JVar

"If you loved me, if you ever loved me, you'll find my little girl a husband"

I have a very good friend (a relative actually, but we've always been more like friends) who is dying. I've known him my entire life. He's had cancer for several years, so as much as I had hoped he would be able to beat it, I guess I've also known for years that it was going to happen. I saw him yesterday for probably the last time. Death is always hard, but do you think it is harder when someone you love dies suddenly or when you know ahead of time that it is going to happen. I'm just curious because I'm having a hard time dealing with the idea that I've just said good-bye to him for probably the last time.

Which Grey's Anatomy character are you most like and why? I'm undecided, but curious about what others have to say.