Stuart

So I've been going out with this girl for 9 months now and have never felt the same way about anyone else. I've never said 'I love you' before so I'm a little nervous.

How do I go about telling her?

I was dating this girl and she ended it a few days ago because she said she was confused. We've talked since and she said she would go out with me but in her past 2 relationships she has been hurt and so wary of getting into another, which I totally understand. Before these two relationships she was in a long term one for about 3 years and had her life planned out but then they finished and now she doesn't know what's going on. How do I help her find herself emotionally? Even if it means I don't end up with her I just want her to be happy.

I've heard so many couples tell me about all the fights they've had over silly and petty little things but yet they love each other and claim it's just part of a healthy relationship.

My friend had a fight with his girlfriend because she forgot to get him sauce (ketchup) on his chips (fries) and he reduced her to tears. How is this love?

Of course there is the argument that if you love each other you will get by the fights and come out stronger! Fair enough, if it was for something serious, but the majority of fights occur over little things

Is it fate that you meet your significant other or do you think you can fall in love with almost anyone.

Before been able to vote do you think you should need to be of a certain level of intelligence ,such as a certain amount of qualifications at secondary/high school, before you are eligible to vote.

In the UK you are not permitted to vote if you are Under 18, mentally incapacitated and drunk at the polling station. Clearly this is because in these circumstances you are highly likely to make unintelligent decisions.

Surely a person with no qualifications are just as likely to make unintelligent decisions so what gives them the right to vote but not a person under 18 the right to vote?

You also can't vote if you are in jail but this is not linked to intelligent decision making so I omitted this.

So here's the thing...I'm seeing this girl just now and I'm pretty sure we will be going out soon (in a relationship), but I'm not attracted to her emotionally, I feel no connection between the two of us but I think she really likes me. I'm not just using her for sex as I'm not like that, we get on well together and have similar interests. I also really like a girl from my uni class but I don't see her over the summer and I'm not sure if I should pursue her as I'm getting mixed feelings in regards to whether she likes me as well. It kind of feels that I would be going out with this girl just to fill in time which I don't feel comfortable with as I'm generally a nice guy.

How wrong do you think this is?

Should I not go out with her?

Should I give it a chance? Maybe I will eventually become attracted to her emotionally...

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This question is for Americans and Brits and is not meant to incur hostilities. I'm not trying to offend Americans or their country or imply that us Brits are push overs.

I want peoples views on the current state of the relationship and opinions on how to build a new, more balanced approach to the alliance between our two countries.

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...Goliath - It's what I'm thinking about calling my penis. Do you think it might come across as too 'cocky'?

The inherent vice of capitalism is the unequal sharing of blessings; the inherent virtue of socialism is the equal sharing of miseries. - Winston Churchill

I'm going on a cruise in two days and I'm hoping to get some action and decided to shave everything off down there and now it looks like that naked mole rat out of Kim Possible. I would like some girls perspective on this. Should I have left it alone or maybe just trimmed it?

One of the main reasons I did it was because someone said it makes it look bigger and Dayuum it sure does.

I'm really sorry :(

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-10 been far Left to 10 been far Right. Where do you guys sit? Maybe you have a left wing approach to the environment but a right wing approach to the economy, if so can you state this as well.

It will also be helpful if you can state your country, and if you're in the USA whether you are in a Northern or Southern state.

Here in the UK most people are either centre left or centre right but judging by American posters on Y!A a lot of people in the USA seem to be really liberal or really right wing.

Can anyone tell me if my observation is correct?

I am waiting on 4 results and think there's a possibility I may have failed at least 1, maybe 2. I have never failed anything in my life and I'm unsure how to cope with it. I get to resit the ones I fail but I think all my motivation will have disappeared. Has anyone who has been in a similar situation got any advice and how they coped with the pressure. Makes it worse knowing that if you fail the resit you get kicked out.

I'm going a cruise on the summer and I shall be wearing my Kilt, was wondering whether American (or other nationalities) find it sexy. Would you be attracted to a guy in a kilt with a manly Scottish accent?

Well I'm thinking about getting my right nipple pierced and wanted some opinions from girls as to whether they find it sexy, if you don't like it or if it doesn't really bother you!

UK is made up of Scotland, England, Northern Ireland & Wales as well as some islands. Is there a collective name for the people of the UK taking into consideration that Northern Ireland isn't part of Britain so technically they can't be called British.

So there's this girl I work with, I'm attracted to her and I'm pretty sure she is attracted to me also.

Anyone had any experiences with having flings at work? If so how did you go about this?

Right so basically how do I distinguish whether she likes me as a friend or if she has feelings for me. I'm usually quite good at this kind of things when it comes to others and normally when it's myself as well but I really like this girl so my perceptions get skewed and distorted if you know what I mean.

We are already friends so stuff like "If she's always near you or you see her looking at you" isn't really a sign since we hang about with each other most days.

Any tips on what to do/say/text to her will also be mega helpful :D