Nicki P

Hi. Me and My Husband have been trying really hard since we had a miscarriage in March this year after a bad crash..

I noticed that my boobs were getting sore to touch, Then i started with the cramps & bloated feeling.I have been going to the toilet at for a one..But finding i have constipation..I have no energy. but finding it really hard to get to sleep.

I said to my husband could he check the calender to see when i'm due on.. Must to my surprise he said your late.. So of to boots we went to buy a Clear-blue test that works out how far gone you are..Left it 3 minutes, Only for us both to be shocked it came back negative..

Is there a chance i could be pregnant? And ive took the test to early even tho its said it was fine to take it then..

Please Me & my husband are devastated

All Advice would be welcome

Hi All,

Me and my Husband have been together for over 3 years..Now..I have two children from a different relationship..

We was over the moon in March this year as i found out i was pregnant..Then sadly lost our baby at 6 weeks..This has devastated us. We had some much hope because we had heard that you was more fertile after a miscarriage,,I we was hoping that we would get pregnant again...7-8 months on we haven't we have done the ovulation chart..But still nothing :(

My husband had a sperm count done..We got the results this morning which is not what we wanted to hear..He's sperm count was 7000....And normal should be 20000...

We have to leave it a couple of weeks and have another test done..

Is there anything that i can help with my husband to help his sperm count e.g special foods..I heard that making him relaxed e.g giving him a massage will help??

Can anyone tell me please what will happen.. If he has another low result?. And we will ever get pregnant.

Thank you

Hi

I was never married to my ex..Our kids were born (1999-2000) they both took my ex's surname...But we split up about 3 years ago and they have kept his surname...But earlier this year i got married and they have been asking all the time to change there surname...I have said that they have to ask there dad (which they see ever Friday)..

When they asked him he said no and they was really upset about it..I have asked my ex could we double barrel there name so they are happy...As i don't mind what surname my kids have..They know we all love them...But its really upsetting them..

i have tried to talk to my ex about it and hes said that they can't.. but when i have looked a website it says i can..Also when they get school forms asking them for there surname and preferred surname they want to put my married surname on.. Can I do it? Am i ably to change there name without my ex..The kids are 10 & 9.

Help please

Hi

I was never married to my ex..Our kids were born (1999-2000) they both took my ex's surname...But we split up about 3 years ago and they have kept his surname...But earlier this year i got married and they have been asking all the time to change there surname...I have said that they have to ask there dad (which they see ever Friday)..

When they asked him he said no and they was really upset about it..I have asked my ex could we double barrel there name so they are happy...As i don't mind what surname my kids have..They know we all love them...But its really upsetting them..

i have tried to talk to my ex about it and hes said that they can't.. but when i have looked a website it says i can..Also when they get school forms asking them for there surname and preferred surname they want to put my married surname on.. Can I do it? Am i ably to change there name without my ex..The kids are 10 & 9.

Help please

Hi..On Friday evening i broke half of my upper left wisdom tooth..I didn't and still don't have any pain...Only worry to what will have when i go to the dentist later on today...

With it being broken will my dentist be able to remove it?..Also i'm terrified of the dentist..Because for something that happened when i was a kids...the dentist i have is lovely...But does anyone know if she will sort the tooth out today or will have i to go to the hospital for sedation..the worry is i'm going on my honeymoon in 5 weeks...

HI all..

Both me and my hubby own are own home and a few years ago there was alot of trouble with some of the neighbours down the street..They were so bad that the police ended up evicting them with the help from the council at the time..We then went on the buy are home was living here with all the other neighbours peacefully..Until the house was empty opp set my had a to let sign on ..And yes the neighbours from hell moved in i spoke to the landlord and he told me that they had already done the paper work and he can't do anything about them...But gave us his number if we needed it...Well all not even two weeks after them moved in one of three of there kids was causing trouble with some neighbours and bullying my two kids with others...We phoned the landlord he had a chat with them..Then two months after that the mother of the house hit our parked car and didn't even bother to come and say sorry we had to knock on her door to sort the problem out...Then her husband moves back in the ex drug dealer?? that maybe still selling at the house??..We have had nothing but trouble with the mini motorbikes up and down our street..we have spoken to the landlord and he tells us that he has to give a reason for not renewing her contact..and the mini motorbikes is not a reason he can give her to not renew the contact and the reasons that me and another neighbours (neighbourhood watch )..It still looks like he going to keep them at the house....Can anyone give us any advice as i can't sell the house we live in...And i'm on anti-depression tablets and made miscarriage with all the stress...

All these problems are in a space of 8 months..Does anyone think that the landlord will not renew there contact as he told me that he does care about the neighbours and doesn't want to upset us all..

The Police got two of there mini motorbikes but as the lads told the police them can buy another one...Thats what this family like....

HI all..

Both me and my hubby own are own home and a few years ago there was alot of trouble with some of the neighbours down the street..They were so bad that the police ended up evicting them with the help from the council at the time..We then went on the buy are home was living here with all the other neighbours peacefully..Until the house was empty opp set my had a to let sign on ..And yes the neighbours from hell moved in i spoke to the landlord and he told me that they had already done the paper work and he can't do anything about them...But gave us his number if we needed it...Well all not even two weeks after them moved in one of three of there kids was causing trouble with some neighbours and bullying my two kids with others...We phoned the landlord he had a chat with them..Then two months after that the mother of the house hit our parked car and didn't even bother to come and say sorry we had to knock on her door to sort the problem out...Then her husband moves back in the ex drug dealer?? that maybe still selling at the house??..We have had nothing but trouble with the mini motorbikes up and down our street..we have spoken to the landlord and he tells us that he has to give a reason for not renewing her contact..and the mini motorbikes is not a reason he can give her to not renew the contact and the reasons that me and another neighbours (neighbourhood watch )..It still looks like he going to keep them at the house....Can anyone give us any advice as i can't sell the house we live in...And i'm on anti-depression tablets and made miscarriage with all the stress...

All these problems are in a space of 8 months..Does anyone think that the landlord will not renew there contact as he told me that he does care about the neighbours and doesn't want to upset us all..

HI all..

Both me and my hubby own are own home and a few years ago there was alot of trouble with some of the neighbours down the street..They were so bad that the police ended up evicting them with the help from the council at the time..We then went on the buy are home was living here with all the other neighbours peacefully..Until the house was empty opp set my had a to let sign on ..And yes the neighbours from hell moved in i spoke to the landlord and he told me that they had already done the paper work and he can't do anything about them...But gave us his number if we needed it...Well all not even two weeks after them moved in one of three of there kids was causing trouble with some neighbours and bullying my two kids with others...We phoned the landlord he had a chat with them..Then two months after that the mother of the house hit our parked car and didn't even bother to come and say sorry we had to knock on her door to sort the problem out...Then her husband moves back in the ex drug dealer?? that maybe still selling at the house??..We have had nothing but trouble with the mini motorbikes up and down our street..we have spoken to the landlord and he tells us that he has to give a reason for not renewing her contact..and the mini motorbikes is not a reason he can give her to not renew the contact and the reasons that me and another neighbours (neighbourhood watch )..It still looks like he going to keep them at the house....Can anyone give us any advice as i can't sell the house we live in...And i'm on anti-depression tablets and made miscarriage with all the stress...

HI..I have been with ROOFTOP mortgage company for 3 years now..My ex partner left my house almost 2 years ago leaving me and the kids to cope..I have arrears of almost £1800 pounds..I have had a miscarriage and would like to know if i could ring my mortgage company up and ask for a holiday which i could miss payments on my house and try and get upto date with the arrears...Will they allow this??

HI..I have been with ROOFTOP mortgage company for 3 years now..My ex partner left my house almost 2 years ago leaving me and the kids to cope..I have arrears of almost £1800 pounds..I have had a miscarriage and would like to know if i could ring my mortgage company up and ask for a holiday which i could miss payments on my house and try and get upto date with the arrears...Will they allow this??

HI

We had a miscarriage 11days ago...I was 5 weeks pregnant and the baby passed naturally...My bleeding stop 8 days ago and ever since then we have been trying for another baby...I have heard that you are more fertile after a miscarriage? Has this happened to any off you..

Also i need some advice as since my miscarriage apart from my best friends and my hubby...Nobody cares even my hubby Mum and dad and sister don't care i don't and didn't get a call asking if we were alright....Since having my miscarriage 11 days ago i'm really low and when on my own i can't stop thinking about it...With the way how my hubby's family have treated this am i being upset for to long??

Both me and my best friend think that they have treated me horrible...

After trying for nearly two years for a baby we got lucky only to find that 5 weeks pregnant we had a miscarriage...The baby passed naturally....The question i'm asking is i had my miscarriage 10 days ago the bleeding stopped tues just gone....But my monthly cycle is usually on the 12th of every month...But i still haven't come on my period....Will the miscarriage change my cycle or have we got lucky and got pregnant again....I'm still grieving for our baby....but to know that we are pregnant would make us so happy...as we are getting married in 5 weeks...

I also heard that when you have a miscarriage that you are more fertile

After trying for nearly two years for a baby we got lucky only to find that 5 weeks pregnant we had a miscarriage...The baby passed naturally....The question i'm asking is i had my miscarriage 10 days ago the bleeding stopped tues just gone....But my monthly cycle is usually on the 12th of every month...But i still haven't come on my period....Will the miscarriage change my cycle or have we got lucky and got pregnant again....I'm still grieving for our baby....but to know that we are pregnant would make us so happy...as we are getting married in 5 weeks...

I also heard that when you have a miscarriage that you are more fertile?

Me and my hubby was trying for a baby for almost 2 years..And when we found out that we was having a baby we was over the moon...We found out last Monday and by wednesday we was losing blood and having bad pains...We lost our baby on Saturday when we went to the hospital..When they did an internal they said my womb was closed and that i passed the baby natural...As you can imagine we are all heartbroken....I have heard that you are more fertile after a miscarriage is this true?

Hi..

Me and my boyfriend have been trying for 2 years for this baby...I'm 7 weeks pregnant and i'm having pains in my tummy and lower back on one side...This is my third baby...I have a girl and boy from a different relationship...

Also i know that its very early i'm really bloated and my clothes are very tight..will this ease? i know i'm going to put weight on but after 7 weeks and my clothes are tight now..Is this nomal to be bloated at this stage..and will the bloated go.

UK Please.

Hi all.

I'm 32 and have two kids...My ex partner left us over two and half years ago..just went with and left me and kids with the mortgage..He is finally giving me £50 per week. now but the damage has already been done...As when he left i was to busy paying utility bills that i couldn't pay for my catalogues...So now my credit rating is very poor...My house is now almost 2K in arrears and i don't know what to do...All this has sent me over the edge And have been off work with depression due to being abused as a child buy both parents and all the stress that my Ex has done..Its killing me knowing that my son has rips in his only coat..I was going to sell the house and go back to rented accommodation but i have been told that i have to have a credit check...I have tried to contact the local council in Warrington...Wigan that local areas but they have a waiting list of 15K...All i want to do is be happy with my kids and look to the future but its not looking hope-full

UK Question

Hi

Two weeks ago someone crashed into the back of my car and both cars was written off..Today i have received cheque from the insurance company...I will be putting it into my bank account in the morning...I just wanted to know as i have to pick my other car up this Friday...and wanted to know can i withdraw the 2K for my new car? Or how long do i have to wait..

Thank you

We (me and my hubby) had an accident on Friday 13th Feb, where a car hit the back of my car - writing the two off! Bear in mind that my car was no old banger, but the damage sustained was so much that it wrote it off.

When the accident occurred, I was driving. I had to perform an emergency stop because an on-coming car came speeding and overtaking a parked van - it missed me by an inch! After about 6+ seconds, a Punto smashed into the back of us and didn't seem to have slowed down at all (distracted by the other car perhaps).

Almost straight away, I had pains in my neck and arms, yet my hubby was OK. It was only a few hours later when he started to have pains. So far we have both been suffering from Neck Pains (unable to rotate our necks), Pains in the arms, banging headaches, constant lower back pain. I have also been having Panic Attacks.

We have been to the Doctors and he diagnosed us both with Whiplash, and the insurance company assigned us legal representation (luckily I insist on having Legal Protection on the insurance).

My question is - how much are we likely to be paid out? Normally I hate people who claim needlessly, but we have both been suffering really badly. My hubby has had to have time off work (over a week so far as his job entails lots of lifting) and the car has been written off and we have gotten a lot less than it is worth.

We are not looking to claim needlessly, but are claiming for the injuries we are suffering with almost a week later. We know that we have to see an independent doctor in 5-6 weeks too.

What is the usual payout for this type of claim?

We are on a tight budget for our wedding?

Hi all

Me and my boyfriend are getting married this year..We live in Warrington area,but getting married in Wigan UK..We are having around 14 people coming to the wedding..But the only thing that is keeping me up at night is the meal after the wedding..We are on a tight budget and would like to know if anyone knows of any places in the two areas that do cheap set meal... I was hoping for around £10 -£15 per head...Also if we telling the place will they done alittle something with the tables for do we have to pay extra for that?

I'm so stressed with it all,,

Hi all

Me and my boyfriend are getting married this year..We live in Warrington area,but getting married in Wigan UK..We are having around 14 people coming to the wedding..But the only thing that is keeping me up at night is the meal after the wedding..We are on a tight budget and would like to know if anyone knows of any places in the two areas that do cheap set meal... I was hoping for around £10 -£15 per head...Also if we telling the place will they done alittle something with the tables for do we have to pay extra for that?

I'm so stressed with it all,,