NikkiNTexas

My friends husband is always popping up at my house, and calling me. I have asked him to stop doing this several times but he'll only stay away for a few days then he'll show back up again! I do not answer the door, nor do I answer his calls. I have told her and my husband of these calls and visits but he still contnues no matter what anyone says to him. He knows my husband works out of town because he brother works within the same company therefore he kows what days my husband is not home. THIS GUY IS STARTING TO FREAK ME OUT! TOTALLY! Last week I told his wife and let her listen to a message from him and she just laughed and said he was only playing around. In his message he said he loves me and will do anything to be with me. I've never done so much as said "hello" to this guy! My husband is mad.. His wife is Foolishly blinded! And I'm Terrified! HELP

Lately my husband had been ignoring me ALOT. He works all the time and when he gets home he either wants to get online and play Poker (Or whatever he does online) or watch T.V. Even when he FINALLY does come to bed. We never even talk. Last night when I mention talking to him, He got upset and said he's too tired to talk. I countered with, "But you're not too tired to be online for 6 hours already!" I feel he may be having an affair or talking to someone online that he finds more interesting than myself. I need to add that this behavior continues even on his days off. Also it seems everytime we talk, He has something rude to say. Even if what is going on is cleary his mistake, I am blamed. I am secretly dying inside. I could never say anything to him for fear of him exploding. PLEASE HELP ME