Julia

Hi all, I have a problem. I have been dating a guy for about 9 months now and we are very into each other. The big problem is he is my younger brothers friend. My brother doesn't know about it. Now I know you're gonna say, if you really like each other then tell your brother so that you can continue seeing each other without feeling guilty about it... It wouldn't happen like that. My brother is a very super sensitive guy when it comes to anything along the lines such as this. Now for another thing.. this guy is almost 6 years younger than me... I keep thinking maybe we should just end it.. but when I see him I completely lose that thought and fall for him all over again.

recently, I went for almost a month without seeing him, and I thought I should just grow up and find someone my age who is ready to settle down and have a family and whatnot, so I decided to join match.com. i cancelled my subscription right away but the site is still giving me three months. Now, there is a guy that I noticed on there that seems to be looking for the same things as myself and he sent me a message. It's completely brand new, and he knows what he is looking for. I haven't done anything as of yet, but I'm not sure what I SHOULD do... I want a family, I want kids.. I'm 28 years old. I know I can't wait until my brothers friend decides he wants that... by that time I will probably be in my mid 30s.. and even then, would he still be with me? I don't want to wait for him for years and then have to find someone else. Sorry for any miss spelling and grammar..

What do you do when you have been with the same guy for three years, but now it just feels like you are his cook, his maid and whatnot? and he has totally stopped doing anything for me, and just expects me to do it all for him?? im getting really frusterated and i have tried talking to him about it numerous times, but i cant get through to him...