behrmark

When you're seeing someone, do you have to feel that spark or see the fireworks to keep seeing him/her? Or does that come in time? And if it is required how long before you cut him/her loose once you realize that it's not going to go anywhere for you?

In my experience it does not recognize proper nouns, contractions, and punctuation such as quote marks. I find it very annoying and would like to make it go away. Can I?

When you answer a question that's spot on then someone who answered before you edits his/her answer to something similar...and they get more thumbs up than you?

It's just not fair.

I'm mid-40's and tired of working. I want someone to take care of me and afford me the life of leisure I deserve complete with gardener, housekeeper, cook, and a monthly allowance. What are my chances and are there any takers? lol

I recently started chatting with this guy and last night he asked what I was doing and I told him chatting with him and other friends. He actually got upset that I was chatting with other guys. He's 20 so it could just be an age thing but he told me he's really into me.

So in your online relationships, have you ever had a problem with a jealous friend? What did you do about it?

Since the fundies want to amend the state constitution to repeal the GLBT community's right to marry, did God curse us with an earthquake?

The ____ in the ____ makes me feel ____.

For example, those gay cruise ads always show smooth 20-something muscle guys. Why aren't there ads directed to the average bear? Or to the average gay man/lesbian?

A new study shows that gays in the military is unlikely to undermine the ability to fight and win.

http://www.cnn.com/2008/US/07/07/military.gays.ap/...

Will the Don't Ask Don't Tell ban be repealed and the right to serve openly be granted? Your thoughts?

I'm thinking of designing an inverted rollercoaster with a LGBT theme. What would be a good name to attract our LGBT brothers and sisters?

I've had the condition for about 6 weeks and my doctor only gave advice (ice it, don't take the stairs, use tylenol/ibuprofen for pain). I'm wondering if massage therapy would help - either with pain management or the healing process.

When my one gay couple friends invite me over I always take a "thank you" gift since they always provide plenty of food and spirits. In the past I've taken flowers, a live plant, wine, gin, even a dessert for one of their many parties...but I feel stuck in a rut with those ordinary gifts.

While it's true we've played together, I don't want to take anything sexual. Movies are out since they have an incredible collection of 33mm films. Anyone have some good ideas that aren't too cliched?

I want to get my bf a "big" Christmas gift but can't decide what to do. I'm torn between getting his car axle/brakes repaired and a Disneyland annual pass.

He's currently unemployed but hopes to find a job in early 2008. I want him safe on the roads. On the other hand, I'd like he and I to be able to go to Disneyland as often as we want.

What would you do??

Cultural differences aside, who thinks the Christian Right will remain silent on this story but still make noise about same-sex marriage? Can the religious pundits really talk about the sanctity of marriage after this?

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071113/ap_on_fe_st/in...

I'm trying to get rid of an old sofa, an old sofa bed, and an old recliner. I put them out in the front yard with hopes someone would buy them for cheap or even just take them but no dice. I don't necessarily want money for them. So I'm wondering if the Out of the Closet thrift store takes furniture?

The unofficial California "Gay Days" will be held Oct 6 & 7 this year.

Do two people need to see eye-to-eye on what's right versus what's wrong to have a successful relationship?

I have a young friend who considers himself "partnered" with a guy who he met one month ago. I'm not being judgmental, just curious as to the consensual opinion in our community. Does being partnered equate to dating? Or am I being old-fashioned?

In other words...you meet someone and you like him (or her). And you flirt but don't really feel anything but you keep flirting in hopes that you will start feeling something. How do you know when flirting becomes leading the other person on? What do you do when you realize that you don't feel something but, because of your flirting, the other person does?

Is there always a glint of hope or should one be resigned to a life of singleness?