Ariel G

They've just started showing an english dub of Blue Exorcist online only. Has anyone heard that there is going to be an English dub DVD coming out?

My husband has become my roommate and I don’t know what to do.

After my children were born, I had a very difficult time getting my husband back to being interested in me. I tried fixing everything he said was the reason he wasn’t touching me anymore, but finally realized that whatever was wrong wasn’t in me, it was in him, but he had no interest treating whatever the problem was. Recently I asked him if he was ever going to have sex with me again and he said ‘probably not’.

He’s not mean. We get along like roommates, but spending the rest of my life with someone who’s not interested in a relationship with me is not what I want. Lately I’ve been watching him drift further and further away, spending more time on trips alone (I think) and in his home office and less time interacting with me and the kids. I don’t know if he’s got a new relationship going – really we’ve grown that far apart - and frankly, I don’t care. But I would like to get on with my life and he seems content with the current arrangement.

I’m not young anymore and I’ve got two kids. I might be able to find someone else, but not living with a roommate who used to be my husband. Even if I never do find someone else, I’d prefer taking care of my own house, not his. Why should I give him free the housekeeping services, food preparing and childrearing duties that he’d have to pay someone else for? At least if we were in a real marriage, I’d be getting some affection for my troubles.

I’m not in an economical position to pay for the house I live in now on just my income and if I leave, my understanding is I risk losing my children and my stake in the house. I definitely want the children. If I wait till the children are old enough to leave, I’ll be in my late 50’s and assume my chances of finding companionship then will be even slimmer. The ideal would be for him to leave now, but it was his house initially and his is the only name on the deed. We’ve openly discussed this problem but his first response is puzzlement, because he thinks he’s providing his share of the finances and childcare and I should be satisfied with that, and his second is that he’ll think about it. Unfortunately, though he might think about it, he never seems to act.

He tries to make me feel like I should be satisfied with the arrangement he’s made, that I am being selfish expecting love, or sex, from him too. I don’t think I am asking too much, but is me trying to find love or at least a place of my own and getting on with my life while I’m still relatively young worth disrupting this ‘family’?

In Limbo in PA

I set up an unpaid yahoo account so that my son could have email and talk to his friends and relatives. I'd like to be able to set his account info and make sure he is restricted on what he can see and not see when online. Since I had to set his account up in the first place, where can I go to monitor it? Yahoo is an awfully big place!

I don't know what has been going on with Yahoo lately, but I've been having trouble with my Contacts list in Messenger. I was doing a bit of contact list cleanup in my Yahoo mail account, adding contacts to groups, deleting some old ones and a few days later, about 5 people disappeared off my contacts list in Messenger. I know the two systems are connected, but these people were still in my mail contacts. It was as if I had deleted them off the Messenger list - but I hadn't. Now today, someone I didn't know showed up on my Messenger list. I had received no request to add him and he was not in my Mail contact list, but there he was on my Messenger contacts list as if I'd approved him - but I hadn't. I've got McAfee and it's automatically updated and I've scanned my computer for viruses after every incident. Though I found a few things on the first scan, I've not found any since.

Has anyone else had this kind of problem with Messenger? What is going on?

OK - again it seems that there is something funky going on with Yahoo's exchange server. It keeps refusing to let Outlook have access to my emails, though I can get at them through the web browser fine and all the settings in outlook and in Yahoo are correct. This has happened before and it turned out to be a technical glitch that Yahoo did end up fixing after a while, though it was a pain while it was going on.

The problem I see is, there doesn't seem to be anyone at YAHOO I can tell about these things! All of these 'Answers' sites and the self help places are other users - not anyone from Yahoo itself. Other users can be very knowledgeable, but they aren't going to know when a software malfunction is scheduled to be fixed! Can anyone tell me if there is a place to report problems to Yahoo itself? Or a bulletin board where they post service interruption info? I feel like I am trying to get answers out of some nameless, faceless machine, not a company of human beings.

All of the sudden, my Outlook is unable to log into Yahoo's incoming mail server. I've checked the passwords and everything is set correctly, I am paid up on my premium services, and I am set up correctly via my ISP. The problem seems to be on Yahoo's end. It's not letting my Outlook program interface with it. Is this a known error?