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i slept with my best friend's older brother one night after talking to him for somewhere between 3-6 hrs, he was good in bed, and i talked to my friend about it, and he said he said the same about me and nothing more, well, i was thinking about maybe sleeping with him again, maybe be *buddies*, but then i talked to my friend and he said if i kept sleeping w/his brother he would probably want to start dating me and care about me, but that he didn't care what i did as long as i didn't hurt him (because i had always had a crush on their oldest brother *sigh*, what a family), oh, i just got out of a 1 year 1 month relationship w/a not so good guy and i'm 20, my friend is 22, and his brother is 25, what should i do? advice?

i'm technically "obese" at 5' 1" and 189lbs. and i'm currently going to college full time but all of my time is consumed by doing homework/getting distracted while i try to do homework and then passing out and waking up for my early classes the next day, etc. so I was wondering if anyone had good advice on how to lose weight while still keeping up with my schoolwork? i'm currently counting calories, using SlimFast shakes, and trying to create a calorie deficit of 500 cals. per day to lose about 1lb. per week but i can't seem to get any exercise into my routine since i spend more time than a person should trying to keep myself concentrated on finishing my homework. HELP?!