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I wrote to him that instead of just fantasizing about sex with him which i do twice a day on busy days

(10 months online 'romantic 'penpals' daily contact)

i let myself fantasize about actually meeting him.

I said since we've exchanged so many intimate moments/photos, it would not be awkward meeting because we were already so close.

i said

"to that end, send more pics" (and i described xxx things for pics)

he wrote back this, sending two cool photos and a third photo of some funny thing he did:

"Its sweet that you have fantasies, kinda flattered really as long as you dont go wonky on

me its cool. As for pics, you'll have to take these instead until my trip next week."

what does he mean? i bet he doesn't mean don't become detail oriented, but what does he mean by wonky lol and why say 'its cool'??? that i have fantasies about him.

His actions seem to be hinting at meeting, but his words seem to be saying 'oh aren't you a cute little thing, you have fantasties, let me pat you on the head.' altho, he uses sweet to mean excellent, whereas i would use sweet to mean nice.

so, is he, after 10 months of daily (except when he's got business trips) chatting and other online contact (he lives a day away by car)

saying - keep your distance? or is he saying - i'm coming closer to you, i think we will meet.

i asked him what he meant and he didn't answer lol...

I wrote to him that instead of just fantasizing about sex with him which i do twice a day on busy days

(10 months online 'romantic 'penpals' daily contact)

i let myself fantasize about actually meeting him. I said since we've exchanged so many intimate moments/photos, it would not be awkward meeting because we were already so close. i said

"to that end, send more pics" (and i described xxx things for pics)

he wrote back this, sending two cool photos and a third photo of some funny thing he did:

"Its sweet that you have fantasies, kinda flattered really as long as you dont go wonky on

me its cool. As for pics, you'll have to take these instead."

what does he mean? i bet he doesn't mean don't become detail oriented, but what does he mean lol and why say 'its cool'???

I wrote to him that instead of just fantasizing about sex with him which i do twice a day on busy days

(10 months online 'romantic 'penpals' daily contact)

i let myself fantasize about actually meeting him. I said since we've exchanged so many intimate moments/photos, it would not be awkward meeting because we were already so close. i said

"to that end, send more pics" (and i described xxx things for pics)

he wrote back this, sending two cool photos and a third photo of some funny thing he did:

"Its sweet that you have fantasies, kinda flattered really as long as you dont go wonky on

me its cool. As for pics, you'll have to take these instead."

what does he mean? i bet he doesn't mean don't become detail oriented, but what does he mean lol and why say 'its cool'???

Thanks so much.

I have been having trouble getting ready to move. I'm going from a 5000 square feet to a 1600 sq feet house.

Movers coming tomorrow! Little is done. I am trying to have the movers take only the furniture, and move the books, clothes, nic nacs, paintings, utensils myself in my car. This stuff does not have to go tomorrow.

House a mess, clutter everywhere... I have 24 hours. Tell me how you'd use them, what you'd do! Thanks so much....

Hello, I have a young penpal of more than a year's duration. He is a sweet, good boy, but very poor. As a surprise, I want to send him some money for his upcoming religious ceremony.

What is the best way to send money? Is it safe to just exchange cash for euros and tuck the euros into a card? I am doubting this, but hoping it!

If not, what is the best way? Thank you for your help. I am eager to give his family this nice surprise.

I'm crying b/c for 6 months, I had a very exciting relationship with someone else - nothing physical at all - but talk, chat, email, phone calls, sexy talk, talk of dreams, hopes, futures, families, etc

A month ago, he finally admitted he had a long term relationship with someone else and that his relationship with me was destroying it.

I was hoping to leave my husband for this other man. Regardless of how stupid this may have been (lots of good things have come out of my secret relationship - i am (was) happier, more confident and outgoing, more assertive, much less willing to tolerate crap - which I tolerated way too much of in my marriage and from my mother. I've lost 50 pounds....

lost the man I wanted; my kids and husband want me to stay. I've never told my husband about this other guy and don't think doing so would be good. Husb and I hv 25 yrs together. Rebuilding not first choice, want other man, can't have him. How do I rebuild intimacy when I can't say why I'm so sad.

Married 24 years. Lots of verbal and emotional abuse. Husband now medicated and wants to do better. He is doing better. But, feelings have died in wife.

Wife wants out. Is it wrong? She'll be 56 when youngest is 18. Can she have good life now or too damaging to kids?

Or, is it possible to regain love feelings when husband tries? So far, nothing. Just a desire for him to stop trying and leave her alone.

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i'm a mom, sit in bed with my arm around my son while I read him bed time stories. got feedback today that i should only read to him from a chair, not sit in bed with him. This sounds very strange to me. What do you think?

The party starts at 9:30 am so that's a little mind-boggling - it's for a homeschool theatre troupe's final day this session.

I have ground beef, chicken breasts, eggs, cherries, strawberries, bananas, a pineapple, 4 avocados, potatoes, mushrooms, lots of noodles, popcorn, chocolate chips, flour, oatmeal, cream...

Best idea - preferably something I can cook all night in crock pot, as I need to live the house with this in 9 hours, and I haven't slept yet.

Thanks so much!

Does he made pronouncements on sexual behavior and on dietary matters? Are these pronouncements law?

I do not know the answer to these questions and I am not trying to make a point. I am seeking information. Thank you very much.

Peace to everyone.

4 Guests coming in on Iberia Air, from Madrid to Dulles, arriving 4pm. Assuming I don't want to keep them waiting, and balance that with I have more to do to get ready for them than can be done in the time available, when do you think I should get there?

Do you have personal experience with going through customs or picking up guests from there?

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There is a county beach park there. Can one bring the dog there? If not there, somewhere very close by?

Thanks so much. I hate to leave her home.

Into the Calvert County beach area? If not there, somewhere very near there?

wo months ago, our tenants $1531/mo voucher covered the 1300/mo payment. Now, her voucher has fallen to 1431 and our mortgage has climbed to 1900. No one will refinance us.

We assume we must try to sell this house ASAP (hard in this market) but we are heartbroken to tell this tenant of 4 years that her family must move on. Is there help for us that can help her?

Two months ago, our tenants $1531/mo voucher covered the 1300/mo payment. Now, her voucher has fallen to 1431 and our mortgage has climbed to 1900. No one will refinance us.

We assume we must try to sell this house ASAP (hard in this market) but we are heartbroken to tell this tenant of 4 years that her family must move on. Is there help for us that can help her?

Our dog needs about $500/mo medicines because she got a heart infection and that led to valve damage.

Looking online, I see we can just about halve what we spend on the meds. by buying through Canada. Of course, it's critical that the drugs be what they purport to be, because she will die without the meds.

Is there a way to safely and securely buy these medications online from Canada?

Thanks for your time.

If one is selling new with tags clothing, is the pricing different from used clothing in excellent condition?

How does one price expensive items - track lighting that was $2K new or a lighting fixture that was $400 new?

Hardcover books always $2? No matter how expensive originally?

Children's toys and games? Used but in excellent condition sheet sets for twin beds?

We need to raise as much money as possible, but don't want to lose a single sale through overpricing.

I'd appreciate any tips for maximizing our return on our yard sale, which will be in our driveway as part of a neighborhood wide yard sale. Our goal is to raise money for our dog's $500/mo drug habit. (Congestive heart failure and endocarditis)

Thanks for your time and ideas.

My mom is taking our 14 year old son and his two cousins to Italy for a two week trip. They will travel from Rome to Capri and FLorence, Pisa, Milan, and Venice, and Sorrento (for Pompeii.) The schedule, including sights, hotels and restaurants are set, so I can't pass on any "must see" tips.

However, 'must brings' 'must do before hand' 'must know' 'must get this innoculation' 'must not consume this type of food/wine/ would we really helpful.

I'd like to help him pack well enough, so my son has little to carry, but enough to wear to a nice rest/cathedral and for walking/touring.

Thanks so much for any information you have to share!