Nicole C

Long story short I have an associate, close associate who's sons father lets call him Derrick is hitting on me. She is fully aware that he is hitting on me because he tells her that he likes me. As if that is not bad enough Derrick is related to the guy that I am currently dating. Derrick has been trying to get "with me" for the about 4 years now, I always turn him down, even before I started dating his cousin Terry. The problem is he still will not stop trying. It is never out right but he makes it known to both me and his sons mother that he wants to test the waters. My problem is Terry talks about him from time to time and with rather high regard, Terry's family is rather close. I feel like I am doing something wrong, even though I have never and will never give Derrick what he wants. I feel like I should tell Terry about Derrick it just does not sit right with me that he does not know and that Derrick will not stop. He says that he does not care that I am dating Terry. My question is should I tell Terry about Derrick? Why or why not, my heart says that I should but my mind says that I should just let it rest. I do not see Derrick very often and he does not have a means of contacting me other than when we are both at my associates house?

Need immediate advice. Well I have been with my bf for just under a year. Just before Thanksgiving I moved in with him, we had been spending a lot of time together I practically lived there. Anyway, he knows that holidays and bdays mean a lot to me. I told him that I was going to come see him tomorrow (Xmas Eve), he basically said that he did not want me to come over. I asked why and he first said that he just wanted time to himself and that I was just at his house the other day. He told me to come the day after Christmas the thing is that I have to work that day and I have XMas and Xmas Eve off. I told him that this is the perfect way for me to spend time with him and my family. He still would not budge, he said that he wanted to finish cleaning his room. But that is bull as we all know, because at first he said that he just wanted to be alone. I am really tying to keep our relationship together. We have had some really big falling outs lately, so much so that I recently moved out and opted to go into the shelter after the holidays. I am so angry how could you not want to spend XMas Eve with your girlfriend, I think that he is going to do something that he has no business doing like something with another woman. I just cannot believe that he is not willing to spend XMas Eve with me, I even told him that I made a meal for us. What do you think about it am I just being over sensative with him.

I am just trying to help a friend get some exposure. Are there any sites that allow you to upload your music (for free) and allow you to perhaps makes some money from people downloading your songs? Any suggestions would be greatly apprieciated.

I have this co worker who is constantly looking at what I am doing, commenting on things answering questions for me, looking at what I am doing all of the time. I just wanna tell her to mind her f**cking business, or just get up and slap her. Where I am from minding other peoples business can and will get you hurt. I just want her to mind her business come to work and not say anything to me unless I say something to her first.

This lady BonnyRogue posted a question to which I answered and was very defensive about the answer that I gave. Correct me if I am wrong but there is no way to know for sure that the person you are with is not cheating on you unless you spend every moment of your day with them. The only that you have is faith in your mate and relationship that it is not happening but that does not mean that it is not happening.

I MET HIM AT A PARTY AND WE CLICKED IMMEDIATELY, HE CALLS BUT HE NOT REALLY A "PHONE PERSON" AND OUR SCHEDULES DONT SEEM TO BE VERY FORGIVING I HAVE SEEN HIM ABOUT 2 IN A MONTHS TIME. I WENT TO HIS HOUSE AND SPENT THE NIGHT IT WASNT PLANNED WE HAPPENED TO FALL ASLEEP AND NOW HE MAY BE LEAVING TO ANOTHER STATE FOR AT LEAST A MONTH DUE TO PERSONAL PROBLEMS BUT I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE TOUCH WITH HIM WHAT SHOULD I SAY OR DO WITHOUT COMING ON TOO STRONG AND SCARING HIM AWAY?