Grace - baby No.2 due in October

as the header states - I am wondering how I can become FENSA registered for my husbands business - I have visited FENSA's website but cannot find any information there.

Thanks

I have heard that some shops give you gifts if your waters break or your in labor when in their shop - is this true and does anyone know what shop and what they offer?!?! I am thinking of camping out in one!! LOL!!

Hi there - you normally get in the post the V11 form which you take with you to the post office to renew your car road tax - or you can go online with it - mine has been misplaced/lost - what do I do?? how do I get another V11 form at such short notice?

Thanks for your help!

Grace

Hi there - am 27 weeks pregnant and any of you that have been pregnant before or are pregnant now will know that for some reason you will worry about anything - this thought suddenly came to my mind and since then I haven't stopped thinking about it. Can my baby get tangled up in his umbilical cord and possibly strangle himself?? is that at all possible?? I mean surely babies move around in your womb and you hear of them having the cord round their necks when they are born so why not whilst they are in there??

I know its very very silly that I am asking - but no amount of searching on internet or Miriam Stoppard books has answered my paranoid question!!

Thanks

xxx

Hi there - wondering if anyone else has received an unsolicited book in the post (in this case mine is The Tales of Peter Rabbit) with an invoice for £1.50 - a measly amount I know!! and a letter saying I must send £1.50 for the cost of posting the book or send it back and pay for it myself! there is no telephone number to contact on this "invoice" and it threatens legal action should I not pay in 7 days!!!! This is ridiculous - the only thing I have filled in as of late is my pregnancy Bounty pack which they must have had my details from - I did not request a Peter Rabbit book, not really a fan!

Anyone else had this??

I have a feeling its a scam and if I send the book back its like signing a contract and if I don't they will keep pestering me!!

They will no doubt start sending me a book a month or something and making all kinds of charges - seen this happen to my brother with a music club before!

somene tell me what I should do!!

boring question I know and am sorry!!

x

I had an operation in October - on my lower region - I have recently over the last few months lost my sex drive completely - missed my last 2 periods & feel generally tired & down, I've been thinking I need to change my pill - there is no reason as to why I should have thought I was pregnant since I have missed NO pills. so I am going to the Docs tomorrow - just to change my pill, ask her why I have no sex drive and am tired etc - thinking also it has something to do with the operation

I took a test today TO PROVE I WASN'T pregnant - knowing that would be the 1st question she would ask!

I AM BLOODY PREGNANT!!! sh*t bu*gger Fu*k!!!

I have been going to the gym to shift excess weight!!! I have been smoking like I usually do (about 12 a day) I have obvisoulsy been taking my pill like normal, I have taken a couple of painkillers for back pain, I have used a tens machine for my back pain

have I harmed my baby??

Please answer nicely! I am unfit state to be abused!!!

For instance - I was watching Gladiator last night and when Maximus is requested to remove his head gear by Commodus and to say who is Maximus says

"My name is Maximus Decimus Meridius, commander of the Armies of the North, General of the Felix Legions, loyal servant to the true emperor, Marcus Aurelius. Father to a murdered son, husband to a murdered wife. And I will have my vengeance, in this life or the next."

and I love Meet Joe Black when Anthony Hopkins talks about love

"I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived

What film, what quote and why please!!

xxx

Star!!

This bloke I know and am extremely fond of has found his niche in life - he has started a website - its absolutely brilliant and at the moment is only visited by friends and family!

Could you please please take a look and tell me what you think of it!

good and bad comments please - I just want to know if his sites as brilliant as I think it is. Many of us who visit now think he could have a real cult following and he could even get a bit of a fan club - maybe write a book one day?

Make sure you read "recent news and updates" also look at Pet Profiles, thats brilliant and really gives you an insight! Oh and place your name on his guestbook if you think his site is good - no swearing please - his kids read it daily

http://www.freewebs.com/wellcottage...

Thanks for your input - its appreciated!

Grace x

This bloke I know and am extremely fond of has found his niche in life - he has started a website - its absolutely brilliant and at the moment is only visited by friends and family!

Could you please please take a look and tell me what you think of it!

good and bad comments please - I just want to know if his sites as brilliant as I think it is. Many of us who visit now think he could have a real cult following and he could even get a bit of a fan club - maybe write a book one day?

Make sure you read "recent news and updates" also look at Pet Profiles, thats brilliant and really gives you an insight! Oh and place your name on his guestbook if you think his site is good - no swearing please - his kids read it daily

http://www.freewebs.com/wellcottagefamily

Thanks for your input - its appreciated!

Grace x

This bloke I know and am extremely fond of has found his niche in life - he has started a website - its absolutely brilliant and at the moment is only visited by friends and family!

Could you please please take a look and tell me what you think of it!

good and bad comments please - I just want to know if his sites as brilliant as I think it is. Many of us who visit now think he could have a real cult following and he could even get a bit of a fan club - maybe write a book one day?

Make sure you read "recent news and updates" also look at Pet Profiles, thats brilliant and really gives you an insight! Oh and place your name on his guestbook if you think his site is good - no swearing please - his kids read it daily

Thanks for your input - its appreciated!

Grace x

This bloke I know and am extremely fond of has found his niche in life - he has started a website - its absolutely brilliant and at the moment is only visited by friends and family!

Could you please please take a look and tell me what you think of it!

good and bad comments please - I just want to know if his sites as brilliant as I think it is. Many of us who visit now think he could have a real cult following and he could even get a bit of a fan club - maybe write a book one day?

Make sure you read "recent news and updates" also look at Pet Profiles, thats brilliant and really gives you an insight! Oh and place your name on his guestbook if you think his site is good - no swearing please - his kids read it daily

Thanks for your input - its appreciated!

Grace x

star!!

This bloke I know and am extremely fond of has found his niche in life - he has started a website - its absolutely brilliant and at the moment is only visited by friends and family!

Could you please please take a look and tell me what you think of it!

good and bad comments please - I just want to know if his sites as brilliant as I think it is. Many of us who visit now think he could have a real cult following and he could even get a bit of a fan club - maybe write a book one day?

Make sure you read "recent news and updates" also look at Pet Profiles, thats brilliant and really gives you an insight! Oh and place your name on his guestbook if you think his site is good - no swearing please - his kids read it daily

Thanks for your input - its appreciated!

Grace x

Ok, its quite a long one!!

My step daughter is 3 - she has been up to now a well balanced wonderful child and my partner and I have never had a problem with her! don't worry - I am not a pushy mother and expect her to be perfect, I understand she will have bad days - but we have a serious issue!

My partner and his ex split - we are all friends now - we talk openly, we share thoughts and ideas, we do really well for a broken up family. My 3 year old step daughter was giving her dummy (dodi, pacifier) up for christmas, giving it to Santa in return for toys!!! well Daddy and me stuck to it only mummy and EVERYONE else still gave it to her!! since then she has not wanted to come and stay at ours, she has absolute hysterics when she realises she is staying and when asked she will admit its because she wants the dummy and mummy gives it to her! her mummy however believes her daughter is going through a very "needy mummy" stage and its not the dummy!! last week we had to drop the...TBC!

Its driving me crazy!!! I just can't figure how to open them at all!! I have started collecting EVERY star coin I can in each level to see if that helps!! there must be a way!! HELP ME PLEASE!!

Thanks

xxx

know its common , its as easy to as your abc and 123, I know many women who HATE their mother in law - I always said I wouldn't - always said I would be fair and nice because she brought up the man I love, but I can't help it - the hate has crept in I can't stand the woman and at times would gladly have her put down!!

even the smallest things she does incense me - like how she loves it if my fella has a hole in his work jeans, she tuts at me and makes him take them off so she can patch them????!! he has 50 pairs of jeans at home that he doesn't wear and could wear for work but she makes me feel like I am a bad woman for not sewing them for him!! I would if he wanted me to though!! she does plenty more than just that but you'd think I was mad if I started!!!!

so come on guys make me feel better and tell me ALL about your monster in law and what she does that pis*ses you off the most!!! The most cringeworthy answer gets the points - the one that makes me feel better off!!!

know its common , its as easy to as your abc and 123, I know many women who HATE their mother in law - I always said I wouldn't - always said I would be fair and nice because she brought up the man I love, but I can't help it - the hate has crept in I can't stand the woman and at times would gladly have her put down!!

even the smallest things she does incense me - like how she loves it if my fella has a hole in his work jeans, she tuts at me and makes him take them off so she can patch them????!! he has 50 pairs of jeans at home that he doesn't wear and could wear for work but she makes me feel like I am a bad woman for not sewing them for him!! I would if he wanted me to though!! she does plenty more than just that but you'd think I was mad if I started!!!!

so come on guys make me feel better and tell me ALL about your monster in law and what she does that pis*ses you off the most!!! The most cringeworthy answer gets the points - the one that makes me feel better off!!!

I know its common , its as easy to as your abc and 123, I know many women who HATE their mother in law - I always said I wouldn't - always said I would be fair and nice because she brought up the man I love, but I can't help it - the hate has crept in I can't stand the woman and at times would gladly have her put down!!

even the smallest things she does incense me - like how she loves it if my fella has a hole in his work jeans, she tuts at me and makes him take them off so she can patch them????!! he has 50 pairs of jeans at home that he doesn't wear and could wear for work but she makes me feel like I am a bad woman for not sewing them for him!! I would if he wanted me to though!! she does plenty more than just that but you'd think I was mad if I started!!!!

so come on guys make me feel better and tell me ALL about your monster in law and what she does that pis*ses you off the most!!! The most cringeworthy answer gets the points - the one that makes me feel better off!!!

ok! I know the chances of becoming pregnant decrease as you get older - but I am only 27 - my partner is 31 - I have been pregnant before when I was 21 and had a termination - so I know I am able to conceive, my partner has a child from a previous relationship so we know he can conceive too (although how long it took his ex to conceive is unknown to me) I have now been off the pill for a year - although we are not actively "trying" we are just letting nature take its course - we do have sex regularly and I know (well did know!!) when my most fertile days are. but no sign of a baby yet. my periods WERE great and on time but have now decided to come 5 weeks or 6 weeks or 3 weeks or 2 weeks apart over the last 3 months - they have been random!! I have had an operation to remove CIN III cancerous cells in October. Am I doing something wrong?? should I actually TRY for a baby instead of just letting nature take its own time??

highly emotional, I feel like I could cry at anything and argue with anything - my PMT is really badly heightened - much worse than it was when I was on the pill!! I have worse period pains - I feel like I have put on tons of weight ! I have gone off sex (not loads but I am not as up for it as I used to be!!) I am very touchy and argumentative - does anyone else have these symptons when they come off the pill??? I thought having a break was good for you - but I think the pill agrees with me much better!!

I don't drink - strange I know - I haven't done for years - I have the odd shandy thats about it - however my fella does drink - which is normal of course!! I wonder though if his drinking intake is over the top and if he maybe needs to cut down. with not been a drinker myself I feel I am probably not the right person to judge as just 1 bottle of wine in one evening appears excessive to me!

so this weekend - and this is generally the norm - sometimes he drinks more wine than I am about to outline!!

please bear in mind he never has any tea if he is drinking, so what he does drink has more of an effect and he normally starts at 5 ish in the afternoon!!

Thursday - he drank 9 pints of lager and 1 bottle of red wine

Friday - he drank 10 pints of lager, 1 pint of cider and 1 bottle of red wine

Saturday - he drank 10 pints of lager and 2 bottles of red wine

Sunday - he drank 7 pints of lager and 1 bottle of red wine

Totals

5 bottles of red

37 pints

over 4 days