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I've read a lot about it, and I know that it isn't me and it's common in relationships for a variety of reasons, but it's killing the relationship for me.

The fact that I am a very sexual female that is in love with my boyfriend and wants to share intimate times makes it difficult when his sex drive is so low and talking about it only makes it worse...initiating more makes it worse on me because chances of getting turned down are pretty high. and mainly I want to feel desired by him. Also, because of this I am becoming less sexually attracted to him....a double negative IMO. but regardless it's happening, i'm becoming less interested in sex because of his loss in sex....UGH.

He loves to cuddle, hold me, kisses all the time however intense making out is rare. He is 28, I am 24. He works from home so I can't ever even 'take care of myself' to make me less cranky. because yes, not getting sex makes me cranky. ohhh and no joke, my roommate is ******* her bf right now as we speak and mine is laying in bed sleeping still and has had sex with me a total of 4-5 times this month.

FML

he's supposed to be coming home in a couple weeks, and he was telling me about how he was having a friend and his gf come to stay with him and go snowboarding...i talked to him tonight because his friends came into town and now it went from being his friend and his gf to his friend, his gf, and his gf sister....??? i'm sorry but that is just annoying...insight?

i wonder if talking to exe's is an attempt to keep them as a back up plan or is it most of the time just innocent keeping in touch?

with the girl he was dating right before me 'on occasion when she hit's him up'....we have currently been in a long distance relationship for 3 months and together for approximately 6 all together. he is coming home next week for good and we very are serious.

however, i didn't realize that he still chatted with this girl on aim and fb. i have obv seen her on his fb when she comments on stuff or whatever, but i wasn't under the impression that he maintained convo's with these girls prior to me.

he told me he loves me months ago and continues to tell me almost everyday including the reasons why and that he wants he's 'in love' with me...etc. I do feel he is genuine and i love him the same right back.

however, honestly...ladies and men...with this social networking on the rise...and the opportunity to "chat" on fb, and aim and all of the other different ways to keep in contact with previous flings/ exe's.....what is appropriate in a relationship?? in your opinions??

honestly, i think that if i knew that SHE was completely over him...it wouldn't bother me a bit. but the fact that she still wishes she could be with him/ is jealous of our relationship makes me wonder what is beneficial about maintaining any sort of relationship..

please your thoughts.

and no i am not super insecure or jealous...but do feel threatened on occasion.

i am not asking for a pitty party..but these are just the facts. and i don't know how to move past my problems

absent father from birth...never tried to know me or be a part of my life.

molested at 5

always been on guard in relationships and pretty jealous and nervous about a guy leaving me for another woman. at the same time though. I am very secure with myself...so it's definitely a battle that goes on in my own head.

current boyfriend...been with him for approximately 6 months. prior to becoming official he screwed his exgf...but was honest about it. however, it still continues to haunt me.

also, he has lived in the same town that i moved to recently his entire life and i know way too much about his sex life with woman and facebook only makes it worse.

currently my lack of trust for men, and just the situation in general has us really in a bad place.

anybody have some good advice. please?

at a jewelery store....and then asked "is there anything you would want in particular?"....I didn't really say much, because I didn't want to be like....sure, how bout a ring for my left hand. LOL, but do you think he could be thinking that????

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months, and after a couple of months due to some family issues, he had to leave for a couple months to stay with his mother. before he left, he told me he loved me, and basically that he wanted to be serious. Now, a lot of our relationship is on instant messenger, a little on the phone, and a little skype. I used to sort of mind in the beginning, but not anymore. It's nice to communicate online and it's been working really well for us.

Everything is great, sometimes he says "i love you" or "adios mi amor" or "<3" and stuff like that. And he definitely has said I love you a few times, and I always say it back, because I mean it.

Well...for the very first time today, I said "love you" FIRST...normally it is always him saying it, but I always say it back obviously. This time, I said it first, and he said "muah, kisses," and a couple other little cute stuff that we say back and forth sometimes.

I know i shouldn't really let it bother me....but it does

ANy thoughts?????????

So here is the entire story:

Went of the pill in May 2009 and haven't had a period since.

Been having unprotected/pull out method with my boyfriend since beginning of July until recently when he has left out of town for a couple of months.

Last sexual intercourse was on September 9th 2009.

Very light brown spotting/discharge for two days on Sept 4th and 5th along with severe migraine pain.

Taken several urine tests and one hcg test the last urine test being on Sept 14th which came back negative.

For the past 4-5 days I have been experiences breat tenderness, loss of appetite, slight dull pains and stringy brownish discharge that comes and goes and is extremely light.

It has been 3 weeks since my last pregnancy test that came back negative. I go to the OBGYN on Thursday to see what is going on because I haven't had a period since May!

I have read that this discharge/spotting can be a sign of pregnancy. Any advice or does it sound like I could be pregnant?

So here is the entire story:

Went of the pill in May 2009 and haven't had a period since.

Been having unprotected/pull out method with my boyfriend since beginning of July until recently when he has left out of town for a couple of months.

Last sexual intercourse was on September 9th 2009.

Very light brown spotting/discharge for two days on Sept 4th and 5th along with severe migraine pain.

Taken several urine tests and one hcg test the last urine test being on Sept 14th which came back negative.

For the past 4-5 days I have been experiences breat tenderness, loss of appetite, slight dull pains and stringy brownish discharge that comes and goes and is extremely light.

It has been 3 weeks since my last pregnancy test that came back negative. I go to the OBGYN on Thursday to see what is going on because I haven't had a period since May!

I have read that this discharge/spotting can be a sign of pregnancy. Any advice or does it sound like I could be pregnant?

I am trying to fly to vermont from san diego and would like to do so standby. But from what i hear, not a lot of airlines give you the discounted ticket price flying standby. They will simply sell it to you at regular price

does anybody have any information about this?

Or maybe it wasn't implantation bleeding at all? Or maybe it was a miscarriage. The spotting was very very light, not even enough for a panty liner...just when I wiped for approximately 2 days on the 4th and the 5th of this month. Took a preg test today and negative still....Any advice or has anybody else experienced neg preg test even after they should be able to tell?

Here is the full story...Been off of b.c. for approximately 4 months which is the LAST time I had a period. My boyfriend and I have been using the pull out method which I understand is not smart considering we aren't necessarily planning a pregnancy...

That being said however, I have been feeling nausea, headache's, back ache's, loss of appetite, bloating, fatigue, and then insomnia other times, my boobs are not tender, but swollen, and I just feel like something is off...I have also been getting these overwhelming sensations through my body that I can really explain.

In addition, on the fourth and the fifth of this month I had 2 days of very very very light spotting of light pink and then darker brown discharge. I have read that this a lot of times can be considered Implantation Bleeding...

However...I took a blood test yesterday the tenth, approximately 5 days after the light spotting and it came back negative...

Any advice...?? What could be wrong with me if i'm not pregnant when I FEEL PREGO?

Haven't had my period for 3 1/2 months.. having unprotected sex, however he does pull out which i know isn't very affective....Started to spot yesterday...only when I wipe though, light light pink to sort of a brownish...Any advice?

Ok...here are the facts.

#1--Went of B.C. approximately 3-4 months ago, last remembered period was sometime in Mar

#2--Have been having unprotected sex for approximately 2 months, only using the pull out method with my boyfriend.

#3--Yesterday, started with light pink spotting only when I wiped and turned to a little brownish color and continued slightly into today. Slight cramping, headache, bloated feeling, just not normal feeling.

#4-- Had a crazy headache/migraine today that sent me over the edge and made me sleep forever. But still a little dull headache. Boobs aren't very tender, but could be slightly swollen, however they are large anyways. As far as my appetite, I am actually less hungry for food due to nausea or pure lack of interest. Also, I took a pregnancy test approximately 1 week ago and the result was negative.

Any advice???

It's been three years, we have had our arguments for various reasons in the past, have gotten to a really good place. I feel like I know I could spend the rest of my life with him and I am ready for a full commitment. We are best friends, enjoy each others company, live together, love each other, but he says he is still uncertain. He says he loves me, doest want to be without me, doesn't have a desire to date other women, but just isn't completely sure. It has been 3 years, and I understand that there is no time limit on these types of things, but how do I cope with the fact that I am ready to hear him say that he does eventualy want to marry me, but instead he says he is uncertain if I am "the one"?? Also, what the hell does "the one" mean?! He is always telling me that real life isn't about the movies and fantasy, but he acts like he wants some fairy tale himself.

I want to make it clear that I am not pressuring him and I am not hard up to get engaged or married in a specific amount of time, I just want to know that we are heading in the same direction and that he can see himself marrying me down the line. I just turned 23, and he will be 27 soon. I have had previous long term relationships, while he has never before me. I understand for him, he has nothing to compare our relationship to, but why is he with me and signing new leases with me and all of that if he doesn't want to marry me eventually. It is all very confusing. Also, we talk about getting old together, having babies someday etc...but yet he is uncertain? I asked him what uncertain means, and he doesn't know....I mean come on!? Somebody decode his manswer for me.

Please any advice as to what I should do? I feel like his uncertainty makes me want to give up, and move on....but I do feel like he is the one that I want to marry, have kids and a great life. Why else does he think that I have dated him for 3 years.

Also a little more insight to the situation, I want you to know that the only reason this got stirred up was because my parents were just recently in town and my little sister who is 6 just randomly asked him if he was going to marry me. I swear...I didn't prompt her anything...then my dad was like...."yea, when are you guys getting hitched...".....my boyfriend didn't say anything to them, later when we were driving home, I questioned him about it...and here we are.

Also, he works a new crazy schedule so I haven't even really seen him since the convo and now I am just backing off from the relationshpi and trying to do my own thing.

It's been three years, we have had are arguments for various reasons, but I feel like I know I could spend the rest of my life with him and I al ready for a full commitment. We are best friends, enjoy each others company, live together, love each other, but he says he is still uncertain. He says he loves me, doest want to be without me, doesn't have a desire to date other women, but just isn't completely sure. It has been 3 years, and I understand that there is no time limit on these types of things, but how do I cope with the fact that I am ready to hear him say that he does eventualy want to marry me, but instead he says he I uncertain if I am the one?? I am not hard up to get engaged or married in a specific amount of time, I just want to know that we are heading in the same direction and that he can see himself marrying me down the line. I just turned 23, and he will be 27 soon. I have had previous long term relationships, while he has never before me. Please any advice as to what I should do? I feel like his uncertainty makes me want to give up!

It's been three years, we have had are arguments for various reasons, but I feel like I know I could spend the rest of my life with him and I al ready for a full commitment. We are best friends, enjoy each others company, live together, love each other, but he says he is still uncertain. He says he loves me, doest want to be without me, doesn't have a desire to date other women, but just isn't completely sure. It has been 3 years, and I understand that there is no time limit on these types of things, but how do I cope with the fact that I am ready to hear him say that he does eventualy want to marry me, but instead he says he I uncertain if I am the one?? I am not hard up to get engaged or married in a specific amount of time, I just want to know that we are heading in the same direction and that he can see himself marrying me down the line. I just turned 23, and he will be 27 soon. I have had previous long term relationships, while he has never before me. Please any advice as to what I should do? I feel like his uncertainty makes me want to give up!

It is ridiculous, he started doing it around 6 months and he is about a year and a half now. He doesn't do it all the time, about once to twice a month he will jump on the couch or bed and just piss. He knows he is not supposed to, and he knows he is doing something bad because he immediately puts his ears back and then runs away from me. Why does he do this and what can I do to get him to stop?!??!?!?