Eric E

"I'll Wait" and "Panama" are two of my favorites. And I also love For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge. So basically, I like both the Roth and Hagar albums.

What are your thoughts?

Seriously, I do not find her all that attractive. I saw an article about the media comparing Megan Fox to Jolie, and I think Fox is much hotter than Jolie.

I just don't get why everyone things Jolie is some kind of queen of beauty.

Your thoughts?

Well, she has been texting this guy at work a lot and I am friends with him as well. I asked her about it last week and told her it made me jealous, and she said it is nothing bad.

I was so jealous over the weekend and last night my jealousy got the best of me. I looked at her phone, and the inbox was empty, but the Outbox had texts to and from him. They were emotional flirting, talking about dreams they were having and the kisses in the dreams, the type of black lacy underwear my wife was wearing. My heart sank.

Is this karma getting back at me for what I did to her and lying for 4 years? I was torn to confront her, but if I didn't, my jealousy would eat away at me. So this morning I told her I saw the texts. She right away said she would stop texting him. Then she got very upset that after everything I did to her, I didn't trust her! I do trust her, I just had a gut feeling that there was more than she was admitting. She admitted she lied, but is now very angry at me and is questioning whether or not we will make it. She even said she knew it was wrong and knew she would get caught. it was a sign from God that she got caught before anything more happened.

The thing is, I am not even mad that she lied, I am hurt. I am hurt because the woman i married would never ever lie to me. but after what I did to her, I have changed her and turned her into someone that I used to be. Someone who snuck around and sent flirty texts. I know first hand how an affair starts, and that is what worried me. She said nothing physical happened, and I believe her and she wouldn't have done anything because she has respect. but emotional affairs are just as bad, and they usually lead to more.

Am I wrong in thinking I should be mad that I caught her in a lie instead of her being mad that I didn't trust her? it would be different if my assumptions were wrong, in my opinion. But since I found evidence, why should I apologize for not trusting her?

She is now livid that I don't trust her even though she said nothing happened. But I found she was sending emotional texts, even though last week was her birthday and I spent all week trying to make it special for her. And I have been praising her at home, telling her how beautiful she is and now I know why she felt distant from me last week. She said we have never really fought during all of this, until now. And she doesn't want to fight with me anymore. She also said this is the first time she has questioned whether or not we will make it through this. And that scares me. I want to be totally honest and open going forward, and by doing that, I get scorned. I am at a loss.

The thing is, I had been praying to God to help me get this jealousy out of my mind and heart, and the past 2 nights I had dreams of her and this guy having an affair. So I think that was God's way to tell me to look a little closer. I am sorry I did, but at the same time, I would have been jealous and wondering "what if" all the time, which would have eventually pushed her away.

Sorry for the rant, I needed to get this off my chest. Thoughts?

Short story, in Dec I had to tell my wife of an affair I had 4 yrs ago. it nearly tore us apart, but thanks to counseling, and a lot of hard work, we have stayed together. Things have been good actually, but lately I have noticed her being more flirtatious with a guy at work. We are friends with this couple, and she said she woul dnever do anything with him, but they text a lot, and email a lot.

Do I have a rigth to be jealous or even consider telling her to stop? I just feel that I am doing all this hard work to prove to her that I made a mistake, and she is doing exactly what I did 4 yrs ago that started my affair. I am scared and worried I may be losing her.

At least now I know somewhat the way she felt. it is tearing me up inside to think she texts him a lot. I know she finds him attractive, she admitted it, but she is good friends with his wife also. Do I even have a right to be jealous after what i did to her??? I love my wife very much and I made a huge stupid mistake that I am now paying for.

* Please don't judge me on what I did, it was a huge mistake and we are working through it. *

A neighbor recently got scammed on craigslist, and I warned him. However, I have actually sold a few things on there and had good luck.

Anyone else use craigslist and have luck?

Also, I noticed a lot of casual encounter ads, of people looking to hook up. I viewed a few, and they seem to be call girl services. Has anyone ever used CL to find love/date?

I have an original 30GB Zune. I actually love it, the sound is great and the navigation is easy.

I also have an iPhone and love that too. I have noticed the Zune seems to have better sound quality.

I know the Zune is way behind the iPod in the popularity race, but I was wondering what other people think?

Do you own a Zune? What do you like.dislike?

Do you own an iPod.iPhone? What do you like/dislike?

He will go #1, but refuses to go #2. Asks for a pull-up every time he has to go #2. We have tried for months but he wont go.