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I recently switched my soap to Safeguard to help treat a skin condition that I have. I used it "down there" and now it's itchy and swollen. I know it's not an STD because I was recently laid off my job and got tested for everything before my insurance policy was canceled. For this this reason, I can't go to the doctor. What can I do to treat it?

I am madly in love with the guy I've been dating for a while. Things have been great between us...until recently when we weren't able to see each other as often due to his work schedule. I felt like he was taking me for granted and I told him that yesterday. I said it pretty rudely and hurt his feelings. He admitted to being in love with me for the first time yesterday when we talked about the situation, but now he's upset because I was so mean to him. What can I do to make it up?

I've been dating this guy since November of 2007. He is a great guy and has done a lot for me. He says he cares for me very deeply, but still hasn't said I love you. I am in love with him very much. He is always there for me. If it's been this long, will he ever love me? Should I move on?

For the past year and a half I've been dating the most amazing guy. He would do anything for me and has bought me several expensive gifts. Lately he's seemed kind of distant. We're spending less time together, talking less etc. I love this guy with all my heart and want him to be happy. I want to remain friends because he's an awesome guy. Should I return the gifts?? Should I let him go so he can find the one who makes him happy??

I am dating a guy who treats me well and often does things for me. I want to do something small for him like a little surprise or something cute. Any ideas? Please, nothing sexual! Thanks!

I have been dating an amazing guy for over a year now. He is really sweet, treats me well, is always there for me when I need him and will give me just about anything I want. This girl was leaving him comments that I thought were inappropriate and I accused him of seeing her. It turns out they are just really good friends, have been for years and he does a lot for her kids because there father doesn't. He is not romantically involved with her. Now that I accused him, he won't talk to me. How can I get him back or get him to talk to me?

The guy I'm currently dating is very sweet. He does things for me all the time and has a gift for me almost every time I see him from the new hd tv he bought me to my favorite candy. Things are pretty good between us, but he won't go to dinner with me and my friends for my birthday. What's up with that?

I was recently laid off of my job and have been feeling crummy ever since. My birthday is in two days and I'm not in the mood to celebrate. What should I do?

I've liked this guy at work for several months and we recently began talking and seeing each other outside of work. He is the sweetest guy I've met in a long time. I'm used to getting hurt in relationships, so I'm afraid to completely open myself up to him. Because of past relationships I am also a little insecure with myself. He gives me compliments and I shoot them down. Now he's starting to feel like I don't like him or appreciate anything he does for me. Help me please, I don't know what to do...??? I really like him and I don't want to lose him.

I am a recent college graduate. I had an interview for a job that I really want and that I believe I'm well qualified for on June 18. A week later I was called back for a second interview which I had on June 28th. Since then I have been asked for a copy of my transcripts and my references and previous employers have been contacted. It's been almost a month since my first interview.

Last Wednesday I called to check the status of the position and I was told by the HR Representative that the Event Management staff had been very busy therefore the decision process it taking a little longer than expected. She said that they are still reviewing and a decision should be made by the end of this week. She said I can expect a phone call or I should get something in the mail. Should I give up on this job or is there still a chance for me?

I've had a first and second interview for a position that I really want. They requested a copy of my transcripts and have called my references and previous employers. However, it's been a month since my first interview and I haven't received a letter or anything.

I am a recent college graduate. I had an interview for a job that I really want and that I believe I'm well qualified for on June 18. A week later I was called back for a second interview which I had on June 28th. Since then I have been asked for a copy of my transcripts and my references and previous employers have been contacted. It's been almost a month since my first interview. Should I give up on this job or is there still a chance for me?

When a company offers you a position will they call first or just mail a job offer letter? Also, I was told that they wouldn't be requesting to see a copy of my transcript if they didn't intend to hire me, is this true?

I had the first interview for a position I really want about three weeks ago. A week after that they called me back for a second interview which I had about a week and a half ago. I think the interview went fairly well and I left with a positive feeling. Since then they have called my references, verified my past employment, and they also asked me to have my university send a copy of my transcript. I just graduated from college about 2 months ago and this will be my first "real" job! Does it seem promising?

I interviewed for a position last Wednesday, today is Tuesday and I really want to call and follow up, but I was told to wait at least a week. I am well qualified for the position and I feel the interview went well. Should I wait for them to contact me or call them? In the interview I asked how quickly they wanted to fill the position and they said ASAP. The person who had the job before was promoted and has taken on the responsibilities of the new job and the old one.

I've known this guy for about 2 years and I've liked him since we met (he used to attend the same university as I). We ran into each other about a month ago and he asked for my number. He calls ocasionally (about 2-3 times per week), but he's super busy, so we don't see each other much. He works 70 hours a week and has 16 credit hours this semester. Last weekend, we had sex and afterwards I kind of freaked out. He stayed the entire night and even into the afternoon the next day and just held me and made sure I was okay. We talked about it and I told him how I feel and he said that he was fine with not having sex again until I felt comfortable. Does he like me or is he just using me for sex?!

So, I am finally graduating from college. I'm only 22 years old, but I am striving for independence. I know that I will have to go back to my parents' house for a little while (hopefully only for the summer), but I really would rather live on my own and start a life seperate from them. I've been really sheltered my whole life and I want to do things on my own. I have not yet found a job, but I have some prospects. Has anyone else experienced a similar situation? What steps can I take to reach independence?

I met this guy about 2 years ago who used to attend the same university as I, but he transfered to another school in the same city. I always thought he was cute and secretly liked him a little bit. Recently we've been running into each other a lot and a few weeks ago we exchanged phone numbers and have been talking occasionally. Last Saturday, he came over and we had sex. I've talked to him twice since then, but I can't tell if he likes me or if he's just being nice by calling and answering the phone when I call. Now I feel like he won't respect me, even though after it happened we talked and he said he would. Was it too soon? Do you think I've messed up my chances with him?

My ex and I broke up six months ago after a 3 year relationship. He is now in a long distance relationship and he is not happy. He constantly tells me that he loves me and misses me and I feel the same way, but he hasn't broken it off with her. I recently stopped commmunicating with him. I wouldn't answer his phone calls, e-mails, or text messages. He broke down and told me that he can't live without me and he needs me, he said he would leave her so that we could get back together and work on our relationship. The other night he came over and we just held each other and cuddled all night and it felt so good. How long should I give him to break things off with her or should I just leave him alone altogether?? Please help, I don't know what to do, I love him so much.

My and ex and I were together for three years, before breaking up six months ago. The thing is we've talked and we are both still deeply in love with each other. The only problem is he has a long distance girlfriend, I mean really long distance like 1200 miles away. They never see each other and he is always with me and always calling me. Out of respect for his girlfriend, we haven't been affectionate, but we both want to be. The way he looks at me, lets me know he still loves me and it just makes me want to melt. I don't know what to do. I want him back, I believe we are meant to be, but I know he doesn't love his girlfriend. I don't want her to be hurt, but I think he should be with. What do I do?