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A hwy trooper pulled over my brother for "selt belt" validation (turns out it wasn't). I was sitting in the back, the trooper informed me and my brother to pull our hands up and shut up. Which we complied, the trooper said that he was going to frisk us, as he pulled us I informed him that I was carrying my pistol and that I do have a Permit. The trooper pulled out his gun pointed at my head and said that he was going to shot me if im lying about the permit. he called for back up and SIX more squad car came. He then hand cuffed and frisked me...he told me that this was procedure, which he did not check for the permit until an hour later. Other police officers just ask to see the permit and that would be it. Was the trooper right on his "procedure"? State was MN

My wife refuse sex and when we do "do it" she's not into it, always complain about it, and NEVER seem to enjoy it. I know it's not my manhood because I'm more exp then her. We are in our mid 20's and fairly good looking people. So I don't see the reason why... is this normal? Should I move on? She spend more time with friends and families then me. I feel alone in this marriage.

FYI: We've been together for 10yrs and it's been like this from day one.