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3 weeks in we had sex. It was cool, but after some time **** seemed to repeat. She started texting me hours sometimes days apart. Her texts were always most short. "Wyd". "Chilling". "Hi". "Coo".

Now I may be paranoid but every time we on the phone she texting away to some other guy. I blew it past me.

Then she went totally M.I.A. But before she did I told her I loved her and she replied it back to me.

My friend said she posting stuff on her Facebook about some other guy. P.s I don't have her fb she thought it would bring problems (I was the fool).

I messaged her telling her I knew what she was doing and we should start over.

I know who she talking to and I so badly want to screen shot the message she sent me to him. Yes, this will cuz drama, but I'm fed up playing nice guy. I came here to ask if I should do it once she messages me back?

I got friendzoned by this girl. I mean don't get the wrong idea I did try all the moves possible but she just wanted a friend. I was cool with it and accepted it. She was busy at work and I was getting rdy for school.

We made plans to hang out. We had a night pretty much to ourselves. My brothers wanted to chill at a friends place and I invited her.

She wanted to get some drinks and we went off to get some. We didn't know if we could bring the drinks inside so we drank a little in the car. I'm a lightweight and I told her before hand.

After a while we went inside my bros friends house and we chill in the dark playing around. Then she tried tickling me and we ended up kissing.

It escalated to the point where we had sex. Now we weren't drunk, but we were up there.

I just don't know what's up. I like her, but at the same time I don't want to complicate what we have...

After 5 months of no contact my ex contacted me that she wanted to fix things. This girl and I dated for more than two years. Even with the age difference we made it work. It was the longest relationship we both had.

But we both were too immature and things started getting confusing. I was in college and she was still in high school. She's smart, but she wanted to graduate with her class.

She's going to college an hour away

We broke up cuz she didn't know what she wanted and when she came back I thought she did.

But soon as we start talking she puts up her walls and I knew I had to figured out what's wrong.

She told me she's scared I would end up leaving her...which I felt I wouldn't. So she told me everything. Yes, a lot of it broke me down, but I understood.

So right now I feel we don't have to date right away. She feels the same way. She see's a future where we are married, but right now she doesn't think she is ready for it.

We promise to keep in contact and when we feel that we can do it again than it will be perfect. The minute I started thinking I wonder if we are for each other.

My ex (dated for 2 1/2 years) and I broke up cuz she had sex with her "best friend" when we were on break. I forgave of course cuz it's not like we are together. What did it for me was her still communicating with him after I told her he had feelings for her. She denied it until I sent her msgs he sent me. She then told me how she wanted to be friends to fix herself. I knew it was bs and broke up with her.

5 months later. She contacts me and wants to start over. I agree 2 days later. We start off as friends to fix everything before commuting to each other. We go on dates and what not.

We have small arguments and some big ones more to dealing with her friend. I'm not comfortable with him and not for jealous reasons. She can have guy friends, but he can't be trusted.

She said she wants to start off fresh. I know the saying forgive and forget, but I forgave this once and there's no way I'm bout to let him fool me twice.

Just going thru a lot and honestly I can't really tell my girl. I hate bringing up old stuff even thou it make me uncomfortable. I love her and trust her, but I'm hardly talking to her these days.

She works and has school. She takes care of me when she's not sleepy from exhaustion.

What should I do? These petty thoughts. Small things. Like. Stopping the convo, and then starting back to hi like the convo died.

My girl is talking to these friends of her's about freaky stuff. I not sure their guys or not, but I trust her (And that easy saying it). They asked her about doing oral and being the only guy she has ever done it to I want to know as well. she told me she didn't give names and that she told them how she felt about it and in detail. I wanted to know as well, but she hasn't yet told me what she told them...I'm just wondering if she should be telling people (Who could be guys interested in her) these kinds of things while she is with me? I mean I tell my best friend about this and he gives pointers and all, but UGH!! IDK HELP!

My girl told me I was being obsessive and clingy. I couldn't see it so I have her space. It's was a whole day and usually she texts back. So I text her and she is surprised that now I want to talk to her. I wasn't trying to ignore her, i didn't want to ignore her at all. I wanted to give her space. Now I feel like there is tension

My girl tells me I'm being to obsessive and clingy...I got mad cause Im really not...I love her and she loves me a lot. I worry when she doesn't go a whole day without at least saying "Hi I'm still alive." I get a little frustrated and worried cuz she hang out with guys...a lot of them I hate so I worry. Right now we are in a undefined relationship and its going good. So I gave her what she wanted...space. I'm not sure what to say when she cntacts me back...

Ive done research and tried to figure if I was obsessive and clingy. I couldnt find much on account from texting her so much. So I decided to not text her as much. I decided i'm going to stop starting convo's and see what she does with this...

Ok my girl and I broke up for like a while and she had sex with my friend. I wasn't that cool with the friend, but it still sucks.

I'm not friends with this friend anymore, but I love the girl. He went to the military for 3months and things between this girl and I are flaming hot. Problem is she says that his her bestfriend and what they did was in the moment. I forgave it, but of course I'm cautious. They write to each other. She been depressed and I'm thinking something wrong. I ask she Denys. Today she tells me she misses him and all that.

I'm mad and I call her telling her what's up. She tells me it'll never happen again, and I want to believe her I really do. But she's not giving me much to believe on. I love her on some real stuff. I broke all my other girls off just for her. I have thoughts that once he comes back they'll hang out all alone together and do it again. But she swears it's not not gunna happen, and that she's not gunna bring up his name again. What do I do?

So me and this girl dated for a year. Things got complicated and we took a break which led to an actual break-up. We soon got back to talking and the chemistry was still strong. Things around where still complicated. We decided to take things slow. I've never done things slow, but I was ready for it. We had awesome sex and one day while on her period she told me she didn't want to have sex for a long time. We never defined our relationship so I thought we were dating on the dl.

One day someone got on her Facebook and put that they were in a relationship with her. Me being the ***** I am called her and told her what was up. She fixed it and messaged me what I thought we were.

I love this girl so I didn't think it mattered so I replied "bf/gf." This came from the heart. I didnt want her kissing, laying, hugging, or taking to no guy. She tells me I'm the only one that has her, but I'm scared...

Ok me and my girlfriend had a solid relationship for a great year. Now her friend was a friend of mine and when he found out I was dating her we all pretty much hung out with each other.

Things started getting rocking with me and my girlfriend. I didn't know why, but I knew something was up. Took months till I found out. The guy friend was our go between. We told him majority of the relationship. I guess it killed our conversation part of the relation. I later than found out when me and her were not together they both had sex.

I was mad beyond. She was sad that it happened and regretted everything. I still loved her and she did to. so we decided to try again, but The friend for whatever reason was still there...

She told me now his just a friend and nothing more and that it will never happen again, but I don't want them talking as much. I don't want to share her with him. In my head the minute they had sex they stopped being friends.

Am I right to tell her to stop talking to him? Or should I trust her again with a guy she shared herself with?