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She pawned all the jewelries i gave her and i dont know if i should continue sending her money. But im worried she will get upset and hurt her feelings bcoz she depends to me most of the time.

I have a bf of 4yrs and younger than me of 14yrs. We came from different country and we only met in another country where we r working now. Whenever we go out it's me who always spend most of the time. I always buy him gifts to show my love to him. He did buy me once bcoz i have to ask him. On his bdays i got something for him but he never got anything for me. I try to understand him bcoz his job pays him not much(that's what he told me). He said he only came back bcoz of me and he wants me to follow him in his country where he said he got savings. But sometimes it's too hard to believe him especially when he promises me something that never happend. I tried to break up with him for so many times but he always hurts himself by knocking his head anywhere . I don't know how i feel for him anymore, my mind is so confused. Please anybody who can help me with this situation.