end up filling the hole that I leave with him, and become more attached to him. I don't know what to do anymore, I either have to sit back and watch all of this happen to her and I if I want any chance to have he in my life in the future. Or give up completely and just completely get out of her life. I don't know what to do, and Ive spent the past 2 weeks crying myself to sleep. I can't concentrate on school, work, or anything. She was my life, and now I having nothing to do but think about her with my free time. Any suggestions?
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