greeneyedmommy

I am going to be dealing with my first deployment as a navy wife in a few months & do not know how i am going to deal (newer mom & pregnant with #2 hubbies missing birth & 90% of prenancy)..it scares me because i hear of all the men cheating & wifes cheating & of all the divorces because of deployment (how true this is i dont know but i've heard it alot from other wifes and husbands). i dont want to end up as one of the unlucky ones....i love my hubby very very much and wouldnt cheat on him nor do i think he would on me. how can i assure him when he is gone that nothing like that will happen with us?...what can i send him to make deployment seem to go faster and so he knows i love him and miss him? how can i make him feel as though he helped me through the prenancy & up to date without him feeling depressed or guilty because of missing his 2d child being born?

Also what can i expect while he is gone on deployment & when he returns?

thanks in advance

I am looking for daycare or babysitting in the san deigo area for 1 yr old who is not pottytrained.....anyone know of anywhere or any ways for me to find quality childcare?

Would anyone find it offensive if their child after being married with one child tried for a child to be due on the birthday of her grandfather who passed on....

I was in my 3d yr majoring in pre vet med when i had my daughter (shes 1)... my mom & dad were not pleased & now I want to change majors to RVT because vets dont get to do as much with animals as I want to----I've thought this for about 1.5 yrs now just never told my mom because she is very adament about things--like whats the point in going half way....I mentioned it yesterday & now shes not talking to me---I feel bad because for 2 yrs & one quarter she put me through school but its my life & I know I dont want to be a vet...the other thing is I am pregnant again- hubby & i were trying so this one is planned but once more mom didnt know & still doesnt---how should i break this to her without hurting her? i feel like even though i am 21 and married i am still answering to her & living my life to please her...anyone else have this problem? (shes been pushing me toward vet med since i had an interest in it when i was 5 & i just never had a chance to look around)