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I don't get it. How are you guys not affected by gravity? I don't care how hard you wedgie yourselves, how does it not swing down?

I've seen many variations on this question from both men and women, but the answers tend to be from those of us who have no clue.

I'm interested to hear from either men OR women who went through a prolonged period of not wanting sex with their partner who now have an active sex life with them. What changed? What did you do? What did your partner do? The rest of us don't know. I see women telling men with low drive partners to do more housework - but that's not going to stoke a low libido woman. I see men suggesting lingerie and bjs to frustrated wives, and sure, that would work on ME but probably won't help with a husband who has a low drive. The only people who can answer are people who've been on that low drive side.

So , help the rest of us understand, and if you've overcome it, we're all ears on what might work!

I'm once again trying to commit myself to doing kegels. One challenge I find with them is that while I can easily tighten the required muscles, I find it almost impossible to do without also tightening my abdominal muscles. Not a good habit - for one thing, some applications of kegels call for relaxed deep breathing at the same time.

Has anyone else had this issue and found any good tips for working past it?

Thanks.