sweetpea

I have been dating this guy and he stays at my house for 3-4 days without washing or showering when I ask him if he took a shower he says he did but when I walk by him he stinks so bad I could die.When he left this morning I washed all my bedding.The problem is I dont know how to tell him he stinks and sex is never Im afraid to go near him.

I had a mutual friend who passed away last week so I went to console my boyfriend only to find out he was rude to me and told his aunt on the phone he wanted me gone. He also told the mans mother who died I was someones sister not his girlfriend. So I went home the next day and never heard from him yet. What should I do am I being selfish.